Or a peak outside. Good morning, neighbors. I hope you enjoy the view.
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Saturday, October 5, 2019
Tuesday, September 24, 2019
TMI Tuesday: September 24, 2019
How is it already time for TMI Tuesday again? The last week was a blur.
Expectations
Ash:
1. What makes you insecure?
Society's view of the perfect body and my anxiety.
2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect my partner to give as much effort as I do in a relationship. I expect my partner to show that they care. I expect my partner to make time for me. Quality time and touch are my love languages.
3. What do you expect from a friendship?
I expect my friends to show that they care about me when I'm struggling and to make time for me.
4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I expect my FWB to use protection with their other sexual partners so that they don't put me at risk and to get tested for STIs regularly.
5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
I expect myself to be honest, friendly, and helpful to those that deserve it.
Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.
Husband:
1. What makes you insecure?
Being asked to demonstrate skills, being in front of large groups of people and the center of attention.
2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect love languages to be attempted to be met, meaning trying to accommodate a partner's love language needs. Communication, honesty, intimacy, sex, compassion, support.
3. What do you expect from a friendship?
Basically the same things as with a romantic love relationship, but without the intimacy and sex.
4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I don't even know what I would expect from a friend with benefits situation; I suppose everything from a romantic love relationship, minus the intimacy.
5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
To provide for my family whatever is in my power to give them, to be a decent human being, to always stay young at heart.
Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Expectations
Ash:
1. What makes you insecure?
Society's view of the perfect body and my anxiety.
2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect my partner to give as much effort as I do in a relationship. I expect my partner to show that they care. I expect my partner to make time for me. Quality time and touch are my love languages.
3. What do you expect from a friendship?
I expect my friends to show that they care about me when I'm struggling and to make time for me.
4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I expect my FWB to use protection with their other sexual partners so that they don't put me at risk and to get tested for STIs regularly.
5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
I expect myself to be honest, friendly, and helpful to those that deserve it.
Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.
Husband:
1. What makes you insecure?
Being asked to demonstrate skills, being in front of large groups of people and the center of attention.
2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect love languages to be attempted to be met, meaning trying to accommodate a partner's love language needs. Communication, honesty, intimacy, sex, compassion, support.
3. What do you expect from a friendship?
Basically the same things as with a romantic love relationship, but without the intimacy and sex.
4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I don't even know what I would expect from a friend with benefits situation; I suppose everything from a romantic love relationship, minus the intimacy.
5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
To provide for my family whatever is in my power to give them, to be a decent human being, to always stay young at heart.
Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
TMI Tuesday: September 17, 2019
TMI Tuesday - Do your thang!
I'm going to do my thang by going back to last week when I missed the TMI Tuesday questions.
Ash:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.
a. We don't do this as often as we should. I do try more often than Husband does but we could both do better. We tend to not be on our phones when we eat out at a restaurant though.
b. We go on family bike rides, hikes, and other outdoor activities. We have also worked out at home together occasionally. I'd love to do this more often but he doesn't have a lot of time for it.
c. We don't often kiss for an extended amount of time, especially in the morning.
2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
When Husband broke up with his boyfriend, Trystan, I was heartbroken. I had fallen in love with Trystan and Husband just didn't feel the same way. There was a lot of emotional pain to sort through during that time. Things got very dark and cold between Husband and myself. I knew we would eventually pull through but Husband didn't think we would. I still hurt but I've moved on.
3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
It's definitely between the first two. I love hotel sex. It's pretty amazing. I've never stayed in a posh romantic hotel suite but I love the thought of it. Then again, the beach is my favorite place. I love the ocean so very much. One of my unfulfilled fantasies is having sex on the beach, however, I don't like the idea of getting sand in my vagina. So, it would depend on the surroundings. Are we actually in the sand or is there a nice little hut or something? That would be the deciding factor.
4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I hate orgasm denial. Husband enjoys doing it every once in a while and it annoys me every time. If I'm going to cum, then why not let me cum? I see it this way, if you keep edging me for an hour, then I only get to have one orgasm once we are finished. If you allow me to cum when I want, then I could have multiple orgasms during that time. I don't understand why you would choose the former over the latter.
