TMI Tuesday: February 11, 2025

It's time for TMI Tuesday: Preparing the Body Edition. 

1. Do you prefer your lover:

a) fresh from the bath and perfumed?

b) fresh from the bath without perfume?

c) clean but not right from the tub or shower?

d) slightly sweaty (or musky)?

Either B or C. I'm not a fan of perfume and cologne. And if you're exploring your partner's body with your mouth, added scents can make them taste icky. I don't need my partner fresh out of the bath but sometimes that is nice. As long as they are clean, I'm fine. 

2. Do you maintain your body for sex with respect to facial hair, body hair, pubic hair, fingernails or toenails?

I try my best to do this. I trim my pubic hair and shave my legs & armpits. I keep my fingernails cut short when I'm expecting to have sex with my girlfriend. And I try to always keep my toenails neatly trimmed. 

3. Do you maintain/prepare according to your lover’s preferences?

I do my best to accommodate. Though, I haven't shaved/waxed my pubes completely off in like 20 years. So, if my partner asked me to do that, I'm not sure what I would do. I might try it. 

4. Do you have body adornments such as piercings or tattoos for sexual reasons? Does your lover?

I don't have any tattoos and I don't think any of my piercings are sexual. My girlfriend used to have her nipples pierced, so I guess that's kind of sexual. She took them out though. 

5. Do you choose any cosmetics, lubes, condoms or other sexually relevant items according to how they taste? Do you not use them because of the taste?

I don't use condoms for oral sex because I can't stand the way they taste. 

6. Is there a taste or aroma that turns you on or that you can use to turn on your lover?

I think vanilla is a turn on for me. I'm not sure if my partners have any preferences. 

Bonus: Do you prepare a room for sex–mood music, candles, scent, cleaning it or anything? Tell us about it.

I used to do music but I found that a lot of people don't like that. They like to hear the sounds of sex instead. I have been known to light candles or turn on special mood lights in my room.