Showing posts with label Husband's POV. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Husband's POV. Show all posts

Friday, April 13, 2018

Kink of the Week: Doggy Style

While I enjoy sex in almost any position I've tried, my favorite sex position is definitely doggy style. There are so many different reasons that I enjoy being fucked from behind. As I write about the things that I love about doggy style, Husband is going to add his comments (in bold) as well.

Sometimes, doggy style really caters to the submissive in me. I love to lie down on the bed, flat on my tummy, while Husband lies on top of me, using his weight to hold me down. He enters me from behind, using my pussy to get himself off. Being used like this makes me feel so dirty. I especially love when he calls me a slut while doing this because then it feels extra filthy. This is the only position that I really like to feel degraded and used in. It feels so hot that the only point of this is to get him off. Though, he always helps get me off after he cums, either using his mouth or his fingers. Over the last few years, this has been a very intense display of dominance from me, and one I thoroughly enjoy. Something about taking her and being in complete control, just because I want to is really enticing for me. I love being really foul mouthed about using her like this, especially when I hold her down with a hand grasping her ass, and my other entwined in her hair holding her head down. Very, very nice.

Another way it really pleases the submissive in me is when he's forceful with it. This is my favorite way to have sex in the doggy style position. I love when he takes control of me, pushing me down and pulling my hair. It feels so good when he uses my pigtails as handlebars. When he gets really into it, he grabs onto my hips, pulling me into him, fucking me HARD. I love when I can get into a really great rhythm and just pound the fuck out of her. It gets so loud that it sounds like I am spanking her when it is only our bodies colliding together. The sound of our bodies slamming together, the wetness of her pussy, and the immaculate moaning that she cannot contain is divine! Sometimes he spanks my ass, which always surprises me and makes me moan. He loves to stick his thumb in my ass during this kind of intense sex. Doggy style is my favorite position for many reasons. One of them being that I have a highly sensitive area to play with. Sometimes lightly running my fingers or tongue coaxing the most amazing purring out of her, sometimes a rough kneading of her muscles with my hands getting a deeper satisfied purr. Another reason is that the view is spectacular! A glowing pale skin that can still reflect the barest amount of light, no matter how dark it seems to be. Her curves are laid out in front of me to devour with my eyes. I get to see her beautiful pussy wet and ready for me, and her perfect tight little asshole that when I see it I want to touch it, play with it, be inside of it in some way. Then the best part is actually fucking her when she is bent over. It feels so primal and powerful to me. There is an energy transfer that is always going on, from both of us, a give and take that matches how we are outside of the bedroom. She isn't lying when she says that I love to stick my thumb up her ass when I fuck her from behind, it is intense to have control over her holes that way. Sometimes I try to resist and other times I just melt into it. Mmmm. I can easily rub my clit with my fingers or use a vibrator. We almost always cum together this way, which is really fucking hot. Rough doggy style gets me off so well.

I very much enjoy using butt plugs when having sex in the doggy style position. I like that Husband can look at the plug while fucking me. I know that turns him on so much. I love how I can feel every thrust move the plug in my ass. We often fantasize or role play that someone else is fucking my ass as he is fucking my pussy. DP is a huge turn on for both of us. We fantasize about DP in missionary as well, but he's usually in my ass and a dildo is in my pussy when we do that. Getting permission to put a butt plug, or other toy into her ass ahead of time is like Halloween and Christmas all at once! It is such a turn on that I get chills and can hardly stop myself from shaking with excitement. I love being able to watch the butt plug move every time I thrust in and out of her, it makes it really difficult to hold myself together and not cum really quickly. Even better is when I get myself set up with a strap-on using my cock in her pussy with the dildo in her ass. Being able to fuck both of her holes and fill her up while she gets to fantasize about more than one partner inside of her is exquisite.