5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
Where I live.
Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
Nah, Husband usually gives me exactly what I want. The stuff that he can't give me (sex with a woman) isn't something that I'd ever want to pay for.
Husband:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.
A, C, B -n/a I would like to do more and longer kissing for sure, however I do a lot of hugging. Hopefully we can start exercising together at some point.
2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
There are many times when I feel helpless, and the majority of those times I have a difficult time feeling like I am going to pull through. I wish it was as easy as just knowing things were going to be okay, but most of the times it just doesn't. The cloud is too dark, and things feel too hard. Thankfully those times I don't rely on hope or the light at the end of the tunnel, I don't look up, keep my eyes on my feet and plod along, one foot in front of the other for as long as it takes to make it out alive.
3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
I would much rather be in a fancy hotel, and the biggest reason for that is that I can stay in comfort and not have to worry about cleaning up after ourselves. I know that it may seem rude, but this way I won't have to worry about ruining our own bedding!
4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I have practiced orgasm denial on Wife. It is fun to keep bringing her close to orgasm and then stopping and then going at it again, just to hear her beg. However after talking about it later, it ended up not being as appealing to me as in the moment, because it was unpleasant for her. If I would do it again, it would be short term denial.
5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
I doubt I would ever tell you how much I hurt.
Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
I don't have to pay any money to have the kind of sex I want when I want it, because Wife is amazing and her body is magical.
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I'm going to do my thang by going back to last week when I missed the TMI Tuesday questions.
Ash:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.
a. We don't do this as often as we should. I do try more often than Husband does but we could both do better. We tend to not be on our phones when we eat out at a restaurant though.
b. We go on family bike rides, hikes, and other outdoor activities. We have also worked out at home together occasionally. I'd love to do this more often but he doesn't have a lot of time for it.
c. We don't often kiss for an extended amount of time, especially in the morning.
2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
When Husband broke up with his boyfriend, Trystan, I was heartbroken. I had fallen in love with Trystan and Husband just didn't feel the same way. There was a lot of emotional pain to sort through during that time. Things got very dark and cold between Husband and myself. I knew we would eventually pull through but Husband didn't think we would. I still hurt but I've moved on.
3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
It's definitely between the first two. I love hotel sex. It's pretty amazing. I've never stayed in a posh romantic hotel suite but I love the thought of it. Then again, the beach is my favorite place. I love the ocean so very much. One of my unfulfilled fantasies is having sex on the beach, however, I don't like the idea of getting sand in my vagina. So, it would depend on the surroundings. Are we actually in the sand or is there a nice little hut or something? That would be the deciding factor.
4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I hate orgasm denial. Husband enjoys doing it every once in a while and it annoys me every time. If I'm going to cum, then why not let me cum? I see it this way, if you keep edging me for an hour, then I only get to have one orgasm once we are finished. If you allow me to cum when I want, then I could have multiple orgasms during that time. I don't understand why you would choose the former over the latter.
5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
Where I live.
Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
Nah, Husband usually gives me exactly what I want. The stuff that he can't give me (sex with a woman) isn't something that I'd ever want to pay for.
Husband:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.
A, C, B -n/a I would like to do more and longer kissing for sure, however I do a lot of hugging. Hopefully we can start exercising together at some point.
2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
There are many times when I feel helpless, and the majority of those times I have a difficult time feeling like I am going to pull through. I wish it was as easy as just knowing things were going to be okay, but most of the times it just doesn't. The cloud is too dark, and things feel too hard. Thankfully those times I don't rely on hope or the light at the end of the tunnel, I don't look up, keep my eyes on my feet and plod along, one foot in front of the other for as long as it takes to make it out alive.
3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
I would much rather be in a fancy hotel, and the biggest reason for that is that I can stay in comfort and not have to worry about cleaning up after ourselves. I know that it may seem rude, but this way I won't have to worry about ruining our own bedding!
4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I have practiced orgasm denial on Wife. It is fun to keep bringing her close to orgasm and then stopping and then going at it again, just to hear her beg. However after talking about it later, it ended up not being as appealing to me as in the moment, because it was unpleasant for her. If I would do it again, it would be short term denial.
