TMI Tuesday: April 23, 2019

They’re here! TMI Tuesday questions.




Ash:
1. What is it about a woman or man that would drive you crazy?
When people talk with their hands, it really drives me crazy because of my hand fetish. It also drives me crazy when someone is bashful or awkward. Awkwardness is my favorite.

2. If your employer offered an “afternoon delight break” where you leave work for an hour to go have sex, would you take that break?
I'm sure I would occasionally partake but not all the time. I get sleepy after sex, so going back to work after that would be difficult. I welcome Husband to fuck me on his afternoon delight break anytime though.

3. On your afternoon delight break would you most often have sex with (pick one):
a. Yourself
b. A stranger (e.g., app hook-up, sex worker)
c. Your significant other
Probably more often A but hopefully also C.

4. What is your best way of sustaining an erection?
Lick it.

5. Tell us the top two (2) sexual things you hate to do?
1. Anything to do with the balls. Especially if it involves putting them in my mouth. *gag* I've been trying to get over that though.
2. Riding on top because it's hard for me to cum and it hurts my hips.

Bonus: What embarrasses you the most?
It's hard to embarrass me. I think the thing that embarrasses me most would be when my kid acts crazy in public.



Husband:
1. What is it about a woman or man that would drive you crazy?
I know that this tends to be a recurring answer to many different questions, but I think touch from a partner drives me crazy. The knowledge that for whatever reason I draw their attention with their hands on my body is a drug.

2. If your employer offered an “afternoon delight break” where you leave work for an hour to go have sex, would you take that break?
That would be phenomenal, and I would definitely take them up on that offer! Even though they have never offered this sort of thing, I remember actually doing this a few times years ago. It was definitely worth it.

3. On your afternoon delight break would you most often have sex with (pick one):
a. Yourself
b. A stranger (e.g., app hook-up, sex worker)
c. Your significant other
I would prefer C over anyone else, including myself.

4. What is your best way of sustaining an erection?
Having someone else touch and caress me with hands, body, mouth, or tongue. My brain gets too easily distracted on my own.

5. Tell us the top two (2) sexual things you hate to do?
I can't think of anything sexual I hate to do. I don't particularly enjoy being bound because it brings up really bad memories, but with the right person and trust, it is something I can enjoy. Wife might be more aware of anything sexual I hate.

Bonus: What embarrasses you the most?
Being the center of attention in groups of people. I don't like feeling like everyone is watching me and seeing what is going to happen next.

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Sinful Sunday: Easter Edition

It's Sinful Sunday and the Easter Bunny is here to get you eggcited.




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TMI Tuesday: April 9, 2019

Time for your regularly scheduled TMI Tuesday. Enjoy




Ash:
1. Did you leave your last love for someone else or no one else?
My last love left me. Most people do.

2. Do you enjoy being alone? Yes or No
No. I hate being alone. I have C-PTSD and being alone causes me to get lost in the darkness in my head. This is why I fill up all of my free time with volunteer work.

3. Which of these reasons is most likely to spark your motivation for solitude:
a. It sparks my creativity
b. I enjoy the quiet
c. Being alone helps me get in touch with my spirituality
d. I value the privacy
e. I do not feel liked when I am around others
f. I cannot be my true self when I am around others
If I do want to be alone, it's usually because of E. I'm often convinced that people don't like me.

4. Have you ever tried to win back an ex-significant other?
– Yes or No
– Were you successful?
– If yes, did you regret it?
– How long did the reconciliation last?
Yes, I've tried this a few times. It worked once and I got Husband back. I don't regret it at all. The other times didn't work but. I'm glad about one of those. I'm still sad about the other.

5. Do you mind if your significant other gives or receives harmless flirtation?
I actually like when people flirt with him because it helps him feel more confident and sexy. Most of the time, he doesn't get the hint that people are flirting though. You have to be very obvious about it.