I don't often feel very dominant in the bedroom. However, when I am feeling like taking control, doggy style is my favorite way to do it. I'll admit that I'm not the best at cowgirl sex. Because genetics sometimes screw you over, I have really bad knees that like to lock up and feel like they are going to explode. So, I don't often ride on top. Doggy style creates an easier alternative to this. After Husband enters me from behind, I can be the one in charge of the thrusting. I love to thrust back, shoving his cock deep inside my pussy. I can control the depth, speed, and hardness of the thrusts. I love making Husband cum like this. It makes me feel so empowered. I absolutely love when she feels like taking some control in the bedroom, but I have to admit it is best when she is bent over in front of me and I just hold myself readily available for her. I love how much I feel like she really wants my cock inside of her, and she is not afraid to show just how much she wants it by bucking against me.

Doggy style is also the perfect position for sex in random places. I've been bent over in an old abandoned house, grabbing onto a post for stabilization. I've also been fucked in the bathrooms of quite a few of my friend's and family's houses, bent over a sink, trying to not make any noises that would give away what we were doing in there. Sex in public is also great in this position. It's an easy position to do without having to take off too many clothing items and you can stop quickly and look innocent if someone happens to come along. Husband and I like to fuck on our balcony like this. He bends me over the railing and fucks me from behind. Once, a neighbor was sitting in their car right outside and could see everything we were doing. I'm still not sure if they realized what was going on. Fuck, that was so hot. We also tend to fuck in the doggy style position when we have sex on the couch...or in the kitchen bent over the counter or the table. It definitely makes sex easier when fucking in places outside of the bedroom. Having more sex in random places is definitely on my to do list. I love that doggy style makes it more readily able because I can push her up against a sink, a wall, table, chair, or whatever is at hand, then bend her over and just fuck her.

Rear-entry spooning is something that I'm not a big fan of. The cock just doesn't seem to hit all of the sweet spots. It is very useful for when you are both exhausted though. While fucking me in this position, Husband usually lifts my leg up and into my chest as he rubs my clit. You won't hear much moaning from me in this position because it just doesn't feel that great. We usually end up in more of a T shape by the end of it, which does feel slightly better. Really, this position is only good for when I really need to be fucked but neither of us can be bothered to put that much effort into it. So, it will do when times are rough. I wouldn't have thought of including this in doggy style fucking, but essentially it is, just sideways. We definitely do this more when we are exhausted and/or sore and it does the job, but usually takes longer (which could be because of being exhausted in the first place). One thing about rear-entry spooning that I do like is that if I am in the mood for breath play, it is a simpler way of incorporating for me. This was actually how I started breath play with her. It started very slowly, just light pressure, touches and caresses. Then I increased pressure when the noises she was making indicated that she was enjoying herself. From there I found that she was so wet that I couldn't resist sliding my cock into her pussy while holding her throat. That was quite fun.

There is one thing that I really dislike about doggy style. I am not a size queen. Bigger is not always better in my book. While there is such a thing as too small, I'm more happy with an average cock than an above average one. If a cock is 8+ inches long, doggy style can sometimes be too much. It goes way too deep and hits my cervix. I have a VERY sensitive cervix and if it's hit, it hurts a lot and I bleed. So, I try to avoid that whenever possible. That doesn't mean that I won't do doggy style with someone with a huge cock. It just can't be super rough.

Doggy style will always be my favorite. It's just a very versatile position and it feels absolutely amazing. I second this, also my favorite.






Tuesday, September 12, 2017

TMI Tuesday: September 12, 2017

Greetings! Have a wonderful week, start it off with TMI Tuesday.



Ash
1. What is your reality?
I'm dealing with a bout of depression. I have been thinking a lot of not nice things about myself and when I look in the mirror, I feel disgusted. I have two amazing guys in my life right now that have been helping me feel better though. My husband and Jack always make me feel beautiful and sexy. Other than that, I'm dealing with always feeling tired because I can't seem to get myself to bed at a decent hour.

2. Will you have sex today? This week?
Well, I just got a text from my husband saying that he is planning on using a new toy on me tonight. So, I think that's a yes. Hopefully that won't be the last time I have sex this week.

3. What did you hate doing this past weekend?
I hated being without my husband all day on Saturday because his boss forced him to work.

4. What did you love doing this past weekend?
I got to go to my niece's birthday party. I love little kid birthday parties! I also watched Lego Batman, which was great. I got fucked really good on Sunday night as well. That was probably my favorite part.