5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
I doubt I would ever tell you how much I hurt.
Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
I don't have to pay any money to have the kind of sex I want when I want it, because Wife is amazing and her body is magical.
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Sunday, September 8, 2019
Sinful Sunday: Little
A couple months ago, Jacob bought this lingerie for me. I finally got around to trying it on, so I took some pictures for him.
I really love how this lingerie makes me feel so little and innocent. It makes me feel like I should have a lollipop in my mouth.
Go check out the other sinners on this lovely Sinful Sunday. Kiss the lips below.
Tuesday, September 3, 2019
TMI Tuesday: September 3, 2019
Would You Rather, TMI Tuesday edition!
Ash:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
This is a pretty shit question. I'm probably going to be the one that dies first but I'd rather not be. Losing Husband would be very hard though. I'd like to say, "Can't we just die together?" I wouldn't want to put my kid through that though. Losing both parents at the same time would be awful.
2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would rather live at the top of a mountain, though I hope it isn't too tall because I'm cold intolerant and thin air is a bitch.
3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I love the idea of growing my own food! I kill every plant I touch though. So, I'd rather sew all of my clothes.
4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would definitely choose good health.
5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I don't have a boss, so I guess it would be fuck my neighbor by default. It's okay, I have a couple hot neighbors.
Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I share things from my love life pretty openly already. I don't have anything to hide.
Husband:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
When I'm old I would rather survive Wife, if only to spare her the heartache she may suffer at my loss. I would hope that somehow if it is required that we pass, that we would be able to do it together. We have had discussions about who we think is going to live longer before many times. Wife always says she is going to die first. I am always saying that I just refuse to die.
2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would most definitely choose to live on the top of a mountain over a tall apartment or city. Preferably not a really high altitude mountain because I don't want to deal with thin air or real cold temperatures. I imagine the morning and afternoon views would be breathtaking.
3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I like to grow food, but don't know how reliable or well I could supply sustenance with that grown food. I think I would rather grow food. Wife could then sew clothes. She has a black thumb, so her growing would yield less than her sewing skills and abilities would provide clothing.
4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would choose guaranteed good health for a decade. Financially we do better than a lot of our peers because we live within our means almost all of the time. I would much rather have good health guaranteed because I'll be more able to enjoy the time I have without worrying about health issues.
5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I'd rather fuck one of my neighbors. I'm not a fan of my boss, and not someone I find attractive.
Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I'll go with love life being made public because that is pretty much how I live now. I end up sharing (or oversharing) with people I work with or know when the conversation steers that way. I usually do not start the conversations with others because of fear of making someone uncomfortable, but if the conversation is started by others I don't have any problems joining in.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Ash:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
This is a pretty shit question. I'm probably going to be the one that dies first but I'd rather not be. Losing Husband would be very hard though. I'd like to say, "Can't we just die together?" I wouldn't want to put my kid through that though. Losing both parents at the same time would be awful.
2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would rather live at the top of a mountain, though I hope it isn't too tall because I'm cold intolerant and thin air is a bitch.
3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I love the idea of growing my own food! I kill every plant I touch though. So, I'd rather sew all of my clothes.
4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would definitely choose good health.
5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I don't have a boss, so I guess it would be fuck my neighbor by default. It's okay, I have a couple hot neighbors.
Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I share things from my love life pretty openly already. I don't have anything to hide.
Husband:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
When I'm old I would rather survive Wife, if only to spare her the heartache she may suffer at my loss. I would hope that somehow if it is required that we pass, that we would be able to do it together. We have had discussions about who we think is going to live longer before many times. Wife always says she is going to die first. I am always saying that I just refuse to die.
2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would most definitely choose to live on the top of a mountain over a tall apartment or city. Preferably not a really high altitude mountain because I don't want to deal with thin air or real cold temperatures. I imagine the morning and afternoon views would be breathtaking.
3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I like to grow food, but don't know how reliable or well I could supply sustenance with that grown food. I think I would rather grow food. Wife could then sew clothes. She has a black thumb, so her growing would yield less than her sewing skills and abilities would provide clothing.
