TMI Tuesday: February 11, 2025

It's time for TMI Tuesday: Preparing the Body Edition. 

1. Do you prefer your lover:

a) fresh from the bath and perfumed?

b) fresh from the bath without perfume?

c) clean but not right from the tub or shower?

d) slightly sweaty (or musky)?

Either B or C. I'm not a fan of perfume and cologne. And if you're exploring your partner's body with your mouth, added scents can make them taste icky. I don't need my partner fresh out of the bath but sometimes that is nice. As long as they are clean, I'm fine. 

2. Do you maintain your body for sex with respect to facial hair, body hair, pubic hair, fingernails or toenails?

I try my best to do this. I trim my pubic hair and shave my legs & armpits. I keep my fingernails cut short when I'm expecting to have sex with my girlfriend. And I try to always keep my toenails neatly trimmed. 

3. Do you maintain/prepare according to your lover’s preferences?

I do my best to accommodate. Though, I haven't shaved/waxed my pubes completely off in like 20 years. So, if my partner asked me to do that, I'm not sure what I would do. I might try it. 

4. Do you have body adornments such as piercings or tattoos for sexual reasons? Does your lover?

I don't have any tattoos and I don't think any of my piercings are sexual. My girlfriend used to have her nipples pierced, so I guess that's kind of sexual. She took them out though. 

5. Do you choose any cosmetics, lubes, condoms or other sexually relevant items according to how they taste? Do you not use them because of the taste?

I don't use condoms for oral sex because I can't stand the way they taste. 

6. Is there a taste or aroma that turns you on or that you can use to turn on your lover?

I think vanilla is a turn on for me. I'm not sure if my partners have any preferences. 

Bonus: Do you prepare a room for sex–mood music, candles, scent, cleaning it or anything? Tell us about it.

I used to do music but I found that a lot of people don't like that. They like to hear the sounds of sex instead. I have been known to light candles or turn on special mood lights in my room. 

TMI Tuesday: February 4, 2025

It's time for TMI Tuesday: Happy Endings Edition.

Ash:

1. What is the best way you like to be brought to orgasm?

I guess that answer depends on what kind of orgasm we are talking about. If we are talking about a clitoral orgasm, then I love anything to do with hands and fingers. Rubbing my clit with your fingers is definitely a good way to make me cum very hard. I can also have an orgasm from vaginal penetration. For that, my favorite thing is to be fucked very hard. That's sure to induce a fountain of pleasure.

2. What is the best way to make you orgasm quickly?

I'm not really sure how to answer that. I'm very orgasmic. If you're putting effort into what you're doing, I will cum over and over and over again pretty easily and quickly. So, I guess that's the answer. Be passionate and put effort into what you're doing. Make noises to show how much I'm turning you on or how much you are enjoying having sex with me. If you do that, it will be a very good time.

3. What is the typical or usual way that a lover chooses to bring you to orgasm?

I feel like my partners usually want to give me cunnilingus to make me orgasm. I'm not saying that I don't enjoy oral sex. I really do. It's just not a way that will get me off quickly. If you finger my pussy at the same time, it will go quicker but it will still take a while. And I definitely don't cum as hard from oral sex. 

4. After a night of sexy play, how do you like to end the evening?

I'll be honest, after sex I'm usually the one that is passing out. All those orgasms make me tired. My favorite thing to do after a night of sex is to cuddle and sleep close together even if it's just for a little nap. My other favorite thing is that Husband always gets a warm wet washcloth to clean me up after we have sex and that makes me feel very loved and cared for. Sometimes I'm already passed out by the time he comes back and he wakes me up. Haha!

5. Have you ever been given a “happy ending” from a professional (e.g., Tantric massage) or at an erotic massage parlor?

Nope. I've never experienced any of that.

Bonus: Do you like to give erotic “happy endings”? Tell us about your technique.

I'm assuming this means that I give someone an orgasm after I massage them? Usually, this is the other way around for me. But I would not be opposed to doing that if it's someone I had an intimate relationship with. I would prefer to give a blow job but I'd also be up for other ideas.

Husband:

1. What is the best way you like to be brought to orgasm?

The way I best like to be brought to orgasm is to be ridden. There is something about having Wife on top of me grinding away all wet and slippery, me pounding up into Wife, bodies smacking together, her moaning and making wonderfully intimate noises that pull at me. Wife crying out her pleasure, her spilling warmth all over my body and me going and filling her with my hot wet mess.

2. What is the best way to make you orgasm quickly?

I believe the best way to get me to orgasm quickly is a little bit of foreplay, a lot of mental buildup and excitement about getting to dive into sex, and then just a smidge of being forced to wait a teenie bit longer before being allowed to slide into a wet pussy. From there going hard and fast, almost pulling all the way out with each stroke, and slamming home where hip hits hip.

3. What is the typical or usual way that a lover chooses to bring you to orgasm?

The typical way to bring me to orgasm is through sex, almost always one way or another actual penetrative sex is involved. Most of the time it is continuing penetration until orgasm, other times it is getting right to the point of orgasm and I finish with my hand. I have never finished by oral, no matter how much I have wished I could. I am still hopeful that one day this can happen.

4. After a night of sexy play, how do you like to end the evening?

After a night of sexy play, I will typically do a little cleanup, and grab a small sweet snack and a drink before rushing back to the bed to bathe in the warmth and scents of pleasure achieved. When I get the opportunity to lay down and fall asleep in a wet spot that I helped to make that is the absolute best and my favorite.