5. Which new technology have you found most helpful in your life? Which do you find to be the most annoying?
Google calendar is amazing. I know it isn't new but I just started using it a couple years ago when I switched from iPhone to Android. I love that I can put things on the calendar and just invite my husband to the events so he knows everything that's going on. I used to just tell him and he would never remember. I have a lot less stress now when he uses it. I guess that is a lame answer. I don't use a lot of technological things. I don't think a technological thing annoys me. Mostly it's just the people using it. Like people who can't enjoy your company without being on their phone.

Bonus: Go do last week’s TMI questions that were posted on Friday. Great questions!

1. You are going to make a sexy weekend with your lover. Which one are you most likely to enjoy? Which of the activities is most likely to happen?
a. Cook dinner together
b. Play a sexy game
c. Take a bath together
I want to choose take a bath together but we would have to find a tub big enough for that. I'm not a small girl and my tub is tiny. I do love playing sexy games though. So, if a big tub isn't available, I'll go with sexy games.

2. Will you watch porn this weekend? Alone or with someone?
I watch porn every day on Twitter. Sometimes my husband watches with me, but I mostly watch it by myself.

3. Sexy games–pick one you’d like to play? Why?
a. Naked twister or
b. Strip trivial pursuit
Hmmm. I don't think I would feel comfortable playing Naked Twister. I would be too busy feeling self conscious. I like the idea of Strip Trivial Pursuit. My husband and I played a game of Strip Uno in the past. That was super fun. I'm pretty sure I lost.

3. Friday night you hit happy hour, you meet a super sexy woman/man and the two of you chat and laugh the night away. She/he leans into you and says, “You’re irresistible, can I touch your pussy/cock?’ What is your answer?
"Oh my! Yes, please."

4. What do you really have planned for the weekend?
My husband and I are going camping with a friend on Saturday night. My daughter has soccer pictures and a game right after on Sunday.

5. Does this TMI on a Friday have you changing your weekend plans?
Nope.

Bonus: What you like to do on the weekend but never seem to get the chance?
Rest and relax. I always seem to keep myself very busy. Even when I really just want to take some time to relax. I recently discovered that this may be because of my CPTSD.





Husband
1. What is your reality?
My reality is an ever shifting pathway. Some days I shift closer to madness, other days I feel incredible. I am evolving, in what feels like two steps forward and one step back; cautiously, with the taste of paranoia on my tongue. I struggle with accepting who I am, who I have become, keeping a balance in my mind. My reality is that many times I am not okay inside, but that in itself is not wrong, and that I can ask for help, even when sometimes I don't want to. My reality is confronting the fears and demons and jealousies that I have avoided for years.

2. Will you have sex today? This week?
After work tonight I have plans for Wife and I and some toys, so yes, sex tonight. This week, I can't imagine why not, Wife is hot and I want that body and mine to make music together.

3. What did you hate doing this past weekend?
I hated having to work early after being at work the previous night late, not to mention that it was a long day of work and I felt exhausted mentally and physically.

4. What did you love doing this past weekend?
I gave time to my daughter to practice soccer on Saturday even though I was exhausted. I had some great conversation about reconnection with the Wife, followed up by some good hard fucking.

5. Which new technology have you found most helpful in your life? Which do you find to be the most annoying?
Google is one of my favorite companies for all the services they provide for me. Being able to sign in to any device or computer and have all of my data right there is fantastic. Having Calendar that is shared between myself and Wife for planning, Inbox for it's easy mail sorting and reminder creation, and Keep which I use to jot down random notes, or work on TMI Tuesdays! I also love using Wunderlist for creating lists. Wife and I have shared lists for shopping, movies, books. I keep book lists, have a shared book list with my brother, and many other useful lists.

Bonus: Go do last week’s TMI questions that were posted on Friday. Great questions!

1. You are going to make a sexy weekend with your lover. Which one are you most likely to enjoy? Which of the activities is most likely to happen?
a. Cook dinner together
b. Play a sexy game
c. Take a bath together

Most likely to happen; cooking together. Wife and I work really well together in the kitchen most of the time, and I really enjoy our time when we do. Most likely to enjoy; taking a bath together. We so rarely get the chance to take baths together, but when we do it is such amazingly simple intimacy that I cherish them.