4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would choose guaranteed good health for a decade. Financially we do better than a lot of our peers because we live within our means almost all of the time. I would much rather have good health guaranteed because I'll be more able to enjoy the time I have without worrying about health issues.
5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I'd rather fuck one of my neighbors. I'm not a fan of my boss, and not someone I find attractive.
Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I'll go with love life being made public because that is pretty much how I live now. I end up sharing (or oversharing) with people I work with or know when the conversation steers that way. I usually do not start the conversations with others because of fear of making someone uncomfortable, but if the conversation is started by others I don't have any problems joining in.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Tuesday, August 27, 2019
TMI Tuesday: August 27, 2019
I disliked the TMI Tuesday questions for this week, so I'm going back a month to a set that we missed.
Ash:
1. If you were a sex worker what kind of sex work would you NOT do?
I would not do anything with fluid exchange. Everything would have to be protected. I've actually wanted to be a sex worker since I was a teenager. I'm not sure where I would fit in though.
2. You are a sex worker and you must have a specialty. Which ONE of the following would be your specialty and why?
a. Live sex shows
b. Professional domination
c. Camming
Well, I suck at domination because I am very submissive. I'm also pretty shit at video chatting, so I'm sure I would be awful at camming (even though I really want to do it). So, I guess the thing I'd be best at is live sex shows.
3. What is your secret fetish?
I sometimes fantasize about watersports. I have never tried it and don't know if I ever will but it pops up in my head every once in a while.
4. Anal sex can be pretty alluring? Tell the truth, which do you prefer, anal or vaginal sex?
I enjoy anal every once in a while but I love vaginal sex.
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you have said during sex?
Probably one of the times that I said I wished there was another person fucking me at the same time that my partner was. My fantasies sometimes slip out at the moment and I don't realize that they may make people feel like they aren't good enough. That's definitely not what I mean though.
Bonus: Is your g-spot in your ass? If no, where is it?
My g-spot is most definitely not in my ass. It is located on the front wall of my vagina.
Husband:
1. If you were a sex worker what kind of sex work would you NOT do?
I don't believe I would have it in me to be a sex worker. It's never been something I've thought about doing. I don't think it would be for me.
2. You are a sex worker and you must have a specialty. Which ONE of the following would be your specialty and why?
a. Live sex shows
b. Professional domination
c. Camming
If I must have one of these specialties, I guess I would choose live sex shows. I've been part of a few group sex adventures and I know it isn't really the same, but I know that I used to be uncomfortable with other people around during those times, but I've reached a point where it doesn't bother me anymore.
3. What is your secret fetish?
I don't have a secret fetish. Anytime I have come across something that excites me I've brought it up with Wife.
4. Anal sex can be pretty alluring? Tell the truth, which do you prefer anal or vaginal sex?
I truly do enjoy anal sex, but despite how much I enjoy it, I do prefer vaginal sex more. Wife has a truly magical pussy.
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you have said during sex?
I get really embarrassed during sex when I am talking dirty and I stumble over words and they come out messed up.
Bonus: Is your g-spot in your ass? If no, where is it?
The g spot is not in the ass, even before I was knowledgeable about sex I didn't think it was in the ass.
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Ash:
1. If you were a sex worker what kind of sex work would you NOT do?
I would not do anything with fluid exchange. Everything would have to be protected. I've actually wanted to be a sex worker since I was a teenager. I'm not sure where I would fit in though.
2. You are a sex worker and you must have a specialty. Which ONE of the following would be your specialty and why?
a. Live sex shows
b. Professional domination
c. Camming
Well, I suck at domination because I am very submissive. I'm also pretty shit at video chatting, so I'm sure I would be awful at camming (even though I really want to do it). So, I guess the thing I'd be best at is live sex shows.
3. What is your secret fetish?
I sometimes fantasize about watersports. I have never tried it and don't know if I ever will but it pops up in my head every once in a while.
4. Anal sex can be pretty alluring? Tell the truth, which do you prefer, anal or vaginal sex?
I enjoy anal every once in a while but I love vaginal sex.
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you have said during sex?
Probably one of the times that I said I wished there was another person fucking me at the same time that my partner was. My fantasies sometimes slip out at the moment and I don't realize that they may make people feel like they aren't good enough. That's definitely not what I mean though.