5. Have you ever been given a “happy ending” from a professional (e.g., Tantric massage) or at an erotic massage parlor?

I have only had one, maybe two, professional massages. None of which resulted in a happy ending. With the difficulty I have orgasming a "happy ending" for me would involve straight-up sex, and that is not something I am comfortable with. If this was with a partner I would definitely be all for a happy ending after a massage!

Bonus: Do you like to give erotic “happy endings”? Tell us about your technique.

I like to transition massages into potential happy endings when it is okay. Using my strength to tease out the little pleasure noises by working through the muscles and tension is highly intoxicating to me and I do my best to hold all of that in. I enjoy the switch of unlocking the physical tightness and going into a wet tightness.

TMI Tuesday: November 26, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday, lovelies!

Time for TMI Tuesday: Thoughts During Sex Edition

1) What was the last fantasy you thought about while masturbating?

A certain person's hands touching me all over my body.

2) Do you think about fantasies while playing with your partner?

Yes, I do. If something hot and steamy has been on my mind, I will most definitely think about that during sex with my partner.

3) If the sex isn’t that great do you find your mind wanders? If yes, to what?

Yes, I'm definitely more likely to do number 2 if this is the case. If you aren't enthusiastic when having sex with me, my mind will wander to other things. If you're lucky, it will wander to other sexy things that turn me on. Occasionally though, I will lose interest and just not have a good time at all. But I'll usually be nice and let you finish.

4) Have you ever thought about a previous partner while with another?

Yes, this has happened a few times. I don't think I've ever called anyone by the wrong name though.

5) What is the biggest turn-off thought that has barged into your head at the wrong moment?

Mom responsibilities. I hate remembering things I have to do as a mom when I'm trying to have sex. It's the biggest mood killer.

Bonus: If you were to think of another blogger during sexual play (intercourse, masturbating, etc.) to spice things up, who would it be? (put a link to their blog so we can all go think of them)

Oh, definitely Molly. She inspires me, intrigues me, and turns me on. She's so lovely.

TMI Tuesday: November 5, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday from Ash and Mia!

Now, it's time for TMI Tuesday: Vacation Edition!

Ash:

1. Do you have more sex or less sex when on vacation?

I usually have more sex while on vacation, or at least want more sex. Vacations make me super horny. Well, let's be honest, everything makes me super horny.

2. Do you plan a vacation so that you will have an opportunity to have sex?

I like to try to make plans that allow me the opportunity to have sex. That's not always easy when you have a kid. It's always on my mind even if it doesn't work out.

3. Have you ever planned a vacation in order to meet someone for sex?

Yes, I have planned vacations in order to meet up with someone that I wanted to have sex with. I've done this a few times and it's always been pretty amazing. I'm actually hoping to plan another one sometime soon.

4. Have you ever gone on a singles’ cruise or some other hookup-facilitating vacation?

I don't think that's really my scene. I've been invited to a lot of swinger-type events like this but I'm not really into it. The idea is definitely exciting though. Who knows, maybe I will one day.

5. Have you had sex on a means of transportation other than a car: bus, train, airplane, cruise ship?

I have not and I feel like it's a huge missed opportunity. I would like to experience all of these. Though, I don't think the airplane one seems feasible. Those bathrooms are way too small and I have a lot of ass. I have masturbated on a bus before though.

6. Have you had outdoor sex on a camping, hiking, skiing, or boating vacation?

Yes! I absolutely love fucking on camping trips. Outdoor sex is one of my favorites. I have also had sex on a hiking trip. I don't ski but I'd love to experience some boat sex as well.

Bonus:  Do you pack sex toys, lubes (3.4 oz bottles or less), etc when you fly? Do you think about TSA finding them? Has TSA ever found them and questioned you about your sexual aids or displayed them? Tell us about it.

I have packed a lot of sex toys in my bags when I fly. Prior to 9/11, I once packed some handcuffs in my bags. I doubt those would still be allowed. But I still pack vibrators, dildos, and lube when I travel. Those are essential. TSA has never said anything about them, but I have gotten some smiles.

Mia:

1. Do you have more sex or less sex when on vacation?

Oh, definitely more! Something about being on vacation with all those feel-good vibes makes me extra horny. It’s like my brain's already on a pleasure high, so I just want all the fun.

2. Do you plan a vacation so that you will have an opportunity to have sex?

Absolutely! Isn’t that part of the fun? Who doesn’t look forward to some distraction-free, uninhibited hotel fun adventures? Exploring new places and each other, yes please!

3. Have you ever planned a vacation in order to meet someone for sex?

No, I haven’t, but the idea definitely turns me on. Just imagining it, a getaway filled with antici…pation and pleasure sounds thrilling. 

4. Have you ever gone on a singles’ cruise or some other hookup-facilitating vacation?

Nope, haven’t tried it. A vacation full of flirty encounters and hookups sounds thrilling, but honestly, also a bit terrifying. My mind might be up for the adventure, but I think my nerves would be another story. I might just end up being the shy one in the corner even if my inner slut is screaming to dive in lol.

5. Have you had sex on a means of transportation other than a car: bus, train, airplane, cruise ship?

No, I haven’t…. Yet! Those airplane bathrooms are definitely not built for all this booty! But I can’t lie, the thought of slipping my hand under a girl’s blanket mid flight, rubbing her clit, teasing her and watching her try to stay quiet… Just imagining her squirming as we both pretend nothing’s happening gives me all the tingles. 

