TMI Tuesday: June 26, 2018

Heyyyy! TMI Tuesday time again.





Ash:
1. Is your sex life more fantasy or reality?
It's a little of both, I guess. I have a great sex life with my husband, however, I do fantasize often about things that I can't have. For example, sex with women and people who I am crushing on.

2. If you could hook-up with a past lover (with no repercussions or regret), who would it be and why? (No need to use real names just briefly describe the person and their relationship to you.)
My husband's ex-boyfriend, Trystan. I'm still very attracted to him. The three of us had some amazing sex together. I miss it so much. I would definitely hook up with him again.

Also, I'd love to fuck my ex-girlfriend, Kirsten again. We had a foursome with Trystan and Husband once and it was very hot.

3. You can only indulge in one of the following sex acts for the rest of your life, which would you choose to enjoy?
a. oral sex, only giving
b. 69
c. oral sex, only receiving
d. mutual masturbation
Well, fuck. This list is rubbish. Shit. How am I supposed to choose? Alright, fine, I choose A. I don't think I could give up sucking cock. I love that too much.

4. With each lover do you pay attention to what they want or do you have a repertoire that you stick to when having sex?
Of course I have key moves that I always use but if I know a partner likes certain things, I will definitely do those things. I also pay attention to their reactions to find out what they like.

5. Do you initiate sex for healthful benefits, e.g., to sleep better or relieve pain?
I definitely use sex to help me get to sleep. If I can't sleep and I'm alone, I will masturbate. If I'm with my partner, I will try to initiate sex.

Bonus: Do you understand the clitoris?
That's a difficult question. I understand my clitoris. Every clitoris is different though. Each one likes to be touched differently. I absolutely love to get to know the ones I don't understand yet.



Husband:
1. Is your sex life more fantasy or reality?
I definitely feel like my sex life is grounded in reality. There are things that I imagine/fantasize about and things that come to me, but the majority of them we are able to do.

2. If you could hook-up with a past lover (with no repercussions or regret), who would it be and why? (No need to use real names just briefly describe the person and their relationship to you.)
If I could hook up with a past lover it would be Wife, because I get to cheat this answer because it has come to pass that way. We dated back in 2001-2002 and then split apart because we were both very young. Now I get to have that amazing sex with more experience and understanding under my belt. I feel like a much better lover that is able to satisfy my lover's needs and desires.

3. You can only indulge in one of the following sex acts for the rest of your life, which would you choose to enjoy?
a. oral sex, only giving
b. 69
c. oral sex, only receiving
d. mutual masturbation
Mutual masturbation would be the best for me in both giving and receiving. This is some pretty slim pickings for the rest of my life though.

4. With each lover do you pay attention to what they want or do you have a repertoire that you stick to when having sex?
I have a repertoire but it is not set in stone. I am adaptable and able to change depending on the needs and the feedback I receive from my lover.

5. Do you initiate sex for healthful benefits, e.g., to sleep better or relieve pain?
I do! Sometimes I do it for myself, but mostly I will initiate sexual contact in the hopes that it will help Wife recover from what ails her.

Bonus: Do you understand the clitoris?
I do my best to listen and respond.

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TMI Tuesday: June 19, 2018

Hi there! Let’s play TMI Tuesday.

Take a Look at Me Now.



Ash:
1. What was your biggest worry five years ago, do you still have that same worry or feel the same about it at this minute?
This was a very difficult time for me. Husband broke up with his boyfriend, Trystan, and decided that he was going to be monogamous. I had fallen in love with Trystan, which made the whole thing extra messy. I was very depressed and suicidal at the time. My biggest worry was that I was going to carry out my suicide plan. Thankfully, I made it through. Recently, we started talking to Trystan again. I had missed him so much. I still have an ache in my heart but I'm so glad that he's in a good place with an amazing fiance.

2. Do you have a positive or negative body image? What factors contribute to your self body image?
a. advertisements
b. media and social media
c. comments from others
d. introspection and analysis of self
It really depends on the day, but it's mostly negative. I can usually fake confidence really well. Every once in a while I feel really sexy and I love those days. I would say that all of those things effect my body image. Advertisements usually focus on thin women being beautiful, the media often talks bad about full figured women and praises thin women, and sometimes strangers say mean things to me about my weight. All of those things negatively effect my self image. However, nice comments from others help me to feel beautiful. So, that positively effects my self image.

3. How confident are you as a person?
a. no confidence at all
b. confident around friends and family
c. confident at work, and in my job
d. very confident in my surroundings–work, social settings, with strangers
I'll say B. I am confident around family and sometimes friends. I tend to be awkward and doubt myself a lot.

4. How creative a person are you? Why?
a. not creative
b. average creativity
c. creative in some situations
d. very creative
I'll go with C. I'm an excellent party planner and cake decorator. I get very creative with that.