Bonus: Is your g-spot in your ass? If no, where is it?
My g-spot is most definitely not in my ass. It is located on the front wall of my vagina.
Husband:
1. If you were a sex worker what kind of sex work would you NOT do?
I don't believe I would have it in me to be a sex worker. It's never been something I've thought about doing. I don't think it would be for me.
2. You are a sex worker and you must have a specialty. Which ONE of the following would be your specialty and why?
a. Live sex shows
b. Professional domination
c. Camming
If I must have one of these specialties, I guess I would choose live sex shows. I've been part of a few group sex adventures and I know it isn't really the same, but I know that I used to be uncomfortable with other people around during those times, but I've reached a point where it doesn't bother me anymore.
3. What is your secret fetish?
I don't have a secret fetish. Anytime I have come across something that excites me I've brought it up with Wife.
4. Anal sex can be pretty alluring? Tell the truth, which do you prefer anal or vaginal sex?
I truly do enjoy anal sex, but despite how much I enjoy it, I do prefer vaginal sex more. Wife has a truly magical pussy.
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you have said during sex?
I get really embarrassed during sex when I am talking dirty and I stumble over words and they come out messed up.
Bonus: Is your g-spot in your ass? If no, where is it?
The g spot is not in the ass, even before I was knowledgeable about sex I didn't think it was in the ass.
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Sunday, August 18, 2019
Sinful Sunday: Filth
It was a long hot day. It feels good to wash the filth from our bodies. Well, maybe not all the filth.
Check out who else is sinning by kissing the lips below.
Check out who else is sinning by kissing the lips below.
Thursday, August 15, 2019
Kink of the Week: Summer
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| "I remember every moment of those endless summer nights. I still recall the walks along the beaches And the way your hair would glisten in the sun Rising in the afternoon Making love to you under the moon." - Richard Marx |
My favorite season is summer. I am pretty sure that I love it more than the average person. Hot sun, swimming, barbecues, and long days. Those are just a few of the things I love about summer. I may love summer but do I consider summer a kink for me? I'm not sure. Maybe?
I love spending time outdoors in the summer. Going to outdoor nudist events is always fun and my most favorite summer activity is swimming. Naked pool parties are the best! While a lot of people would rather sit inside in the air-conditioned house, I prefer to be outside. So, what do I love so much about being outdoors in the summer? The hot sun makes me feel very warm inside, which in turn makes me feel horny. I love feeling the sun on my skin. The warm weather is like a big hug wrapped around my whole body. It turns me on so much and I just can't get enough.
Summertime definitely puts me in a good mood. I have seasonal affective disorder, which means that I'm very depressed in the winter but very happy in the summer. It could be that I feel extra sexy and turned on in the summer because my mood is better. Or could it be something more?
The hot days of summer mean dressing in less clothing. People show a lot more skin in the summertime, which makes my mind go to dirty places a lot more often. There are many women walking around in summer dresses, which is fantastic. That gets my heart racing for sure. I love wearing summer dresses as much as I love admiring other women in summer dresses. Short shorts, crop tops, bikinis, and sandals. All of these are wonderful things we get to enjoy when the weather is hot.
Not only do I love the hot summer days, but I also love the warm summer nights. I absolutely love to sleep with the windows open on warm summer nights. Lying in bed and feeling the breeze blow across my body feels so erotic. I remember being turned on by this even when I was very young. I would sleep in the nude, toss my blanket off, lie there next to the open window and just get lost in that feeling. This also comes into play when Husband and I have sex outside on our balcony. Feeling the breeze on my skin while he is fucking me is almost too much to take. Fuck, it's just amazing.
I've known people who just can't tolerate having sex when it's too warm. I love it, though. In the winter, the house is always cold and I don't want to come out from under the covers to have sex. This always creates an awkward situation where I try to have sex while still wrapped up in a blanket burrito. In the summer, the house is warm, so I can toss the blanket off of me with no problem. We are also nudists, so walking around the house in the nude is a lot easier when it's warm. We tend to wear a lot more clothing in the fall and winter out of necessity.