2. Will you watch porn this weekend? Alone or with someone?
I will likely watch some porn on Wife's Twitter feed which I actually really enjoy, though I may not put much emphasis on that. So yeah, EMPHASIS! *grins*

3. Sexy games–pick one you’d like to play? Why?
a. Naked twister or
b. Strip trivial pursuit
I don't think I would enjoy Naked Twister, not being of the nudity, but because I am horribly inflexible and would likely hurt myself playing. I would rather play Strip Trivial Pursuit, that sounds more fun.

3. Friday night you hit happy hour, you meet a super sexy woman/man and the two of you chat and laugh the night away. She/he leans into you and says, “You’re irresistible, can I touch your pussy/cock?’ What is your answer?
First I have to say I would likely be flabbergasted and blown away that someone would actually be interested in me (low self esteem issues, no hating). Secondly I would like to think that I would say yes, but I don't know if I would be too in shock to not be timid about it. Time will tell I guess, right?

4. What do you really have planned for the weekend?
Sadly the first thing I have to do is work on Saturday morning, but then camping with Wife and friend/s. Outdoor sex. Maybe movie on Sunday?

5. Does this TMI on a Friday have you changing your weekend plans?
Yes! I totally plan on looking into our gaming closet to see which games can be converted into sexy stripping games.

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Tuesday, August 22, 2017

TMI Tuesday: August 22, 2017

It's TMI Tuesday!
"The Psychology of Sex"



Me:
1. For you, can sex be separated from love?
Sex isn't connected to love in my brain. Most of the time, sex is just for pleasure. Pleasure for myself and pleasure for my partner. Every once in a while, Husband and I feel very connected and have a sex session that would probably be described as "making love." That kind of sex is softer and feels very much like a combining of our souls. About 95% of the time, we have rough kinky sex and that doesn't have anything to do with our love for each other.

2. Can sex be separated from caring?
I cannot separate sex from caring. I am not a fan of casual sex. I have to have a connection with someone in some way to have sex with them. It obviously doesn't have to be love but there should at least be a friendship established before I will want to have sex with them. If I don't care about you, then I most definitely don't want to fuck you.

3. Men: Does sex seem to be something that you can never get enough of and are constantly seeking or thinking about?
Alright, I know it says men here but this question really resonates with me. I want sex ALL THE TIME. Did we just have sex? That's great, but I want more. More, more, more. Always. I can't get enough sex and I think about it constantly. It is quite overwhelming actually.

4. Women: Is sex secondary to intimacy, physical closeness, and commitment?
Sex is VERY important to me. Those other things are also imporant to me, however, they aren't as big of a deal as sex is. If I'm not having sex regularly with my partner, I feel very disconnected. I also tend to start falling apart mentally if I'm sexually deprived.


5. Who is more discriminating in choosing sexual partners–you or your significant other?
Well, we are both very picky. Though, I definitely crush on people a lot more than he does.

Bonus: Who is more likely to take on additional sexual partners, you or your significant other?
That would be me for sure. There are a few people he crushes on, but for the most part, he doesn't really care if he has sex with people other than me.


Husband:
1. For you, can sex be separated from love?
Sex is separate from love for me. I used to see sex as something that happens when you love someone, but that was more how I was raised. I have come to see love as an intangible thing that can be expressed tangibly through intimacy among other things, but not necessarily through sex. For me sex has become more about lust or desire and fulfilling those things for both myself and Wife.

2. Can sex be separated from caring?
Like Wife, I cannot separate sex from caring. To me sex is linked with intimacy and is a huge dose of touch, which I need. Without sex I don't feel cared for or about, or rather it becomes extremely difficult to feel that I am cared for. The few times I did have sex with someone without caring it felt like it was taking something away from me instead of adding to me.

3. Men: Does sex seem to be something that you can never get enough of and are constantly seeking or thinking about?
Most of the time I am very much not the typical male when it comes to thinking about sex. I don't think about it very often through the day, if at all sometimes. However when I get inspired and turned on mentally by ideas of things I would like to do to Wife, or things Wife tells me she would like me to do, it becomes a burning inside of me that takes over most of my rational thought. There have been times I have been so turned on by thinking about sex that it felt like I was being smothered and unable to breathe. It becomes all consuming and Desire rides rampant in my head and chest.

