Tuesday, September 24, 2019

TMI Tuesday: September 24, 2019

How is it already time for TMI Tuesday again? The last week was a blur.

Expectations



Ash:
1. What makes you insecure?
Society's view of the perfect body and my anxiety.

2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect my partner to give as much effort as I do in a relationship. I expect my partner to show that they care. I expect my partner to make time for me. Quality time and touch are my love languages.

3. What do you expect from a friendship?
I expect my friends to show that they care about me when I'm struggling and to make time for me.

4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I expect my FWB to use protection with their other sexual partners so that they don't put me at risk and to get tested for STIs regularly.

5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
I expect myself to be honest, friendly, and helpful to those that deserve it.

Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.




Husband:
1. What makes you insecure?
Being asked to demonstrate skills, being in front of large groups of people and the center of attention.

2. What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
I expect love languages to be attempted to be met, meaning trying to accommodate a partner's love language needs. Communication, honesty, intimacy, sex, compassion, support.

3. What do you expect from a friendship?
Basically the same things as with a romantic love relationship, but without the intimacy and sex.

4. What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
I don't even know what I would expect from a friend with benefits situation; I suppose everything from a romantic love relationship, minus the intimacy.

5. What expectations do you have for yourself?
To provide for my family whatever is in my power to give them, to be a decent human being, to always stay young at heart.

Bonus: Post one picture (art, photograph, drawing) that depicts how you feel today.


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Tuesday, September 17, 2019

TMI Tuesday: September 17, 2019

TMI Tuesday - Do your thang!

I'm going to do my thang by going back to last week when I missed the TMI Tuesday questions.




Ash:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.

a. We don't do this as often as we should. I do try more often than Husband does but we could both do better. We tend to not be on our phones when we eat out at a restaurant though.
b. We go on family bike rides, hikes, and other outdoor activities. We have also worked out at home together occasionally. I'd love to do this more often but he doesn't have a lot of time for it.
c. We don't often kiss for an extended amount of time, especially in the morning.

2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
When Husband broke up with his boyfriend, Trystan, I was heartbroken. I had fallen in love with Trystan and Husband just didn't feel the same way. There was a lot of emotional pain to sort through during that time. Things got very dark and cold between Husband and myself. I knew we would eventually pull through but Husband didn't think we would. I still hurt but I've moved on.

3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
It's definitely between the first two. I love hotel sex. It's pretty amazing. I've never stayed in a posh romantic hotel suite but I love the thought of it. Then again, the beach is my favorite place. I love the ocean so very much. One of my unfulfilled fantasies is having sex on the beach, however, I don't like the idea of getting sand in my vagina. So, it would depend on the surroundings. Are we actually in the sand or is there a nice little hut or something? That would be the deciding factor.

4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I hate orgasm denial. Husband enjoys doing it every once in a while and it annoys me every time. If I'm going to cum, then why not let me cum? I see it this way, if you keep edging me for an hour, then I only get to have one orgasm once we are finished. If you allow me to cum when I want, then I could have multiple orgasms during that time. I don't understand why you would choose the former over the latter.

5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
Where I live.

Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
Nah, Husband usually gives me exactly what I want. The stuff that he can't give me (sex with a woman) isn't something that I'd ever want to pay for.



Husband:
1. Which of these do you do the most with your significant other? List in order of frequency from done the most to performed less frequently. If you don’t engage in any of this with your significant other write N/A (not applicable)
a. Eat meals with your significant other without smartphones, tablets, TV or any device.
b. Exercise together
c. Share a morning kiss that lasts longer than six seconds.

A, C, B -n/a I would like to do more and longer kissing for sure, however I do a lot of hugging. Hopefully we can start exercising together at some point.

2. Briefly tell us about a time when things felt helpless but you knew you would pull through.
There are many times when I feel helpless, and the majority of those times I have a difficult time feeling like I am going to pull through. I wish it was as easy as just knowing things were going to be okay, but most of the times it just doesn't. The cloud is too dark, and things feel too hard. Thankfully those times I don't rely on hope or the light at the end of the tunnel, I don't look up, keep my eyes on my feet and plod along, one foot in front of the other for as long as it takes to make it out alive.

