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Ash:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I tend to have a difficult time orgasming during oral sex. It takes me a long time to get there, so I usually just tell my partner to stop after a while. Sometimes they insist on continuing, which is nice if I end up orgasming. I don't expect someone to go down on me for the 15-20ish minutes that it will probably take though. Sometimes that makes me feel guilty but I usually just brush it off because I know it isn't my fault and it's okay.
2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
Pillow talk is my favorite. Especially if they play with my hair while we talk. Meaningful conversation and physical touch. Those are my two favorite things.
3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
Whichever way you're doing me, I need hands on my body because of my hand fetish. I also very much enjoy my neck being kissed, licked, and touched. I most like to be fucked hard at a fast pace. Though, occasionally, I also like to be fucked very slowly. A very slow stroke all the way in and then very slowly back out, almost pulling out but not quite and then repeat. Fuck, now I've gone and aroused myself.
4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
Sure, I think I was ready to be married. I was 24 when Husband and I got married. It's been 11 years and I don't regret it at all.
5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
Well, this one doesn't apply.
Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
I'm an extrovert. When I have free time in my schedule, I like to fill it up with something (usually a ton of volunteer work). He is an introvert and enjoys free time to just relax. I don't know how to relax.
Husband:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I don't orgasm from oral, and for the longest time, I thought that there was something wrong with me. After many years of struggling with this, Wife and I just moved past it and eventually just incorporated other things to do instead.
2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
I like to take Wife out and spend time with her in conversation somewhere, preferably somewhere quiet. I also touch a lot. Physical touch is my biggest way of communicating connection and love to and from me.
3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
I like to be touched a lot; hands touching my body, lips and tongue and teeth on my neck and chest. I like lips and tongue and hand on my cock. I like to have ass and pussy put in my face. I like to feel the gush of a hot squirt warming and wetting my skin. I like to be done, very much so.
4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
The first time I was married, I thought I was. I was sorely mistaken, I was too young and with the wrong person. It was definitely a learning experience that I have drawn from and been molded by. When I married Wife, I was definitely ready, but still learning, as I still am. No regrets about it ever since.
5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
This is not applicable.
Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
She's more lawful, I am more chaotic.
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Ash:
ReplyDelete#1 raises an interesting side issue for me. How long is too long? I would have no problem eating a pussy for 20 minutes (mmmmm, I love it that much) but yes, even my wife sometimes tells my to 'hurry up' and 'get to it'. So much for all that sex advice from women's mags growing up telling me to 'take my time' and 'don't rush', right?!
Husband:
#1 is an interesting answer since I didn't think of that but could have answered the same if I had. I also can't cum via oral, and neither can via a hand job. Well, very rarely at least. I've struggled with it too (everyone in amateur porn seems to get off on it, why can't I? Is my wife doing it wrong?) and although I wish I could, it just (usually) won't happen.
I would love to lie there for 20 minutes getting my pussy eaten, however, I don't expect someone to do it for that long if they aren't enjoying it. Does that make sense?
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