4. Women: Is sex secondary to intimacy, physical closeness, and commitment?
I am going to answer this one similarly to Wife with the male question. This question resonates with me a lot. Sex is secondary to intimacy and physical closeness to me, but not by too much. If I don't get touched, and feel an intimacy connection I am less likely to initiate sex. Without intimacy and touch, I do not feel desired and have a difficult time fighting through mental issues. The longer I go without touch the harder it is for me to be turned on and want sex. Wife and I dance this line of intimacy and sex better now with me communicating more freely.

5. Who is more discriminating in choosing sexual partners–you or your significant other?
I think that we are both picky about who we want to join either of us in the bedroom, together or singly. Like Wife says, she definitely crushes on people a lot more.

Bonus: Who is more likely to take on additional sexual partners, you or your significant other?
Wife is more likely to take on more partners for sure. It would be fun for me, but isn't a need.


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Friday, December 30, 2011

Bottomed out and topped off

So, I've decided to try something a little different. Since Husband was the one that was being fucked for the most part last night, I thought it would be nice to allow him to write something from his perspective. So, without further ado...



It all started with an old urge before getting into the shower.

Once upon a day I used to bring certain "toys" into the shower with me. They weren't in and of themselves sexual in nature, but in my mind they usually quickly turned that way. My favorite used to be a back massager that was blue and crystalline that had three prongs that came off of the center bulb that all ended in smaller bulbs. I used to experiment with this toy by inserting it in my ass as deep as it would go. I absolutely loved this massager, especially when I relaxed enough to use the main bulb. I loved the feeling of something up inside of me that way, but I digress.

We have an anal toy that I picked out in a catalog that I thought would be very fun to use on the Wife, and at the same time knew that I would enjoy very much. Earlier in the evening before showering, I cleaned said toy from previous delights. Before getting into the shower, I couldn't help but stare at the magenta jelly-like anal toy with it's one beaded end, a flared bulb, a bigger flared center and imagine it up inside of me. It didn't take much convincing from my subconscious for me to drag it eagerly into the shower with me. I started off slowly with the beaded end, slipping each bead inside of me one at a time, and each nubby bead slightly larger than the previous. The pleasure from the nubs rubbing along my sphincter brought my cock to full attention. I could feel my body relaxing into the toy and I needed more. I switched to the small flared bulb end and again worked it in and out of me slowly, getting more and more excited with each internal stroke. Soon I was stretching myself to accommodate the larger flare of the center bulb and it was amazing! I realized after a few minutes of this that the shower was starting to go cold and I hadn't washed or shaved yet. I inserted the toy up to nubs on the other end and quickly washed and by the time I had finished shaving the water was too cold to continue. I reluctantly slipped each flared end out slowly, enjoying the feeling of my ass hanging on to each curve of that wonderful pink toy.

After drying off I knew that it wasn't enough, not like it used to be when I was all by my lonesome, not when we had a strap-on sitting all cozy in the bedroom. Being that I am not very forward in demanding or even asking for the things that I want I had a decision to make. I stopped to think for just a moment, of Wife all rigged up entering me from behind, and my mind was SO made up. I lit a candle in the bedroom and came out into the living room. I was shivering with nervous excitement when I brought the strap-on to her and dropped it into her lap. "I think you need to fuck me", I told Wife with as much courage and confidence as I could muster. With a peaked expression and a slightly raised eyebrow, "Oh really?" I nodded vigorously saying, "Really."

Wife went into the bedroom while I killed all the lights in the house. When I got into the room Wife was lying prostrate on the bed. Seeing her naked and bare before me like that I was filled with a burning need to touch all that beautiful flesh and to kiss and run my tongue all over it. I crossed the room to her and climbed up and started at my favorite spot, her sexy curvaceous ass. I kissed along her cheeks, and first the left, and then the right. I stopped to breath her scent in and shivered at the sheer sexual power behind that most intimate of areas. I then spread her cheeks slightly and plunged my tongue into the depths of all that I could reach, and running my tongue along her labia straining to reach her clit and running back up slowly toward her anal bud. I flicked my tongue around her opening and stopped to put some pressure on it willing it to open up for my swirling wet muscle. My tongue then traced a line up her back coming all the way up to her shoulders and her neck, knowing that Wife melts and moans in this area and that gets me all revved up.