5. Do you resent things being uncertain and unpredictable? Why?
a. agree
b. undecided or Don’t Know
c. disagree
Yeah, I do prefer when things are certain. I don't like when things are "up in the air" and uncertain. I don't have any problem with being occasionally spontaneous, but I do like having a plan. Unpredictability makes me feel anxious.

Bonus: What do you wish you had invented?
A super strength goth sunscreen that prevents me from getting tan in the summer when I want to spend every day in the pool.



Husband:
1. What was your biggest worry five years ago, do you still have that same worry or feel the same about it at this minute?
My biggest worry five years ago was trying to find my way after breaking up with my boyfriend. Things were dark and scary because of all the hurt that rippled through every one involved.

2. Do you have a positive or negative body image? What factors contribute to your self body image?
a. advertisements
b. media and social media
c. comments from others
d. introspection and analysis of self
I would say that for the most part I have a neutral body image, which dips into the negative from time to time. Factors that affect it would be both B and D. I think about my health and how I should be doing so much more to better myself. Social media usually makes me see others that Wife is attracted to and then I look at myself and question my body. I see how it stirs her, and then worry that I don't.

3. How confident are you as a person?
a. no confidence at all
b. confident around friends and family
c. confident at work, and in my job
d. very confident in my surroundings–work, social settings, with strangers
B and C for sure. I feel really good around both family and friends, and it bolsters confidence that might not really be that strong. I feel most confident about my work though. I know the areas where I really shine and I keep them polished while always trying to learn more and practice so I can become confident in those skills as well.

4. How creative a person are you? Why?
a. not creative
b. average creativity
c. creative in some situations
d. very creative
I have varying degree of creativity in varying situations or subjects. Sometimes inspiration is really difficult for me to find and connect with. I am not nearly as creative as I used to be years ago though. I enjoy when my muse rides me though, the outcomes are usually pretty intense and amazing. 

5. Do you resent things being uncertain and unpredictable? Why?
a. agree
b. undecided or Don’t Know
c. disagree
For the most part yes I agree. It is the biggest reason I don't do bets or gambling because I want to know with certainty that the outcome is in my favor. However when it comes to life in general I know that certainty goes out the window when looking at the big picture, and I try my best to accept how things go and adapt myself accordingly. I feel like in this I excel beyond the majority of people.

Bonus: What do you wish you had invented?
Oh boy. I wish I had invented a cryowave. This would work similar to a microwave, but would chill things rather than heat them up. Want to make ice cubes really quick, fill the tray and throw it in the cryowave. Need to cool something down, cryowave. I just think it is something that would be pretty damn awesome. Granted it hasn't been invented, but if one day it does, I definitely will have wanted to have invented it.

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Sinful Sunday: Red

Husband and I went to a kinky play party on Friday night. Even though I was really hoping for some needle play and didn't get it, we still had a really great time. We were able to hang out in the hot tub with friends while naked, which was fantastic. It always feels amazing to be naked in water. I love to watch my boobs float. Husband also put me on a spanking bench and beat my ass. This is what it looked like when he was done. The bruises never show up very well until the next day. It was very numb and sore at the same time.





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TMI Tuesday: June 12, 2018

What do ice-cream and sex have in common? We discuss both this TMI Tuesday, that’s what.





Ash:
1. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be and why?
Well, I took this quiz and the result sounds accurate.



2. What are the best sexy skills you bring to a sexual relationship?
Hmm. I've been told that I'm really good at sucking cock. Hopefully there is more that I can't think of.

3. What is the single largest problem causing you angst in your romantic relationship (current or most recent relationship)?
The largest problem right now is my husband's boss who keeps making my husband work 3rd shift. Our sex life really suffers because we just don't have the time to have sex when he's on that schedule.

4. What is the best part about being in a relationship with you?
I fall hard and love strongly. I show my partner that I care and I love making them feel special. Also, I want sex all the time, which could be a good or bad thing.

5. What is the biggest misconception that people have about you?
That I would be constantly humping your leg because I'm horny all the time. While I do want sex all the time, I don't like to initiate all the time because I don't want to be overwhelming. I'm much more likely to do/say something sexy/cute to make you know that I want you and then hope you make a move. Though, I will still wake you up with oral sex or jump on top of you from time to time.

Bonus: When you look at old photos of yourself, do you like what you see?
Sometimes. I wish I was the size I used to be in high school, though I was seriously depressed and suicidal back then. So, it really depends on the picture.




Husband:
1. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be and why?
Chocolate and peanut butter ice cream with a chocolate shell. I'm dark, but comforting with a hard outer shell.

2. What are the best sexy skills you bring to a sexual relationship?
I am good with my hands, good with my tongue, good with directions, and I am always eager to please.

3. What is the single largest problem causing you angst in your romantic relationship (current or most recent relationship)?
My work schedule. Currently working overnights is making timing very difficult and restrained. Before that it was due to an earlier schedule causing disparity between our sleep schedules. So basically my work is cock blocking me all over the place.

