Such a Slut: Part 1

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TMI Tuesday: February 6, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday from Ash and Mia

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

The Big O

Ash:

1. Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.

I was 14 years old the first time I had an orgasm. I didn't even know it was possible for women to orgasm, so I was very surprised by it. I actually wrote about it in this blog post. But here's an excerpt from it if you don't feel like reading that:

"One day I was sitting on the toilet masturbating, as I often did, and I felt this intense build-up and then a very powerful release. Pleasure shot through my body and I felt like I couldn't breathe. I whispered to myself, 'What the fuck was that?' From that point on, I started masturbating in very unhealthy amounts."

2. What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).

My favorite way to orgasm is by having a g-spot and clitoral orgasm at the same time. Husband is very good at giving these to me. Mmmm.

3. Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).

I really want to have an orgasm while doing vaginal/anal double penetration. That's really all I can think of that I haven't experienced already.

4. Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?

I actually have orgasms in my sleep pretty often. I have a TON of sex dreams. The orgasms from them usually wake me up.

5. What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?

Clitoral: While using a vibrator.

G-spot: By being fucked hard in the doggy-style position. Especially if it's angled to hit slightly to the left.

6. How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?

I am working towards having an orgasm every day for my mental health. I haven't gotten there yet but hopefully soon. I tend to talk myself out of masturbation too often these days. I need to stop that.

7. Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?

Almost every time Husband and I have sex, this happens. A couple times that I've had sex with Mia, this happened as well. I'm pretty sure it's happened with Aidan at least once. However, with all my current partners, I always cum first. 

8. Can you have multiples?

I can have multiple orgasms. Clitoral orgasms need a minute or so in between to reset. G-spot orgasms can just keep going and going and going.

9. How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?

That depends on how it's being done. G-spot orgasms usually happen pretty quickly. Clitoral orgasms are more complicated. If a vibrator is being used, I can orgasm fairly fast. If fingers are being used, I used to be able to orgasm in less than a minute but as I've gotten older, it takes longer. Now, it can be anywhere between 3-6 minutes, I think. If it's oral sex, it takes me much longer. Probably between 10-15 minutes. 

10. Have you ever faked one?

Only once because the person I was having sex with would not stop touching me until I had an orgasm. And I couldn't get him to stop. So, I faked it so he would. I refuse to fake orgasms under normal circumstances. And I really hope no one fakes them with me.

Husband:

1. Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.

I don't exactly remember my first orgasm. I grew up extremely religious and with that there came the understanding that masturbation and sex before marriage was wrong. I do remember that because of all that religion, I didn't touch myself, but would essentially grind myself into the ground or a couch until I orgasmed. I can only guess that I was maybe 16-17 years old, but not younger than 16.

2. What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).

Sex is my favorite way to orgasm. First, it feels the best of the ways I can remember having orgasmed. Second, it is the most reliable way for me to orgasm.

3. Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).

I very much would love to orgasm from oral. I have dreamed of that for a long, long time.

4. Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?

I've had wet dreams, but never have I ever orgasmed in my sleep.

5. What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?

Sex is the easiest and fastest way for me to orgasm. I have worked really hard to overcome the stigma of masturbation being bad, but it has left scars that still make it very difficult to orgasm from self-stimulation.

6. How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?

I don't think I have ever actively thought about how many times I would like to try to reach orgasm. At least three sounds like a nice number, but I don't think I would turn down more.

7. Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?

Wife and I have orgasmed at the same time many times together. I think it happens to be extremely hot and sexy when it does happen. I would say that Wife normally orgasms first, which is fun and I enjoy helping with that.

8. Can you have multiples?

In a day, yes. In a single sexpedition, sadly no.

9. How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?

Between 5 and 30 minutes. It depends on how turned on I am, how long it has been since I last had sex, how long it has been since I last orgasmed, etc.

10. Have you ever faked one?

I used to fake orgasms with my ex. There were times when she would put me down and demean me. Other times I was just depressed and wanted it over with.

The Lovely Mia

This is Mia. She is my girlfriend. Not only is she super sweet, thoughtful, and caring but she's also incredibly sexy. I am so lucky to have her in my life.

The first time Mia and I had sex, we were on her couch watching a movie. We were cuddling and softly caressing each other. The sexual tension was so thick. We started making out and it didn't take long before her hand was up my skirt and then underneath my very wet panties. She ate my pussy on that couch and I held back so much because I was terrified of squirting all over it. 