6. Have you had outdoor sex on camping, hiking, skiing, or boating vacation?

Yes, I tried to enjoy some steamy outdoor fun with my ex-husband while camping once until a gang of hungry raccoons decided to crash the party! 😂 True story. Let’s just say they totally killed the mood but it’s a hilarious memory now. 

Bonus:  Do you pack sex toys, lubes (3.4 oz bottles or less), etc when you fly? Do you think about TSA finding them? Has TSA ever found them and questioned you about your sexual aids or displayed them? Tell us about it.

Yes, absolutely! When I visit my family in Puerto Rico for a couple of weeks, I can't go without a little help. When you're used to 5 to 7 orgasms a day, it’s a must. So I always bring a tiny, discreet but powerful! bullet vibrator. TSA hasn’t stopped me about it yet, but honestly, I wouldn’t mind if they did. It’s an essential travel item! Lol 

Husband:

1. Do you have more sex or less sex when on vacation?

I think the goal is always to have more sex on vacation, I think maybe planning a vacation to somewhere other than family would work better for this. That being said, I absolutely love having sex in my old room when at my parents. It is the guest room we always stay in when we visit.

2. Do you plan a vacation so that you will have an opportunity to have sex?

This isn't something I ever thought to do, or specifically include into the planning of a vacation. I feel like not needing to worry about being involved in scouting things later on would open up more possibilities for plans to do this.

3. Have you ever planned a vacation in order to meet someone for sex?

I've never planned a vacation to meet someone to have sex.

4. Have you ever gone on a singles’ cruise or some other hookup-facilitating vacation?

I think the closest to this would have been the nudist camp I attended with Wife years ago. While that was not the goal or the intent of the trip I think that some of the other people that were there had intended that.

5. Have you had sex on a means of transportation other than a car: bus, train, airplane, cruise ship?

I've never had sex on transportation things. I think it would be fun to pull off any of those so long as we don't get in trouble.

6. Have you had outdoor sex on camping, hiking, skiing, or boating vacation?

Outdoor sex is incredible; feeling connected to nature while indulging in sex is extra exciting. The possibility fucking during a storm with rain pouring down while out in the wilderness is intense. I feel like a skiing vacation would be fun in a hot secluded cabin, minus the skiing part. I'd be up to try for sex during a boating vacation, though I feel like my anxiety would probably get in the way. 

Bonus:  Do you pack sex toys, lubes (3.4 oz bottles or less), etc when you fly? Do you think about TSA finding them? Has TSA ever found them and questioned you about your sexual aids or displayed them? Tell us about it.

I think when we flew to Mexico we had lube and vibrators with us along with condoms. I didn't worry about TSA finding them because I didn't think it would have been a problem other than maybe a little awkwardness. I think our bag did get searched on the way through customs and the vibrators were right there on top inside the bag; the inspectors didn't seem to care about it at all.

TMI Tuesday: October 8, 2024

Here we are on another glorious Titty Tuesday. I really liked the way my makeup looked in the black and white filter but I hate how my areolas basically disappear.

Anyway, it's time for TMI Tuesday: Who's Counting?

1. Do you/have you ever kept track of the number of people you have been with?

Yes, I do keep track. I have an actual list with names. 

2. To get specific, How many people have you –

a. slept with?

19

b. kissed (in a romantic way, obviously)?

Oh, wow. I have no idea. I've kissed a lot of people. Maybe like 50?

c. given oral to?

I'm not sure about this one either but I could give it a guess. I went through a phase of blowing people just for fun when I was young. Ummm...let's say 40.

d. received oral from?

I'm pretty sure this number is 20.

3. What is the most amount of people you have been with at one time? (twosome, threesome, foursome, etc)

I've had a few foursomes and I've had a lot of threesomes. I have been in an orgy setting with seven total people but I only had sex with three of them myself.

4. Have you ever had multiple partners on the same day, just different times? (One person in the morning, another at lunch, and one at dinner, etc)

Yes, I've had sex with three people in one day at different times. I love that.

Bonus: Describe your best multiple-person encounter, either something that actually happened or one that you would want to happen. Or both. 😉

I have a huge bukkake fantasy. Just cover me in cum. Make me drown in it. I also have a big gang bang fantasy. Just lots of cocks filling me with cum until it's overflowing out of my pussy. Mmmm. Yes, please.

TMI Tuesday: September 24, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

1. Answer Yes or No:

I Regret My First Kiss: Yes, because it was a dare. I would have rather had my first kiss with someone who actually wanted to kiss me.

I Miss My First Love: Yes, even though he doesn't deserve me because he's an abusive asshole.

I Married My First Love: No, he was the second person I have loved.

I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me: I loved someone who technically loved me but he is gay so, I guess not in the same way.

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?

I am polyamorous.

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?

a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.

b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…

c. That would never happen!

C. I would probably say, "I'm really tired so you have to do most of the work."

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?

I have never asked my partners this but the only partner I have done this next to is Husband. He has never expressed that he doesn't like it though.

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:

a. You are playful and tame

b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys

c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

Something between B and C.

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.

When Husband and I had phone sex while he was out of town for work. You can read about that here.

TMI Tuesday: September 10, 2024

As usual, we will start this off with a Titty Tuesday photo.

And now it's time for TMI Tuesday: College Stereotypes Edition

1) Have you ever been sexiled? (To be sexiled is to be denied the use of your room, usually dorm room, because someone is having sex there.)

I have never been sexiled but I have been known to sexile others a few times.

2) Were you ever hit on (propositioned) by someone in your circle of friends who knew you were in a relationship with someone else?

Yes, many times. My friends used to hit on me a lot. In their defense, I am polyamorous and I do really like fucking my friends.