4. What is the best part about being in a relationship with you?
I am kind and affectionate, and not afraid to show how much I care.

5. What is the biggest misconception that people have about you?
I honestly can't think of anything.

Bonus: When you look at old photos of yourself, do you like what you see?
I usually see a really carefree happy kid before the ravages of mental illness took over. I generally love seeing that, there are times it makes me sad and wistful, but then I think of all I have become and wouldn't change a thing.

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Sinful Sunday: Bubbles and Breasts

I was not prepared for Sinful Sunday this week. I've been so busy that it really snuck up on me. So, you get another picture from my last bubble bath playtime.

TMI Tuesday: June 5, 2018

Hello! It's time for TMI Tuesday!


Ash:
1. Are you addicted to any social media (twitter, instagram, snapchat, etc.)?
I'm definitely addicted to Twitter. Though, I have been taking somewhat of a break from it for the last month. I've been posting every once in a while but I haven't been keeping up with people that I usually do. I miss interacting with those people. I think I'm finally ready to get back into it.

2. You know a secret about someone. What do you do with that information?
a. I keep it to myself
b. I tell my best friend
c. I wait until they hurt me and use it as ammunition
d. I tell everyone I can, I don’t mean to, I just cannot keep a secret
I either keep it to myself or talk to my husband about it. Husband never shares it with anyone else. I'm really good at keeping secrets.

3. You see someone breaking the rules at work, what do you do?
a. Pretend not to see what is going on
b. Inform upper management
c. Advise the co-worker that their actions are frowned upon and can lead to job loss
d. Tell everyone else in the office what you saw
That would depend if it effects me or not. If it doesn't, then I ignore it. If it does, then I'll say something to the person doing it. If it continues and it's a big deal, I will take it to management at that point.

4. A friend has a new hairstyle that is un-becoming, and not really age-appropriate on them. They ask you how they look. What is your reply?
a. You look just fine.
b. You look much better this way.
c. OMG, you look a bit ridiculous.
d. *Silence*
I would tell them nicely if it didn't look good. Though, as someone who regularly wears pigtails, I don't like the age-appropriate comment.

5. How helpful are you at home?
a. I come home and immediately veg out on the couch/bed.
b. I cook and clean a few times a week.
c. I am extremely helpful.
d. I do what I am asked and nothing more.
I do most of the things at home. Husband does help when he can though.

Bonus: In your opinion, what is the best city in the world? Why?
Probably a city I haven't been to yet. If it has a beach nearby and it's warm, I'm happy.



Husband:
1. Are you addicted to any social media (twitter, instagram, snapchat, etc.)?
I don't feel like I am addicted to any social media. I check in sporadically, but I know that occasionally I get anxiety about it and just rush through quickly catching small glimpses of things.

2. You know a secret about someone. What do you do with that information?
a. I keep it to myself
b. I tell my best friend
c. I wait until they hurt me and use it as ammunition
d. I tell everyone I can, I don’t mean to, I just cannot keep a secret
I tell my best friend, who happens to be Wife. People can confide in me about anything and that is as far as it ever goes.

3. You see someone breaking the rules at work, what do you do?
a. Pretend not to see what is going on
b. Inform upper management
c. Advise the co-worker that their actions are frowned upon and can lead to job loss
d. Tell everyone else in the office what you saw
Honestly I would have to say I pretend to not see it. It is typically a safety issue that is not any more or less dangerous than something that would be done outside of work. I'm not saying it happens with everyone, or that it happens all the time, just that when it does happen I look the other way. If it is a big deal I will talk with them about perhaps a better way to do it next time.

4. A friend has a new hairstyle that is un-becoming, and not really age-appropriate on them. They ask you how they look. What is your reply?
a. You look just fine.
b. You look much better this way.
c. OMG, you look a bit ridiculous.
d. *Silence*
Likely silence followed by an honest tactful answer. I'm not going to lie and say it looks good if it doesn't.

5. How helpful are you at home?
a. I come home and immediately veg out on the couch/bed.
b. I cook and clean a few times a week.
c. I am extremely helpful.
d. I do what I am asked and nothing more.
A combination of a, b, and c depending on the day. I try to be helpful all the time, I don't do much cooking, but I try to help with keeping dishes and laundry under control. I do random cleaning when I see it needs doing, maybe not as well as it should be. Sometimes I do get home and I don't feel like doing anything productive and I just relax.

Bonus: In your opinion, what is the best city in the world? Why?
Whichever city has my heart, which means where my wife and daughter are.

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Sinful Sunday: Underneath

It's the first Sunday of the month, which means it's prompt weekend. The prompt for June is underneath. Molly left this up to interpretation. Being that I just received some new lingerie in the mail this week, I decided that I would show you what was underneath my dress.




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