The next few times we had sex, it continued to be on that couch. Then, we finally had sex in my bed, which was a lot more comfortable. So, Mia decided that we needed our own room at her house so that we had more comfort and privacy from her nesting partner. She cleaned up her spare room, ordered a bed online, and then set it all up. Now, we have our own space and it's so nice. We've had lots of sex on that bed and it's so much better than trying to scrunch up on a couch. 

Sex with Mia is so fun. She is curvy, soft, and delicious. Her moans are pretty incredible too. She's very loud during sex, which I much prefer over being quiet and having to guess if I'm doing things right or not. When I make Mia cum, her moans almost always make me cum right along with her even if my clit isn't even being touched. It's so intoxicating.

Recently, Mia snapped a photo of her shopping at a sex store. She told me she was shopping for a strap-on and dildo so that she could fuck me. I was so turned on by that. I had never been fucked by a woman like that. She sent me a photo of the dildo she got and it was purple. She definitely knows me well.

Dildo Mia bought to use on me

A couple weeks ago, Mia finally used that strap-on and dildo on me. It was the first time for both of us. We were nervous and excited at the same time. We started in a doggy-style position, which felt really good but I really wanted to see her face as she fucked me. So, then we moved to me being on my back and her up on her knees with my legs on her shoulders. She looked so hot. As she fucked me, I could tell it was turning her on so much. The pleasure was shown all over her face. As she made me cum all over the bed, it looked and sounded like she was about to cum too. I can't tell you how fucking hot that was. Thinking about it now has my clit fucking pulsing so hard. Unf. I can't wait until she fucks me again. 

I have a dildo on my wishlist that I would very much like to have her use on me. I just know I'd be squirting all over her if she used it on me. Fuuuuuck. Hopefully we can get that sometime soon. If you're interested in getting it for us, I would definitely send you a few photos as a thank you.

Mia has decided that she'd like to be included in this blog occasionally. So, I'm looking forward to making more posts about her and sharing her very sexy body with you all. 

Sinful Sunday: Queer

The Sinful Sunday prompt for February is the letter Q. Right away, I knew what word I wanted to use for this and that is queer. Queer is a term that has a lot of meanings. In this case, for me, queer means not straight. 

I have always been attracted to people of all genders. I came out as bisexual when I was 14. To quote Carla in the movie Better Than Chocolate, "Soft centers. Hard centers. I like all the chocolates in the box." This is very true for me. 

Also, please welcome my girlfriend Mia to the party here. This is her debut in this blog. Hopefully, there will be much more to come. She is so fucking hot.

          

There They Are

I may be insecure about my nipples but sometimes I am brave and push past my insecurities. Then, I share my nipples with the internet in hopes that I get some compliments that make it easier to share them again in the future. 

Where Are the Nipples?

Bath and shower pics are some of my favorite photos to take. People have often asked me why I always hide my nipples though. Well, the truth is, that's the part of my body that I'm most insecure about. I hate my nipples. I think they look weird and I'm always tempted to hide them. Occasionally, though, you'll get lucky and they will make an appearance.

Fucking in Hotels

Fucking in hotel rooms is one of my favorite things to do. There's just something about it that feels so hot. We are most definitely those people that you hear fucking very loudly while you're staying at a hotel. Sorry, not sorry.

This is my seventh year participating in February PhotoFest. 

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TMI Tuesday: January 30, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

The Comfort and Thrill of Sex

Ash:

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t really enjoy it.

e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.

g. I have never given anal sex but would like to start.

d. I don't really enjoy it. I'm a germaphobe and butt stuff causes me to have so much anxiety. I have pushed past that in the past and explored anal play/pegging with Husband because I wanted to give him pleasure but it's something I haven't done in a long time and I honestly don't miss it. I do, however, enjoy watching Husband have anal sex with other people. I miss that.

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t enjoy it at all.

e. I have never received anal sex.

f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

b. I enjoy it. Husband and I usually have anal sex a few times a year and it's something I have grown to enjoy. I just don't want it often. My partner has to be really careful about cross contamination though because of my germ phobia. If your finger was in my butt, please don't touch me until you've washed your hands. And never go from ass to vagina or mouth.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?

a. It’s a turn on for me.

b. It turns me on a little bit.

c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.

d. It does nothing for me.

e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.

f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

e. I don't like doing it because I am shy. Okay, I'm actually not shy. I'm just self-conscious. I don't feel comfortable getting naked until I know they love my body. Otherwise, I just worry that they won't be attracted to me.

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).

b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).

c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).

d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).

e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).

f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). If it feels good, I will let you know with lots of little sounds. It's actually pretty easy to know when you're doing something that feels really good for me because I am very vocal. 