3) Did you ever date someone for sex only, i.e. in hopes of a 1-night stand?

I have never been in search of a one-night stand, but I have dated someone just because I wanted sex. I much prefer having friends with benefits than random one-night stands.

4) Were you ever involved in a regrettable sexual incident where alcohol or drugs were involved?

I did give a lot of blow jobs when I was young because I was drunk. Alcohol makes Ash 10x more horny than normal Ash, if you can imagine that. Drunk Ash is a lot.

5) Did you ever see a porn movie in an actual movie theater? Did you ever see porn on home movie (8mm) before the age of videotape?

I have not done either of these.

6) Did you ever discuss the prowess of a sex partner with a friend? Did the friend also have a history with the same person?

I mean, I have a sex blog. I tell everyone about the prowess of my sex partners. Haha! But yes, before the blog times, I often told stories to my friends about my sex partners. I don't think the friends ever had a history with the same person though.

Bonus: Many heterosexuals ‘experiment’ in college by having their first same-sex encounter? If you are heterosexual did you have your first same-sex sexual experience in college? Did you like it? What did you do? Are you hetero-flexible or did you become bisexual?

I've been openly bisexual since I was 14 years old. I had my first kiss with a girl in college and I absolutely loved it. I was actually a bit obsessed for a while and masturbated often to thoughts of that girl. It never went further than that in college though. Not for lack of trying. I frequently hung out in gay bars and hit on women constantly. The plight of the bisexual though, is that lesbians rarely want to play with you because you also have sex with men. I dated a few women back then but the homosexual sexy times didn't happen until I was an adult.

TMI Tuesday: July 23, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's been a while. Things in my life haven't been great but I'm working through them as best as I can. I figured I'd try to get back into writing here and the easiest way to do that was with a TMI Tuesday post.

Mia will be joining me for today's questions. A big thank you to her because she wasn't feeling up to doing it but she pushed through and made it happen for me. 

Ash:

1. From erotica to sex blogs, everyone seems to be having intense orgasms. Do you feel like you are experiencing the same intense orgasmic waves everyone talks about?

Right now? Not at all. I'm in a very deep depression and it has robbed my life of all sexual joy. But usually, yes. I have been told that I'm a very orgasmic person. I can cum from both penetration & clitoral stimulation and my orgasms are very powerful. Hopefully I get back to that point soon.

2. At the beginning of our sexual lives, we are often let down because it feels like nothing in comparison to what we see in films and magazines. Sexual pleasure is something you learn more about as you get older. How have you learned to cultivate the pleasure that you feel?

My first orgasm was a complete surprise, so I didn't really have an idea of what sexual pleasure was like before that. I was just masturbating because it felt good and then I felt the wave of pleasure through my body. I had no idea what it was. I didn't even know that women could orgasm. From there, I just kept touching myself and learning what I like. I've never been afraid to tell my partners that I'd like to try new things. It's all about experimenting and learning what feels good to you.

3. In the last 3 years, has your sexual pleasure:

a. waned

b. stayed the same

c. increased, enhanced, improved

I would say it's waned. It's kind of been a roller coaster ride. It's gotten better in the last six months, but it's definitely not as good as it was five years ago. I think there's just too much emotional baggage that needs to be dealt with. It's caused me to be more timid, insecure, and not let loose as much as I used to.

4. If you are feeling much more sexual pleasure than your lover do you feel the need to make up the deficit or just live in the moment and enjoy what has been given to you?

I will definitely feel the need to make up for the deficit but only if my partner is up for that.

5. How important is it to you for you and your lover to have simultaneous orgasms?

a. not important – never thought about it

b. somewhat important – I think it would be nice to explode at the same time

c. important – that is what I ‘work’ for, cumming at the same time makes everything more intense–my orgasm, my feelings, the entire experience.

Somewhere between B and C. I absolutely love cumming at the same time my partner does but it's okay if that doesn't happen. I do tend to work for that when I am having sex with a man though. And anytime it happens with Mia, it blows my mind. It's so intense but it's also harder to do with a woman.

Bonus: Do you think that having an orgasm is the same as sexual pleasure? Why or why not?

No. Orgasms should not always be the goal because sometimes they just don't happen for lots of reasons and that's okay. There is so much sexual pleasure that takes place when being intimate with your partner. It's not just about the orgasm.

Mia:

1. From erotica to sex blogs, everyone seems to be having intense orgasms. Do you feel like you are experiencing the same intense orgasmic waves everyone talks about?

I do experience intense orgasms. I joke and say that my soul leaves my body.

2. At the beginning of our sexual lives, we are often let down because it feels like nothing in comparison to what we see in films and magazines. Sexual pleasure is something you learn more about as you get older. How have you learned to cultivate the pleasure that you feel?

Just by keeping an open mind and allowing myself to try new things. That's how I've learned what I like.

3. In the last 3 years, has your sexual pleasure:

a. waned

b. stayed the same

c. increased, enhanced, improved

I'd say C. Especially since a certain beautiful girl came into my life. Her name rhymes with splash, just like the way she... Nevermind. 

4. If you are feeling much more sexual pleasure than your lover do you feel the need to make up the deficit or just live in the moment and enjoy what has been given to you?

I would feel the need to make up for it. I always feel the need to prioritize my partner's pleasure and I would feel bad if it felt better for me than my partner.

5. How important is it to you for you and your lover to have simultaneous orgasms?

a. not important – never thought about it

b. somewhat important – I think it would be nice to explode at the same time

c. important – that is what I ‘work’ for, cumming at the same time makes everything more intense–my orgasm, my feelings, the entire experience.