3. Would you rather have sex in a posh romantic hotel suite, on a secluded tropical beach or in your own bedroom? Why?
I would much rather be in a fancy hotel, and the biggest reason for that is that I can stay in comfort and not have to worry about cleaning up after ourselves. I know that it may seem rude, but this way I won't have to worry about ruining our own bedding!

4. Have you practiced orgasm denial? Did you like it? Would you do it again?
I have practiced orgasm denial on Wife. It is fun to keep bringing her close to orgasm and then stopping and then going at it again, just to hear her beg. However after talking about it later, it ended up not being as appealing to me as in the moment, because it was unpleasant for her. If I would do it again, it would be short term denial.

5. Finish this line: I doubt I will ever tell you _____.
I doubt I would ever tell you how much I hurt.

Bonus: Would you pay good money to have the kind of sex you want, when you want?
I don't have to pay any money to have the kind of sex I want when I want it, because Wife is amazing and her body is magical.

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Sunday, September 8, 2019

Sinful Sunday: Little

A couple months ago, Jacob bought this lingerie for me. I finally got around to trying it on, so I took some pictures for him.

I really love how this lingerie makes me feel so little and innocent. It makes me feel like I should have a lollipop in my mouth.




Go check out the other sinners on this lovely Sinful Sunday. Kiss the lips below.
Sinful Sunday

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

TMI Tuesday: September 3, 2019

Would You Rather, TMI Tuesday edition!




Ash:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
This is a pretty shit question. I'm probably going to be the one that dies first but I'd rather not be. Losing Husband would be very hard though. I'd like to say, "Can't we just die together?" I wouldn't want to put my kid through that though. Losing both parents at the same time would be awful.

2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would rather live at the top of a mountain, though I hope it isn't too tall because I'm cold intolerant and thin air is a bitch.

3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I love the idea of growing my own food! I kill every plant I touch though. So, I'd rather sew all of my clothes.

4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would definitely choose good health.

5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I don't have a boss, so I guess it would be fuck my neighbor by default. It's okay, I have a couple hot neighbors.

Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I share things from my love life pretty openly already. I don't have anything to hide.



Husband:
1. When you’re old, would you rather die before or after your significant other?
When I'm old I would rather survive Wife, if only to spare her the heartache she may suffer at my loss. I would hope that somehow if it is required that we pass, that we would be able to do it together. We have had discussions about who we think is going to live longer before many times. Wife always says she is going to die first. I am always saying that I just refuse to die.

2. Would you rather live at the top of a tall apartment building, in your favorite city, or at the top of a mountain?
I would most definitely choose to live on the top of a mountain over a tall apartment or city. Preferably not a really high altitude mountain because I don't want to deal with thin air or real cold temperatures. I imagine the morning and afternoon views would be breathtaking.

3. Would you rather have to sew all your clothes or grow your own food?
I like to grow food, but don't know how reliable or well I could supply sustenance with that grown food. I think I would rather grow food. Wife could then sew clothes. She has a black thumb, so her growing would yield less than her sewing skills and abilities would provide clothing.

4. Would you rather have your debt forgiven or have guaranteed good health for a decade?
I would choose guaranteed good health for a decade. Financially we do better than a lot of our peers because we live within our means almost all of the time. I would much rather have good health guaranteed because I'll be more able to enjoy the time I have without worrying about health issues.

5. Would you rather take a bubble bath with your boss or fuck your neighbor?
I'd rather fuck one of my neighbors. I'm not a fan of my boss, and not someone I find attractive.

Bonus: Would you rather have the details of your financial life or your love life be made public?
I'll go with love life being made public because that is pretty much how I live now. I end up sharing (or oversharing) with people I work with or know when the conversation steers that way. I usually do not start the conversations with others because of fear of making someone uncomfortable, but if the conversation is started by others I don't have any problems joining in.

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