Bonus: If you really knew me, you’d know _____.
That I'm good at coming off as confident but truthfully, I have awful self esteem.



Husband:
1. Did you leave your last love for someone else or no one else?
Me leaving my ex wasn't for anyone other than myself and my mental well being, by that time she was no longer someone I considered a love.

2. Do you enjoy being alone? Yes or No
This question has many variables to it, but for the most part, no, I do not enjoy being alone. I very much enjoy the company of my immediate family.

3. Which of these reasons is most likely to spark your motivation for solitude:
a. It sparks my creativity
b. I enjoy the quiet
c. Being alone helps me get in touch with my spirituality
d. I value the privacy
e. I do not feel liked when I am around others
f. I cannot be my true self when I am around others
c. Being alone helps me get in touch with my spirituality. I say get in touch with my spirituality, but I mean in touch with myself. I can sort out thoughts and feelings that I am having trouble processing or I can center myself and clear my head.

4. Have you ever tried to win back an ex-significant other?
– Yes or No
– Were you successful?
– If yes, did you regret it?
– How long did the reconciliation last?
Yes I did. Yes I was (it was mutual). There are no regrets at all. I love that I am with Wife as she was an ex-significant other at one point in our lives.

5. Do you mind if your significant other gives or receives harmless flirtation?
It used to really bother me when we were together the first time, as well as when we first got back together. Now it doesn't bother me unless I am excluded from the flirting.

Bonus: If you really knew me, you’d know _____.
If you really knew me, you’d know that I mean well despite being a chaotic mess.

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Sinful Sunday: G is for Gag Reflex

Sinful Sunday is here again! It's the first Sunday of the month and that means it is prompt time! April's prompt is the letter G. The first thing that came to mind was "gag." When a friend of mine suggested the same thing, I decided to go with it.

I have mostly gotten my gag reflex sorted out, though I found that I am a little bit out of practice. I'm sure I will have lots of volunteers to help me with that.

On the left, you see me catching my breath for a second with tears streaming down my face. On the right, I am gagging on Jacob's cock as he fucks my face.
I think the hottest thing about these pictures is that Husband is the one who took them. He was almost bulging right out of his jeans as he watched.




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TMI Tuesday: April 2, 2019

Tuesday, Tuesday, Tuesday! TMI Tuesday again. Have fun.

The Dating Game (and boy is it ever!)




Ash:
1. Consider your current lover and your relationship as it stands. If this person were on a dating app would you swipe left or swipe right?
I would definitely swipe right on Husband's dating profile. He's hot as hell, intelligent, and sweet. He's also weird and mysterious. What's not to love?

2. Have you ever done speed dating? Did you like it? Did you get a real or full date out of it?
I have never done speed dating, however, I would probably try it. I am pretty sure I would be horrible at it though because I'm socially awkward. I actually witnessed speed dating last month when I was at a bar for a book club. It looked awkward and uncomfortable, especially since there were way more men than women.

3. If your date texts during a date, do you find it annoying? If yes, do you say something about it?
It really depends on who they are texting. If my date has kids and they are checking in on them, I don't mind at all. Otherwise, I find it extremely insulting. My ex used to be on her phone constantly while we were on a date. It upset me a lot but I never said anything about it.

4. How do you like to arrange dates–with an actual phone call or all via text messages?
I have a serious phone phobia. I don't like talking on the phone at all. If we could do all of our communication (that isn't in person) through text messages, that would be lovely.

5. For a first date, which do you prefer–drink date or dinner date?
Dinner date or dessert date. I don't drink alcohol, so drink dates are always kind of awkward for me.

Bonus: Have you ever been a cockblocker? Why did you do this?
The only time I can remember being a cockblocker on purpose was when I was 17. My boyfriend had broken up with me but I continued to live with him for 5 months so that I could finish school. When he tried to have sex with other girls, I would try to cockblock him because I wanted him back.


Husband:
1. Consider your current lover and your relationship as it stands. If this person were on a dating app would you swipe left or swipe right?
I don't know which way is the good way, so I'm going to say swipe YES!