I'd have to say B. It doesn't happen always but when it does it's the most wonderful feeling ever. Hearing our moans and breathing get harder, looking into each others eyes and getting lost in each other. The whole world fades away in that moment.

Bonus: Do you think that having an orgasm is the same as sexual pleasure? Why or why not?

I mean, you experience sexual pleasure from an orgasm, sure but it's not quite the same to me. Sexual pleasure can be experienced in so many different ways, not necessarily by just climaxing. Could be as simple as a soft caress and a kiss.

TMI Tuesday: May 14, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It’s time for TMI Tuesday: Masturbation Month Edition!

Mia is joining me once again for today's questions.

Ash:

1. My favorite place to masturbate is ________ ?

In the shower with a detachable shower head.

2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?

Yes. I've masturbated on a bus, on a plane, in a bar, and at parties. Also, lots of public restrooms but I don't think that counts. Sometimes I just get really horny or want a thrill. 

3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?

Yes! I love it. I think it's incredibly sexy and brings you a lot closer to your partner. I did a Sinful Sunday post on this a couple years ago.

4. When was the last time you masturbated?

Hmm. I think it was last week. I masturbated in my bed with my purple vibrator.

5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?

Yes, I've made lots of videos and I enjoy doing that. Though, doing it during a video chat always makes me really nervous so I have a hard time cumming.

6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?

Yesss! It's one of my favorite things. 

Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?

I have filmed that lots of times. Here's the link.

Mia:

1. My favorite place to masturbate is ________ ?

My favorite places to masturbate are the bed and the bathtub while taking a bath.

2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?

No, I have not.

3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?

Yes. It's super intimate, voyeuristic and hot AF to watch and hear your partner cum. It is also a good way to learn how your partner likes to be pleasured.

4. When was the last time you masturbated?

Today. 😁

5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?

Yes, I have sent videos of myself masturbating to partners in the past. 🙈

6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?

Yes.

Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?

I have filmed it, yes. I do not currently have said video.

TMI Tuesday: May 7, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It’s time for TMI Tuesday! Sex, sex, and more sex. 

Ash:

1. Have you ever considered yourself completely sexually satisfied?

I don't think I've ever been completely sexually satisfied. That's not due to my partners' lack of pleasing me. I just always want more. I think it's all part of being a nympho. It's never enough.

2. What was the last sexy photo you took?

The Sinful Sunday photo from a couple days ago.

3. When was the last sexy photo you took AND sexted? What was it of and to whom was it sent?

Umm. Honestly, I don't think I have taken any sexy photos since last Tuesday. I posted my titties on my Private Snapchat story and also sent it to my partners. It's been a rough week and I haven't felt sexy at all.

4. How is your sex-life?

a. Like a wet blanket

b. Like a warm cozy comforter

c. Like an electric blanket getting you all heated up

d. None of the above, I sleep without covers

A little bit A, because I'm always leaving a wet puddle but not in the sense of not being pleasurable. My actual answer is C. My partners are really great at pleasing me. They get me all heated up for sure.

5. What’s your idea of good foreplay?

I have a complicated relationship with foreplay. Sometimes I love the idea of taking your time to explore your lover's body. Making them yearn for more before you please them. And other times, I just want to hurry up and get to the fucking and orgasms. I might not be the best person to ask about foreplay. But generally, I think good foreplay is doing anything that gets your partner warmed up and turned on. That will be different for every person, I think.

Bonus: Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner? How?

I've been having sex with Husband for 22 years and I still enjoy it very much. I think the key is to listen to what your partner wants, always keep an open mind, and try to keep things fresh. Don't keep doing the same shit and make things go stale. It's also very important to be enthusiastic. Don't treat sex like a chore. Make sure your partner's pleasure is important to you and they should do the same thing for you.

Husband:

1. Have you ever considered yourself completely sexually satisfied?

I do usually consider myself sexually satisfied. It's never a permanent satisfaction because I feel like it resets daily. When I don't have sex for a while it passes on and builds until the next time I end up having sex. It may not make a whole lot of sense to anyone else, but that's how it feels to me.

2. What was the last sexy photo you took?

I took shower pictures of my back and backside about a month ago.

3. When was the last sexy photo you took AND sexted? What was it of and to whom was it sent?

The pictures from the last question. I took them while showering after a weekend of camping and sent them to Wife because it had been a few days since I had seen her and I wanted to send her something nice.

4. How is your sex-life?

a. Like a wet blanket

b. Like a warm cozy comforter

c. Like an electric blanket getting you all heated up

d. None of the above, I sleep without covers

Back and forth between b. and c. but mostly c. lately. There has been an intensity and fire the last few months that I feel is due to reconnecting with Wife on many different levels.

5. What’s your idea of good foreplay?

Lots of touch and caressing with hands and fingers and lips. There are so many amazing sensations that I love to feel from different touches. Giving and receiving oral, I really enjoy giving oral and the act in itself gives me a lot of pleasure. 

Bonus: Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner? How?

I think it all comes down to working at it like any relationship. I can't keep doing the same thing all the time, otherwise everything would become a routine. I also try to make sure I show just how much sex with Wife means to me, and while I haven't always been the best at this I am being a lot more vocal about it now. I do truly enjoy the hell out of sex with Wife. It can be completely sensual, completely physical, sometimes even just goofy and comical, or a combination of all of them and it makes me feel so good to still have this connection with Wife after years of being together.

TMI Tuesday: April 30, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday, "Fashion Police" Edition. 