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?

a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.

c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.

d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.

e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.

f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.

g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

This is a difficult one to answer. I will say b, occasionally. I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease...just not often during sex. I find it incredibly difficult to talk during sex. It's like that part of my brain shuts down and I have a very hard time forming words. But when I'm not having sex? I love to talk about all the dirty things.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?

a. quiet little mouse

b. low moaning wolf

c. screeching beluga whale

I'm much louder than a quiet little mouse and I definitely don't scream. So, I will go with a moaning wolf. I've gotten a lot of compliments on my moan. So, apparently, it sounds good, whatever animal it sounds like.

Bonus: Which do you prefer: comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement, and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them, sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*

Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure, and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

I am most definitely a thrill seeker. I love to experience new things and have my boundaries pushed. Adventure and wild energy is exciting and I am here for it.

Husband:

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t really enjoy it.

e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.

g. I have never given anal sex but would like to start.

a. I love it. I think that anal play was the first deviant thing I encountered and it sank deep inside of me. I love giving anal sex, but sometimes the idea of it gets me revved up yet the act of it (with my cock) doesn't live up to the hype. Wife has a spectacularly magical pussy and it is my absolute favorite place to put my cock. I do treasure any opportunity that I am gifted with Wife's ass, I am not going to turn away any of her holes!

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t enjoy it at all.

e. I have never received anal sex.

f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

a. I love it. / b. I enjoy it. I am unsure about whether I love it or enjoy it. It's been a long time since I've felt the desire to receive anal. Between my overall mental comfort level / health and sexual priorities it hasn't really floated to the top of what I want to do.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?

a. It’s a turn on for me.

b. It turns me on a little bit.

c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.

d. It does nothing for me.

e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.

f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

b. It turns me on a little bit. / e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy. Mostly e. because I AM shy and nervous a lot. I am not self-conscious about my body, I am very much a comfortable nudist. Something about the idea of undressing for the first time while being watched evokes a feeling that I am performing, which I am very uncomfortable with. If I could get that part out of my head I would probably enjoy it quite a lot; knowing someone is interested in me makes me feel sexy.

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).

b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).

c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).

d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).

e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).

f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). I remember a time when I was conditioned by previous partners that I wasn't to make any noise because it ruined things for them. So it used to be an e. {Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time)} because even with that horrible conditioning I couldn't always help myself and would have been punished for it. Along comes GirlFriend, who is now Wife, who values hearing my pleasure and helped me start the journey of vocalizing my pleasure. Now, after many years it is ALL the time! 

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?

a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.

c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.

d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.

e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.

f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.

g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease. / c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward. I sometimes feel very awkward about dirty talk, but I very much like it. I think if it came a little more naturally to me it would happen a lot more often. When I am feeling very sure of myself and have excess confidence from somewhere it flows and comes out much more easily.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?

a. quiet little mouse

b. low moaning wolf

c. screeching beluga whale

b. low moaning wolf; and now with even more growls!

Bonus: Which do you prefer: comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement, and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them, sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*

Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure, and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

I have spent more time in my life seeking comfort sex over thrill-seeking because of difficulty knowing what I want and asking for it. I'm trying to learn to go for the things that excite me and seek thrills more. It is still a new and slightly daunting endeavor for me, but I do feel very safe working through all of this now that I am working on myself. 

Sinful Sunday: Slippery Ride

Riding on top has always been a bit difficult for me. I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which makes my joints very flexible and causes a lot of pain. It’s painful for my hip joints when straddling on top. But it can be very fun and extra hot for my partner. So, while I don’t do it often, it’s always worth it when it does happen. 

Last night, I was on top of Husband. I was slowly teasing his cock with my pussy. Then, he started fucking me hard from below. When I started to cum, I closed my eyes and got lost in the feeling. Then, Husband said, “Look at me while I fuck you.” I was surprised but turned on by him being so dominant. We stared into each other’s eyes as I squirted all over him. Then, he came inside me. It was really powerful and very hot. It was definitely a sinful experience.

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Aidan's Chicago Birthday Trip

The lingerie I wore for Aidan's birthday

I started dating Aidan in November. I originally met him four years ago at a kinky house party. I had a very big crush on him but the timing just wasn't right. Then, a few months ago, I saw him pop up in a polyamorous group I'm a member of. I commented on his post and things progressed from there. 

Last weekend, it was Aidan's birthday. His nesting partner, Callie, messaged me and asked if I would be willing to go on a trip to Chicago with them to celebrate his birthday. I said, "Absolutely!" She asked me to bring along some lingerie, so I knew it would be getting sexy in that hotel room. 