2. Have you ever done speed dating? Did you like it? Did you get a real or full date out of it?
I've never done speed dating. I'm not entirely sure I understand the concept. I've only seen it in funny movies or fictional settings.

3. If your date texts during a date, do you find it annoying? If yes, do you say something about it?
That depends on multiple potential things. We are parents and sometimes the person/s watching our kid may be texting for information relay or other possible important things, that doesn't bother me. In general though, yes it does bother me, and no I usually don't say anything at all.

4. How do you like to arrange dates–with an actual phone call or all via text messages?
In person or via text. As I'm only dating Wife right now it is usually in person. Plus also, calendar invitations!

5. For a first date, which do you prefer–drink date or dinner date?
Dinner date. I don't drink so just drinking is rather pointless for me.

Bonus: Have you ever been a cockblocker? Why did you do this?
Not that I am aware of.

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Sinful Sunday: Good Girl

On Friday night, Jacob came over to play.
According to him, "Nothing is better than a blow job from Sexilicous Ash."

This is a photo of me on my knees, being a good girl, and proving him right.
I love the way I'm looking up at him here.





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Kink of the Week: Love Bites

Edit: Husband gave me this hickey a week after writing this.

Love bites, or hickeys, are little bruises that happen when the capillaries beneath the skin rupture when someone sucks or bites the skin. The first time I was ever exposed to hickeys was when I was in fifth grade. One of the fifth-grade teachers came to school wearing a scarf. It was odd because we had never seen her wear one before. My friend, who was in this teacher's class, came running up to me at lunch. She told me that the teacher's scarf had fallen down and the class had seen a bunch of hickeys on her neck. We, of course, thought this was hilarious. Until we really started to think about it. Wait, teachers have sex?!

Just two years later, I would be the proud owner of my own hickey. I was 13 at the time and enjoying a big party thrown by a friend of mine. We were finally done with seventh grade and it was summertime, so we were celebrating. After it got dark, we started playing truth or dare in the back yard. Someone had dared R to give me a hickey on my neck. It was awkward because everyone was watching but I really enjoyed it at the same time. That night, R became my boyfriend and all I wanted to do that summer was make-out with him and feel his lips on my neck.

Throughout my teenage years, I had countless hickeys. I never hid them because I loved showing them off. I couldn't figure out why exactly, but I loved having marks left on my body. I'm sure this was hinting at the kink that was hidden inside me but I didn't realize it at the time.

Now, as an adult, I still enjoy hickeys. They are a guilty pleasure of mine. I rarely get them anymore because my partners just aren't into it like I am. Not only do I love to have my neck and shoulder sucked and bitten (not too hard though), I adore the marks that are left behind. I enjoy hickeys on other parts of my body as well but not as much as a place that can be seen or shown off. I also love the feeling of a hickey. That light soreness that sticks with you for a few days. Yes, that is so nice. It brings up the pleasant memory of receiving said hickey and then I get aroused.

I feel like hickeys are frowned upon more when they are on an adult than when they are on a teenager. I mean, teenagers are expected to have hickeys, right? They are carefree, exploring each other's bodies, doing whatever feels good. We are supposed to outgrow that and be more mature as adults. Well, I say, "Screw that!" In my twenties, I had hickeys pretty often and people would feel the need to comment on it or roll their eyes at me. I never let it bother me. I may not be a teenager anymore but I still enjoy having hickeys and I'm not embarrassed to admit it. I also like dry humping and being fingered. Deal with it.

I used to really enjoy leaving hickeys on my lovers' necks, usually from biting. I'm not super into biting anymore, but I do get the urge to do it occasionally. I mostly enjoy biting my lover's lip when we are making out, especially if it gets pretty heated and intense. Mmmm, that really turns me on.