Today, my girlfriend Mia will be joining me in answering the questions.

Ash:

1. What is the most revealing thing you have ever worn in public?

I think that would be lingerie that you can see through. I've been nude at parties in front of everyone but I don't know if that counts as "public."

2. Have you ever unwittingly shown more than you intended in public due to a wardrobe malfunction?

My breasts have fallen out of my swimsuit while swimming. This especially happens in the ocean. My dress often blows up in the breeze. I have also ripped my pants open in the booty area. 

3. Are you more likely to arrive at an event over or under dressed?

I feel like I'm always overdressed because I love wearing dresses. 

4. Tell us about a time when you have arrived at a venue and immediately wished you could leave because you were dressed completely inappropriately?

The only time I can think of is when I arrive somewhere that is really cold and I wasn't prepared for that. Especially when an event ends up being outdoors in colder weather when I thought it would be indoors. I hate coats, so I don't always have one with me. That drives Husband crazy.

5. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you love with a passion?

Dresses and kilts are my favorite. I love seeing my partners in these two things. I am also a big fan of a pair of kick ass boots.

6. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you hate with a passion?

Crocs. Camouflage print.

Bonus: You and your friend are going to a special event and you know that he/she has spent a lot of time and possibly money on their outfit and are very excited about what they have created. They refuse to show you their outfit until you are both ready to leave for the event and you find that they look awful. What do you do?

I mind my business and let them be happy. Just because I don't like it doesn't mean that they can't.

Mia:

1. What is the most revealing thing you have ever worn in public?

A fishnet top without a bra to a clothing optional skate party. 

(you can read more about that night right here)

2. Have you ever unwittingly shown more than you intended in public due to a wardrobe malfunction?

Yes, my pants have ripped before but luckily at the time I was wearing a hoodie so I took it off and tied it around my waist and covered myself.

3. Are you more likely to arrive at an event over or under dressed?

I think I would likely be over dressed. I always have a lot of anxiety on what to wear to events but I rather be overdressed than underdressed.

4. Tell us about a time when you have arrived at a venue and immediately wished you could leave because you were dressed completely inappropriately?

I don’t think I’ve ever had this problem before.

5. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you love with a passion?

I LOVE love when Ash wears peekaboo cleavage dresses with fishnets. She looks so fucking hot! I love how fishnets feel when I run my hands on her thighs. 🥵

6. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you hate with a passion?

I hate when pants don’t fit right on a man and show a plumber’s crack. I can’t stand it and it’s embarrassing.

Bonus: You and your friend are going to a special event and you know that he/she has spent a lot of time and possibly money on their outfit and are very excited about what they have created. They refuse to show you their outfit until you are both ready to leave for the event and you find that they look awful. What do you do?

I’m never going to put down something a friend has worked so hard on. The most important thing is that it makes him/her happy but if he/she asks me if I like the outfit I’ll always be honest and find a gentle way to put it.

TMI Tuesday: April 23, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for another round of TMI Tuesday!

Making Sacrifices and Resisting Temptation

Ash:

1. What sexually could you never give up?

Cocks fucking my pussy. I always joke that I’d be a lesbian if it weren’t for those damn cocks. But honestly, it’s true. Men are often difficult and frustrating to deal with but those cocks though.  Mmmm. Dildos are just not the same.

2. What act would you like to do for 40 days and 40 nights?

Sensation play. I can’t get enough and I’m a big sensation slut.

3. What sexual sacrifice have you made? Why?

I have sacrificed receiving oral sex from Aidan. He doesn’t do that to his partners and even though I’d love for him to do it sometime, I’ve accepted that it’s not going to happen. I would be lying if I said it didn’t make me sad sometimes when I think about how much I choke on his cock every time we have sex and he’s never reciprocated. 

4. Have you ever been tied to a cross or anything else?

To a St. Andrew’s cross during a kink scene, yes. I’ve also been tied to beds. I prefer handcuffs when being restrained in those ways. They really dig into my wrists. Mmm.

5. What part of your body do you like worshiped?

My pussy. I love being told how much someone loves my pussy. It turns me on so much. My partners tell me how much they love the taste of it, how much they love how tight it is, how much they love it when I squirt on them. I will take all the praise and worship of this wet cunt between my legs. Give it all to me.

6. What can your partner do to you that makes you feel true bliss?

Play with my hair and give me scritches on the head. It makes me completely melt. And while it does turn me on, after long enough of that, I may fall asleep too. Fastest way to get me to relax and pass out.

Bonus: Tell us about a time you were tempted. Did you give in or resist?

I’ve been tempted so many times in my life and I’ve often deprived myself because I judge myself harshly. I’m a slut who cock blocks herself all the time. I need to stop doing that.

Husband:

1. What sexually could you never give up?

I could never give up penetrative sex, or vaginal or anal sex. I have an extremely difficult time getting off from masturbation and an even harder time getting off from getting head (still hopeful). I think without some kind of penetrative sex I may hardly ever orgasm.

2. What act would you like to do for 40 days and 40 nights?

Having recently been to an all expenses paid resort, I could definitely do that for 40 days and 40 nights. I would love to be able to have that immense level of freedom to be with Wife and to enjoy all the things we could possibly choose to do. I may or may not enjoy the ocean/water as much as her, but I would enjoy that time spent there with her as well.