Now that I've talked about the things that I enjoy doing, maybe I should list a few things that I fantasize about doing in the summertime. I want to have sex on the beach. Sure, it sounds cliché, but I have such a connection with the ocean that I just think it would be really amazing to have sex next to it. I would love to have a romantic picnic that includes some hot outdoor sex. One of my biggest fantasies, though, is having sex while stargazing on a warm summer night. Maybe this outs me as a country girl at heart but I would love to lie in the bed of a pickup truck, listening to music, looking up at the stars, cuddling with my partner, and then having it turn into some hot fucking. Yes, please. I have been fantasizing about that since I was a teenager. Maybe I need to start dating someone who owns a truck!
So, maybe summer isn't exactly a kink for me but I do very much enjoy it. I wish I could live in a place where it's summer all year round. I wouldn't even miss the changing of the seasons. Give me all the sundresses and swimming pools. I'll be quite content.
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Tuesday, August 13, 2019
TMI Tuesday: August 13, 2019
Welcome to a new week and a new TMI Tuesday.
Ash:
1. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Why? Sex is a difficult topic for partners to discuss, yet sex can draw couples closer together.
Well, I think sex is a difficult topic for most people to discuss. I usually don't have an issue talking about it though. I probably talk about it too much. If I'm discussing a problem with our sex life, that can be a little uncomfortable because I'm not sure how my partner will react. Sex can draw couples together but only if those people have a healthy sex life and actually enjoy having sex. Sex definitely makes me feel closer to my partner and it's something I need with any partner I have. Relationships without sex just don't work for me.
2. Who did you first come out to and why did you choose that person?
I came out as bisexual to my mom first because I knew she would understand. She was also bisexual.
3. Has someone come out to you? What was your reaction?
I have had quite a few people come out to me over the last 20 years. I have had friends come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender. I've been nothing but supportive of each of them. I always give them all the love.
4. Recent studies show that smartphones are causing decreased intimacy among partners. In your relationship is the smartphone a saboteur or helping hand?
Honestly, smartphones do negatively impact the intimacy level in my marriage. There are times when we have alone time and we use it to play around on our phones instead of communicating with each other. I tend to catch up on Twitter or play a game on my phone at night to wind down and disconnect from the stress of the day. Husband usually takes that as a signal that I'm not interested in sex, which isn't true. I'm sure there are a lot of changes that we could make when it comes to smartphone use to improve the intimacy in our relationship.
5. Tell us something that you do that could cause someone to say “What Will the Neighbors Think?”.
I walk around my house naked with the curtains open. I also have sex on my balcony when the weather is nice.
6. What was your most recent motivation for masturbation?
I saw a very hot video on Twitter and it turned me on.
Bonus: Do you regularly view porn? What’s regular?
Yes, I view porn almost daily on Twitter.
Husband:
1. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Why?
Sex is a difficult topic for partners to discuss, yet sex can draw couples closer together.
I agree. Despite being raised with the understanding that sex is for procreation only, among many other stipulations, I know that sex is a great thing that doesn't just need to be used to breed like the Duggars. Just because I know that sex is just sex doesn't mean all that learning hasn't affected my thought processes. I still have a hard time bringing up sex in conversation. I do most definitely believe sex can draw couples closer together, but that is reliant on how important sex is for that person. Sex for me is the ultimate connection between a partner and myself because touch is my most prominent love language. This I know is only for me speaking, not for any partner.
2. Who did you first come out to and why did you choose that person?
The first person I came out to was Wife, who was then Girlfriend. I chose to come out to her because I felt comfortable with her. I felt comfortable sharing feelings that I had kept private and hidden up until that time.
3. Has someone come out to you? What was your reaction?
I don't think anyone has come out to me. I think I tend to hear about people coming out through the grapevine, never actually firsthand.
4. Recent studies show that smartphones are causing decreased intimacy among partners. In your relationship is the smartphone a saboteur or helping hand?
I feel like at this point me blaming anything on a phone is just me being lazy about dealing with my circumstances. I've been lazy an awful lot lately.