Wife rose up from her position and slid into the straps for the strap-on, her newly added purple cock standing erect and ready for action. I climb onto the bed and grab the lube from the nightstand, pouring it onto my palm on my way to the foot of the bed before gripping Wife's cock and stroking the slick all the way down her shaft. Purple though her cock was, I was imagining it to be real and warm and pulsing under my hand and it felt great to be touching her new member. I turned and crawled to the pillows grabbing them towards my chest as I lowered my head and raised my ass up in the air slathering the leftover lube all over my ass. Wife climbed into the bed and grabbed the curve of my hips as I guided her to my opening. Slowly she penetrated my ass sliding in and out with a smooth shallow rhythm while my sphincter adjusted to her swollen cock. The moment I felt everything open up I pushed myself back so that I swallowed up the entire shaft with my ass and my cheeks smacked against Wife's body. As if waiting for her cue she started pushing her manhood into my willing hole. Bent over and submitting to her in that way was intense. When she started to ram into me hard and fast, I moaned and cried out into the bed and pillows gripping the bed uncontrollably. She was reaching something inside with the tip of her penis that was like a gong sending powerful waves of pleasure through my body each time she connected. She moaned with pleasure as she slid up inside me until I thought she was going to spill her hot cum all inside of me. Changing things up we laid on our sides and started spooning. I kept trying to angle myself to get her all the way inside of me, but laying down that way I couldn't get a good position to do so. We swapped places again, this time with her on her back, her cock stretching to the ceiling. I straddled her reverse cowgirl (or in this case maybe reverse cowboy?) lowering myself down while she held herself waiting to enter me again. I teased her cock with my ass keeping her entry shallow until I couldn't contain myself any longer and I NEEDED her deep inside of me and slapped my ass down all the way down her shaft taking all of her. I started to ride her hard and deep, rolling my hips, grinding every inch of her into me causing that gong to ring very loud throughout my body. My own cock was starting to throb and pulse with pleasure as we continued our dance. I could feel her rising up as I was going down, and we found an amazingly deep rhythmic groove. Again, Wife started to moan in pleasure, sending chills down my back and tightening me around her, and I wanted her to cum while she was inside of me. I reached down and spread her legs so that I could touch her and found her wet. I must have been fucking her really good to get her that wet, which only encouraged me more. I cupped her parts and felt her wetness all over my hand. I slid my fingers inside of her, but knowing that it wouldn't be enough to make her cum for me. I slowly pulled my fingers out and circled her clit with my very wet fingers. At first I circled just enough to get her clit to swell and ache for more, then I quickened the pace until she was crying out under me and cuming up into me.

My cock was begging for pleasure, begging to be inside of Wife. Who am I to say no? I pull Wife's cock out of my ass and turned around putting her legs up into the air as I lined up and pushed myself into her tight pussy. She was so wet I had no trouble quickly building a smooth pace going all in and coming almost all the way out, stroking her inside with the whole length of me. I love hearing and seeing how well my penis does this for her. I started to tease her some, inserting myself shallowly rubbing the upper wall of her vagina with the head of my penis while alternating a deep thrust all the way in. She responded with locking her legs around my hips dragging me in deeper and deeper until I was plunging into her g-spot over and over again.I could feel the tension in her body and her pussy as the g-spot orgasm built up and exploded while she burst out in a cry of pleasure. I pulled out completely only to shove myself back in again hitting that same spot. I could feel the tight knot of pleasure where I needed to connect and I pushed her legs up and back even further making sure that each stroke would hit her pleasure mark. We built up the pleasure together, both of our bodies tightening with the coming orgasm. She reached her hand down to touch herself and I started to feel myself coming to the edge, speeding up slightly until she came pulling my orgasm out of me as only her orgasm can. I collapsed onto her chest, knowing that I was definitely pleasured out for the night. I definitely enjoyed the hell out of myself, as well as Wife's amazing cock skills.