3. What sexual sacrifice have you made? Why?

I'm not certain that I will be answering this properly, or interpreting it properly, but this is my answer anyhow. I think I've sacrificed sex in general many many times over the years, in particular years with Wife. Let me explain why I am saying this. Over the years of being sexually active I have mostly been very timid and wait for someone else to make any sort of move; I have a very difficult time pushing through this regardless of how I know things to be. This has led to countless opportunities to enjoy sex with Wife in particular that I've sacrificed away due to being caught in my head and not expressing how I feel about Her and how much I want and need Her. She is amazing and sex with Her is mind blowingly awesome, yet somehow I've let many opportunities wasted and sacrificed on the way.

4. Have you ever been tied to a cross or anything else?

I have been tied to a bed mostly; I can't remember being tied to anything else. The first time was a very traumatic experience, and it really has never allowed me to enjoy the potential fun of doing it despite having very enjoyable partners being part of that experience.

5. What part of your body do you like worshiped?

I'll just come out and say it, my cock. I am very much a modest human being, to the point of annoyance sometimes. I have never measured myself because I have never wanted to compare my penis to others or to insert worry where ignorance works just fine. What really makes me feel extraordinary is that I know for a fact how Wife feels about my cock, because she tells me about it all the time. I never get tired of hearing her praise it, or hearing her talk about wanting it wherever she desires it. Do I feel like she specifically worships my cock and potentially has an altar and gives offerings upon it? No. Am I certain that this isn't the case? Also, no.

I want to add that I love to worship Wife’s pussy. I love the way it tastes, the way it smells, the way it looks, and the multitude of ways it feels. It is the most magical pussy.

6. What can your partner do to you that makes you feel true bliss?

I am very much a touch fiend, and there are very special places on my body that when Wife goes to town on touching me there I literally see stars. If ANYTHING sexual is also going on, my mind just walks out and leaves me a pile of goo.

Bonus: Tell us about a time you were tempted. Did you give in or resist?

I remember the first time I was pressured for sex. My very first girlfriend kept pushing and tempting and teasing. I resisted initially because that is what a good Catholic boy was supposed to do, you were supposed to wait until marriage to have sex with a partner. I struggled with a whole mess of things that year, and overall sex seemed like the lesser of all the evils in my head to rationalize. Little did I know at the time, but the whole seduction and corruption thing was part of a plan to bring me to heel for her. There were a whole lot of not great times in that era of my life.

TMI Tuesday: April 2, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday!

It's time for TMI Tuesday, Erotic Home Edition.

1. When you bought your bed frame, did you evaluate it in terms of ropes, handcuffs, etc?

I didn't evaluate the bed frame. But we did shop around for a headboard that would be easy to use with those items. We never found one we liked in our price range. So, we didn't get a headboard.

2. Aside from beds, was sex ever a major consideration in choosing a piece of furniture?

Yes, when shopping for a new bed, we always get in a couple sex positions to see if the height of the bed is good.

3. Have you ever had anyone else (friend, mom) say a piece of your furniture was inappropriate because it was clearly for sexual purposes?

Yes. I used to have handcuffs on my bedposts when I was a teenager. I had Elmo hanging from one of them when not in use.

Little 18 year old me looking innocent as fuck

4. Do you have a piece of furniture that has a stain caused by bodily fluids (baby vomit not included)?

My mattress has bodily fluid stains on it. It happens.

5. Do you have anything in your beside table you wouldn’t want your father or mother to know about?

My father and mother have known I'm a freak. Who do you think I got it from?

6. Do you own any exercise equipment that is useful for sex?

Umm, no. Is this a thing?

7. Aside from your bedroom, what room do you have sex in most often?

The living room. Couch sex can be really fun.

8. Do you have any electronics (TV, stereo) etc in your bedroom that are on during sex?

I don't like to have the TV on during sex. It's incredibly distracting to me. I do like to play music though. 

TMI Tuesday: March 19, 2024

Today’s TMI Tuesday topic is sex photography and video.

1. Did you ever pose for pictures in sexual situations, or take pictures of a lover?

Yes, I've posed for lots of photos. I've also taken photos of a few lovers/partners.

2. Did you keep these pictures private between yourselves, or did others see them?

There are past lovers/partners that have sexy photos of me and I'm not sure if they have shared them with others or not. I also have sexy photos of my past lovers/partners. If they have given me permission to post publicly, I continue to share those photos. If they have not given me permission, I don't share those photos with anyone.

3. Did any of them ever get out in public with embarrassing results?

No, if they have shared any of my photos, I have not known about it to be embarrassed. It's kind of hard to embarrass someone who already puts everything out there for the world to see.

4. Were you ever videotaped having sex?

Many times, yes.

5. If so, was the tape ever made public?

If you consider Only Fans public, then yes.

6. Were you ever photographed or taped without your knowledge?

Not that I know of. But I wouldn't be surprised if I was.

Bonus: Post a picture of a body part.

Today is Titty Tuesday, afterall.

TMI Tuesday: March 12, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday sexy games edition.

1. Did you ever play strip poker (or strip spin-the-bottle, or similar)?

Did nudity result? Were there further developments? Details please.

I have never played strip poker but Mia recently told me that I would be horrible at that game and end up naked before everyone else because my face always tells on me. She's not wrong. I did play a game of Strip Uno with Husband once. There was nudity involved and we definitely fucked afterward. 

2. Did you ever play a nude party game, such as Naked Twister? Did it lead to anything further?

I've never played a nude party game but I have been nude at parties. I have also had sex in front of people at some of these parties. 

3. Did you ever play a game of Truth or Dare that led to nudity, or fondling, or more?

I mean, is it really a game of Truth or Dare if it doesn't involve nudity? I don't think I've ever played without that coming into play at some point. Also, I feel like this game never gets played in adulthood and that makes me sad. It's incredibly fun to learn truths about people and dare them to do things that take them out of their comfort zone.