5. Tell us something that you do that could cause someone to say “What Will the Neighbors Think?”.
Being nudists is easily one of the first things I think of that throws people off. I've had so much random negativity about it, that I spend more time sounding defensive than actually being informative for the people who are curious.
6. What was your most recent motivation for masturbation?
Probably not having sex.
Bonus: Do you regularly view porn? What’s regular?
No. I used to watch it on Wife's phone when she would scroll through Twitter, but lately, I've been falling asleep. I don't even know what "regular" viewing of porn is. I feel like any input I have here would throw off the curve, like having a zero factored into your grade average.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Ash:
1. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Why? Sex is a difficult topic for partners to discuss, yet sex can draw couples closer together.
Well, I think sex is a difficult topic for most people to discuss. I usually don't have an issue talking about it though. I probably talk about it too much. If I'm discussing a problem with our sex life, that can be a little uncomfortable because I'm not sure how my partner will react. Sex can draw couples together but only if those people have a healthy sex life and actually enjoy having sex. Sex definitely makes me feel closer to my partner and it's something I need with any partner I have. Relationships without sex just don't work for me.
2. Who did you first come out to and why did you choose that person?
I came out as bisexual to my mom first because I knew she would understand. She was also bisexual.
3. Has someone come out to you? What was your reaction?
I have had quite a few people come out to me over the last 20 years. I have had friends come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender. I've been nothing but supportive of each of them. I always give them all the love.
4. Recent studies show that smartphones are causing decreased intimacy among partners. In your relationship is the smartphone a saboteur or helping hand?
Honestly, smartphones do negatively impact the intimacy level in my marriage. There are times when we have alone time and we use it to play around on our phones instead of communicating with each other. I tend to catch up on Twitter or play a game on my phone at night to wind down and disconnect from the stress of the day. Husband usually takes that as a signal that I'm not interested in sex, which isn't true. I'm sure there are a lot of changes that we could make when it comes to smartphone use to improve the intimacy in our relationship.
5. Tell us something that you do that could cause someone to say “What Will the Neighbors Think?”.
I walk around my house naked with the curtains open. I also have sex on my balcony when the weather is nice.
6. What was your most recent motivation for masturbation?
I saw a very hot video on Twitter and it turned me on.
Bonus: Do you regularly view porn? What’s regular?
Yes, I view porn almost daily on Twitter.
Husband:
1. Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Why?
Sex is a difficult topic for partners to discuss, yet sex can draw couples closer together.
I agree. Despite being raised with the understanding that sex is for procreation only, among many other stipulations, I know that sex is a great thing that doesn't just need to be used to breed like the Duggars. Just because I know that sex is just sex doesn't mean all that learning hasn't affected my thought processes. I still have a hard time bringing up sex in conversation. I do most definitely believe sex can draw couples closer together, but that is reliant on how important sex is for that person. Sex for me is the ultimate connection between a partner and myself because touch is my most prominent love language. This I know is only for me speaking, not for any partner.
2. Who did you first come out to and why did you choose that person?
The first person I came out to was Wife, who was then Girlfriend. I chose to come out to her because I felt comfortable with her. I felt comfortable sharing feelings that I had kept private and hidden up until that time.
3. Has someone come out to you? What was your reaction?
I don't think anyone has come out to me. I think I tend to hear about people coming out through the grapevine, never actually firsthand.
4. Recent studies show that smartphones are causing decreased intimacy among partners. In your relationship is the smartphone a saboteur or helping hand?
I feel like at this point me blaming anything on a phone is just me being lazy about dealing with my circumstances. I've been lazy an awful lot lately.
5. Tell us something that you do that could cause someone to say “What Will the Neighbors Think?”.
Being nudists is easily one of the first things I think of that throws people off. I've had so much random negativity about it, that I spend more time sounding defensive than actually being informative for the people who are curious.
6. What was your most recent motivation for masturbation?
Probably not having sex.
Bonus: Do you regularly view porn? What’s regular?
No. I used to watch it on Wife's phone when she would scroll through Twitter, but lately, I've been falling asleep. I don't even know what "regular" viewing of porn is. I feel like any input I have here would throw off the curve, like having a zero factored into your grade average.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Sunday, August 11, 2019
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