Wife:
1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store?
I have never had sex in a changing room at a store but I have masturbated in one. It is definitely a fantasy that's on my bucket list to do though.
2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex?
Yes to both. I'm not the biggest fan of the blindfold thing. Mostly because it distracts me. It feels so uncomfortable on my eyes and I just keep thinking about how I'd rather take it off. That ends up ruining any sexiness that's going on. I'm still open to trying it when my partner wants to. I haven't blindfolded my partners much. I guess it's just not really my thing.
3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex?
I love being tied up. Having sex while tied up is very hot. I also like to be tied up while we cuddle and watch a movie. I just love rope and being restrained. I also love handcuffs during sex because I think they hurt more on my wrists, which really turns me on. I like to fight against my restraints.
4. Shower sex…yea or nay? Why?
I love foreplay in the shower. Making out, kissing/touching each other's wet bodies, oral sex, etc. I don't really like actual intercourse in the shower because, interestingly, water has a way of making the vagina dry.
5. Ever done a striptease for a lover?
Yes. The first time I did this, my lover laughed at me. A lot. He was just an asshole but it really scarred me. It took me years before I felt comfortable enough to try it again. I have done it for Husband quite a few times. I've also done it for my ex-girlfriend, Kirsten and Husband's ex-boyfriend, Trystan.
Bonus: What are you thinking?
That I really wish I had a FWB that could come over and keep me company on Friday night. I have a few free hours and I'd love to spend them getting fucked.
Husband:
1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store?
I have not had sex in the changing room of a store, even though it sounds really hot to fuck in such a public place as this. The possibility of getting caught and being tagged forever as a sex offender generally keeps me from exploring sex in public.
2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex?
I have blindfolded Wife a few times during foreplay, because I enjoy the tension I hear in her voice when she is talking to me when I get toys that I want to play with on her. I enjoy that little hint of fear that she has, because she has to trust me. I think the only time we have actually kept the blindfold on during sex was because the lights were on and I wanted to see the things I was doing to her body.
I think Wife has blindfolded me during foreplay once or twice, but not while we were actually fucking.
3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex?
I have been tied up for sex a few times. I have had some really unpleasant experiences in the past with a previous partner which has made it difficult to enjoy being tied up during sex often. The few times Wife has tied me up it has been during foreplay, I do not believe we have actually had sex while I was tied up.
I do very much enjoy tying my wife up before and during sex. I enjoy watching her helpless, again knowing that she has to and does trust me. This is something that I think will have to happen again soon.
4. Shower sex…yea or nay? Why?
Yea; with the right shower. With the shower we have; nay. Our shower is too small, too cramped, too just not quite right for most sexy things. That hasn't stopped us from having fun and playing anyways. Plus also, I always get turned on when we shower together, especially if I get to wash her and get her all soapy and wet.
5. Ever done a striptease for a lover?
I believe I have, a few times. I'm strange in that I feel completely comfortable once I am nude, but I don't always feel fantastic about my body getting to that point. Though, now that I have some sexy underthings for my nether regions I will probably feel more inclined to do this in the future.
Bonus: What are you thinking?
I am thinking about how Wife was a very good girl last night, but we talked about doing naughty things while she was being good. I am thinking about all those dirty things that I want to do to her. I am also thinking about my birthday spankings that I am to receive later this week.
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My ex-wife and I were banned from the Victoria's Secret in Gainesville (fl) for dressing room sex.
ReplyDeleteDid you get in trouble legally? Or they just said you can't come back? Were you being loud? I need details.
Deletesome follow up questions:
ReplyDeleteWife Q1: more details please! What spurred you to self pleasure in a changing room? All the images of yourself half naked in all those mirrors, or a really hot sales assistant in the store? :)
Husband Q3: if it's not too traumatic, what was so bad? Did they ignore your limits/safe word and just go crazy on you; or did they leave you alone in a stress position too long? I have a fear of both, hence I've never done it (being tied up).
Wife: I wish I could say that I'm turned on by the image of my naked body. I know that once, I did it because there was a really hot guy in the store that I was following around. I didn't approach him because I'm terribly awkward. I did, however, masturbate while thinking about him in the changing room. I've done it 3 or 4 other times and they were just because I was horny and it sounded exciting. It's been years since the last time I did that though. I think I should correct that.
DeleteHusband: My first girlfriend was the perpetrator of all the unpleasant experiences. The first couple times she would tie me up and then leave me in the room by myself. This graduated into tying me up and teasing me then humiliating me. The very last time she tied me up she raped me, then left me tied up and cheated on me with another guy in her sisters room knowing full well I could hear everything from across the hall. She was very sick and enjoyed hurting me mentally.