4. Did you ever attend a party that led to sex with a more or less randomly chosen partner, i.e., swingers-lifestyle party, key party*?

*key party – A couples party where all of the men put their car keys into a bowl or bag and at the end of the party, the women blindly select a set of keys to determine who she goes home with for the rest of the evening for sexual gratification.

I have never had experiences with the swinger lifestyle. It doesn't really appeal to me. The key party actually sounds terrifying. I have to go home with a random person and have sex with them? What if I'm not attracted to them? That gives me way too much anxiety.

5. Did you ever participate in unexpected co-ed skinny dipping in a group?

I went to a pool party once in my teen years where everyone ended up naked in the pool. In my adult years, I've been naked in a lot of hot tubs with groups of people.

Bonus: Do you have a favorite fantasy about a sexy party? Please share.

I have a fantasy about a party turning into a bukkake. We're all just hanging out and then somehow it turns into a bunch of guys cumming all over me. Yes, please.

TMI Tuesday: February 27, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday then & now edition.

Ash:

1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?

The fact that I have three partners that I have sex with regularly would definitely surprise me. It was a dream at that age but I never thought it would actually be reality. 

2. What one thing might shock that younger you?

I finally learned how to deep throat. All those years of choking on my toothbrush because I am obsessed with brushing my tongue paid off.

3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?

It was much easier to cum when I was younger. As I've gotten older, it takes longer.

4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?

I still have not participated in a bukkake and that's been a fantasy of mine for many years. Hopefully, it will happen one day.

Bonus:  Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.

Never make yourself less for someone. You are not too much for the right people. Let those other people go find less. Also, don't worry about the number of sexual partners you have. It doesn't actually matter. Just be safe and have fun.

Husband:

1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?

I think this is pretty funny because I would have to say all of it. Other than missionary sex, I knew less than Jon Snow.

2. What one thing might shock that younger you?

That the world as I knew it, in regards to sex and sexual enjoyment, is SO MUCH BIGGER than what I thought. 

3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?

I think the only thing I really look back on with any bit of nostalgia regarding a younger self's sex life would be how it felt easier. Easier in the respect that responsibility and the requirements of being an adult/parent were not there. Sex could really be almost any time, any place, as often as you were able.

4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?

Younger me didn't have any sexual ambitions or fantasies until ridiculously close to the current me. I'm essentially adding things to my list now, late bloomer and all that.

Bonus:  Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.

Forget about religion and church, forget about all the force-fed stuff about sex and love and romance. Learn to love your body, learn what feels good FOR YOU, live a little bit more, and enjoy more of the chances put before you.

TMI Tuesday: February 20, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday! Just Friends edition.

Ash:

1. Have you ever had a friendship with someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?

Yes, however, it almost always doesn't stay a secret for long. I don't have a very good filter and I end up telling people how I feel. Sometimes that can make things awkward. Oops. But I am known to crush on my friends very often.

2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion, or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?

I don't get jealous very easily. As long as my partners are being honest and open with me, I won't feel those feelings. But as soon as someone is not being completely transparent or gets caught in a lie, I will get suspicious. The things that are likely to make me feel jealous are when you aren't giving me the same effort you are giving your other partners or not treating me fairly. Then, I get very jealous.

3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?

This has happened quite a few times, actually. I do enjoy having sex with my friends.

4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?

Husband and I stayed close friends for a while after we broke up. Until his ex decided to be a jealous bitch. But then we became friends again until we once again became lovers.

Gabriel and I weren't friends for a while after we broke up but we became friends again after a while. Though, his wife was a bitch and ruined that. 

Trystan is still my friend and even though he's technically Husband's ex, I'm still very much in love with him. I just don't really get to spend time with him.

5. Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?

I don't think so. Unless you count Trystan since we technically weren't dating. We were metamours but we enjoyed sexy time together. I did accidentally fall in love with him and it broke my heart when Husband broke up with him.

Bonus:  Tell us about your sluttiest act ever.

The night that this Sinful Sunday photo turned into an orgy. And now that I've been reminded of it, I realized that I never finished writing that blog post. So, I'm going to try to do that soon.

Husband

1. Have you ever had a friendship with someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?

One of my first online friends falls into this category. We were friends for a few years before we ever met in person, but after that even though we were just friends I definitely developed more feelings and interest than that. I don't think anything will ever come of it, and I am okay with that. We still flirt with each other randomly whenever we have long conversations and it never feels weird, and again I am okay with that.

2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion, or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?

I know that I used to have issues when Wife and I were together the first time. I was a very insecure person back then, and I didn't have any firm ground to stand on when it came to feeling good about myself. Now if Wife is around attractive friends when we are apart or together, I am secure enough to not have any issues.

3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?

I would say so, yes. Wife and I started out as friends, which blossomed into good friends. We were close and I believe that we both loved each other as friends in some capacity. However, when we met in person Wife obliterated those walls pretty thoroughly. 

4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?

When Wife and I broke up after our first time together we stayed close friends, even though things got rocky every now and then. We remained friends though over the years we were apart and it was a wonderful thing for me. I would also say that even though Trystan and I are not really close, we are still friends. 

5. Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?

I have never had a friend with benefits.

Bonus:  Tell us about your sluttiest act ever.

After Wife and I broke up the first time my mental health was pretty crap. I ended hooking up with someone a few times just to get laid in the hopes that it would make me feel better. It didn't, but I tried.