The drive there seemed to last forever. I kept fantasizing about getting Aidan naked and giving him double the pleasure with Callie. When we finally got there, we were pretty exhausted. We all collapsed on the bed and had a little cuddle pile. After we rested a bit, I was so fucking ready to get the sexy times going. But Callie was not budging on that. She wanted to wait until after we had dinner...which was a whole three hours away. If it were up to me, I would have had a before-dinner snack and then an after-dinner dessert. But I was a good girl and I kept my hands to myself and waited even though it was difficult. When you're very turned on and really want someone, waiting times seem to last so much longer. 

When we got back from dinner, we cuddled a bit more. Then, Callie asked Aidan if he'd like to see us in our sexy outfits. So, we went to change. Callie was wearing a beautiful blue lace teddy with a snap crotch for easy access. I was wearing a tight purple velvet dress with lacey cutouts on the sides and a see-through mesh back. I also wore a black and purple thong underneath. Aidan was a big fan of both of our outfits, of course. We were looking hot!

After we got settled in the bed together, Callie told me to take the top half while she got Aidan's bottom half warmed up. She started sucking his cock and I went up to kiss him. I really wanted to share his cock with her but I didn't want to overstep. So, I did as I was told. I could tell she was definitely in charge that night. After a bit of kissing, Aidan started biting my neck and shoulders, which instantly made my panties wet. All I could think about was how much I wanted that cock.

Callie told me to take a turn sucking Aidan's cock, so I wasted no time getting down there. I put it in my mouth like I was starving, shoving it deep into my throat. Callie played with his balls while I sucked. Hearing him moan as we were doing that made me even more wet. Fuck. I needed him inside me.

Callie said that it was time for Aidan to fuck me. I looked up at him, tears in my eyes from choking on his cock, and smiled so he knew that's what I wanted too. He then removed my lingerie quickly and climbed on top of me. I moaned as his big cock slipped inside my dripping wet cunt. How long had I been waiting for that? It sure felt like days. He fucked me softly at first. He moaned and said, "Fuck, you're so wet." And then he fucked me harder. It didn't take long before I was cumming all over his cock. I came over and over again as he continued to fuck me. I completely forgot that Callie was watching us until she said that she wished she had brought some toys to play with. 

Aidan told me to flip over on my side. He then lifted my leg and fucked me while sitting up on his knees. His cock kept hitting my cervix. So, I tried to find a good angle to prevent that. I ended up on my tummy. He fucked me for a little bit in that position and made me cum once more. Then, it was Callie's turn.

Callie unsnapped the buttons at her crotch and Aidan climbed on top of her. He started to fuck her and I watched as her tits bounced around. It made my clit tingle. She asked if I had brought any toys and I remembered that I had brought a vibrator. So, I went to grab it. I laid on the bed next to them and put the vibrator on my clit. It felt so good but I was trying to hold back. I didn't want to squirt all over the bed and make a mess. So, I took my time. 

Callie flipped over and Aidan fucked her in the doggy-style position. I watched his face as he fucked her. It was so hot watching him be pleasured by her cunt. As he got closer and closer to orgasm, so did I. My breathing became heavy and erratic. He looked at me, making deep eye contact. My breath caught in my throat. I couldn't breathe. Those piercing eyes had a hold on me. I started to moan and then my clit exploded in pleasure. I had one of the most powerful orgasms I've ever had in my life. It was fucking amazing. 

Callie asked Aidan where he would like to cum. He thought for a moment and then said, "On both of your breasts." So, Callie and I put our titties next to each other. But then she laid her head on my left breast and said it was very comfy. So, she decided that he would cum on my tits and her face. He crawled up to us, sat up on his knees, and started jerking his cock. I loved that sight. It turned me on so much. So, I started playing with my right nipple. I licked my lips, waiting for that sweet juice to shoot out of his cock. And then it came. All over my tits and on Callie's face. I closed my eyes and moaned as I felt the warm liquid cover my tits.

Callie wanted us all to take a shower after, so we piled in together. I was still riding an amazing high though. As Aidan and Callie began washing their bodies, I stood in the corner of the shower and rubbed the cum into my breasts. I was not ready to wash it off yet. They saw what I was doing and laughed. I didn't care. I was very content. 

I was hoping we would be able to have more sex in that hotel room before we had to check out but it just didn't end up working out that way. Hopefully, there will be more opportunities for fun like that in the future though. And maybe Callie will feel more comfortable with both of us joining in together when Aidan is fucking us. Because I'd much rather do that than play off to the side by myself.