For the past couple of weeks, while thinking about what I was going to write for this, I've been trying to get up the nerve to ask Husband to give me a hickey. Thinking about that gets me so wet. The thought of him licking, sucking, biting my neck as he fucks me. Unf, I need that so much. Thinking about looking in the mirror and seeing that little mark on my neck gets me so excited. Imagining the looks I get from people as I go out in public with that mark showing for all to see makes me smile. I definitely miss being young and carefree.

The point I would love to make here is that I think hickeys are underrated. They aren't trashy or disgusting. They are like little badges of honor. They are love bites. That is nothing to be embarrassed about.

TMI Tuesday: March 26, 2019

Do your thang! Play TMI Tuesday!




Ash:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I tend to have a difficult time orgasming during oral sex. It takes me a long time to get there, so I usually just tell my partner to stop after a while. Sometimes they insist on continuing, which is nice if I end up orgasming. I don't expect someone to go down on me for the 15-20ish minutes that it will probably take though. Sometimes that makes me feel guilty but I usually just brush it off because I know it isn't my fault and it's okay.

2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
Pillow talk is my favorite. Especially if they play with my hair while we talk. Meaningful conversation and physical touch. Those are my two favorite things.

3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
Whichever way you're doing me, I need hands on my body because of my hand fetish. I also very much enjoy my neck being kissed, licked, and touched. I most like to be fucked hard at a fast pace. Though, occasionally, I also like to be fucked very slowly. A very slow stroke all the way in and then very slowly back out, almost pulling out but not quite and then repeat. Fuck, now I've gone and aroused myself.

4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
Sure, I think I was ready to be married. I was 24 when Husband and I got married. It's been 11 years and I don't regret it at all.

5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
Well, this one doesn't apply.

Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
I'm an extrovert. When I have free time in my schedule, I like to fill it up with something (usually a ton of volunteer work). He is an introvert and enjoys free time to just relax. I don't know how to relax.


Husband:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I don't orgasm from oral, and for the longest time, I thought that there was something wrong with me. After many years of struggling with this, Wife and I just moved past it and eventually just incorporated other things to do instead.

2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
I like to take Wife out and spend time with her in conversation somewhere, preferably somewhere quiet. I also touch a lot. Physical touch is my biggest way of communicating connection and love to and from me.

3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
I like to be touched a lot; hands touching my body, lips and tongue and teeth on my neck and chest. I like lips and tongue and hand on my cock. I like to have ass and pussy put in my face. I like to feel the gush of a hot squirt warming and wetting my skin. I like to be done, very much so.

4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
The first time I was married, I thought I was. I was sorely mistaken, I was too young and with the wrong person. It was definitely a learning experience that I have drawn from and been molded by. When I married Wife, I was definitely ready, but still learning, as I still am. No regrets about it ever since.

5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
This is not applicable.

Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
She's more lawful, I am more chaotic.

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Sinful Sunday: Take It All In

This Sinful Sunday, I am being forced to take it all in.



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TMI Tuesday: March 12, 2019

Fill random curiosities, play TMI Tuesday.

1. What curse word do you use the most?
Fuck. I fucking use the word fuck all the fucking time. I curse like a sailor.

2. Would you rather take a picture or be in a picture?
I would rather take a picture. Though, I do get sad that none of my friends ever want to take selfies with me.

3. Has anyone ever called you lazy? Why did they say that?
Not as an adult. I was called lazy as a teenager because I liked to sleep a lot. I was pretty depressed.

4. Have you ever dated or slept with a neighbor? How did things turn out?
I haven't, though I wish I could find a neighbor to be my FWB. That would be quite convenient.

5. Have you ever broken up with a significant other then “cheated” with that same person while they were in a relationship with someone else?
No. I did have sex with someone who was in a relationship once though. That was in high school. We were shopping for a present for his girlfriend. Afterward, we went to his girlfriend's house to give her said present. Not one of my finer moments. Talk about awkward.

Bonus: Tell us something good.
I'm about to go to bed and masturbate.

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