TMI Tuesday: August 11, 2020

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

Ash:

1. How do you know if you are connecting with another person?

When I am connecting with a person, I feel like I can be myself. I open up and feel safe sharing things with that person. 

2. To be beautiful means. . .

that when a person is with you or sees a picture of you, they get pleasurable feelings that make them feel good. This means that not only are you pleasing to the eye but you also have an attractive personality.

3. Do you spend a lot of time keeping up with what is going on?

I used to. Now, I have to limit that a lot or my mental health is greatly affected. I read a little bit every day and then cut myself off from it. Things are just too chaotic and scary right now.

4. True or False. You feel that your friends have more rewarding experiences in their lives than you.

True. I feel like I lead such a boring life. I want to be more exciting but it just doesn't seem to work out for me. I really wish I had more friends that I could hang out with. That would help a lot. Also, more sexual partners would be great.

5. During the Covid-19 pandemic, do you feel more swamped by your responsibilities than before the pandemic?

I don't have a lot of responsibilities anymore since most things are shut down and cancelled. I used to be super busy all the time. Now, I just sit around the house with nothing to do. I hate it.

Bonus: What’s on your mind?

I had a dream last night about eating tacos for dinner and now I really want some. Trying to convince the husband to go get me some.

Husband:

1. How do you know if you are connecting with another person?

Most of the time it is a feeling that grows with time, but sometimes it is instantaneous. In both cases, it feels like a pull to be closer, to want to be near someone.

2. To be beautiful means. . .

To be mostly good and decent as a human being; to have physical, emotional, spiritual appeal. For me it is more than physical, beauty starts inward and grows outward.

3. Do you spend a lot of time keeping up with what is going on?

I spend more time keeping up with nerdy information than what is going on with the world. There is entirely too much negativity being put out there, especially in my country, that it can be overwhelming to deal with.

4. True or False. You feel that your friends have more rewarding experiences in their lives than you.

True. I definitely feel like my friends have more rewarding experiences. Much of this I feel is due to the fact that I am an introvert and the rest to the fact that most of my decision making is based on safe choices.

5. During the Covid-19 pandemic, do you feel more swamped by your responsibilities than before the pandemic?

Some days I do. Most of the time when I am at work it feels like everything has ramped up and there are so many more things that need to be accomplished. For home, it has more or less stayed the same. I do more store and grocery runs that before.

Bonus: What’s on your mind?

Worry about work is pretty forefront right now. Work has a creeping way of bothering me when I have been away for a length of time.

Sinful Sunday: Sudsy Love

It’s Sinful Sunday and I’m feeling extra dirty.

So, I thought I would try to get clean.

Needless to say, it didn’t work very well.

I’m still a dirty girl but at least I smell good.

Sending you all love.

I hope you are doing well and staying healthy.

Come see who else is sinning by kissing the lips below.

TMI Tuesday: July 7, 2020

Here we go again – TMI Tuesday!

Oooh Oooh That Smell!




Ash:

1. What is the last song you sang?
Before You Go by Lewis Capaldi. It's my current obsession.

2. What place are you longing to visit?
The United Kingdom, Ireland, New Zealand.

3. Tell us about the last time you were insulted?
On Saturday, my biggest crush right now said that as soon as we are able to safely hug again, he is going to hug Husband first. That's okay though, I'll just take a longer hug.

4. When was the last time you hung out with anyone not in your immediate household? What did you do?
On the Fourth of July, we went to our best friends' house to have a physically distant swim. Then, we sat in their driveway and watched them and the neighbors blow shit up in the culdesac.

5. Fill in the blank: I spend a lot of hours _____ .
I spend a lot of hours lost in my phone these days. I don't really have much else to do anymore. I'm always stuck in the house, lonely and bored.

Bonus: Which is worse–smelly feet or smelly breath?
Smelly breath for sure. I can deal with smelly feet as long as they aren't in my face. If you have smelly breath, I'm not going to want to kiss you. This includes people who smoke cigarettes. Yuck.



Husband:

1. What is the last song you sang?
Lay Your Head On Me by Major Lazer Feat. Marcus Mumford; it makes me think of Wife.

2. What place are you longing to visit?
Ireland calls to me strongest of all the places in the world.

3. Tell us about the last time you were insulted?
Pretty much any time I see anything my dad posts on Facebook.

4. When was the last time you hung out with anyone not in your immediate household? What did you do?
Fourth of July was spent socially distant with a family we used to be able to hang out with all the time. We swam in their pool and watched fireworks in their driveway.

5. Fill in the blank: I spend a lot of hours _____ .
I spend a lot of hours working, reading, thinking, and sleeping. Not enough hours sexing that's for sure.

Bonus: Which is worse–smelly feet or smelly breath?
Smelly breath I would generally say is worse because smelly feet are usually covered up most of the time.

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Sinful Sunday: There Will Be Blood

TW: Menstrual Blood

It's the first Sunday of the month, which means it is prompt weekend for Sinful Sunday. The prompt for July is "Sexing Up the Movies." This means, we were supposed to take a movie title and create a sexy, sinful, erotic image to go with it.

Since I've currently got my period, Husband chose the movie, "There Will Be Blood." He really enjoys fucking me during my period, so I'm pretty sure he chose that on purpose.



You may have noticed that there is more than one fluid in this picture. So, not only will there be blood but there will also be cum. It's kind of like horror movies and sex. They go together perfectly. Mmmm.

Here's a bonus picture of my hand and vibrator in the aftermath.



Check out who else is sinning by kissing the lips below.

TMI Tuesday: June 30, 2020

Don’t be shy. It is time for TMI Tuesday!

Robots & Love



1. Should we be worried about sex robots?
Nah, I think they are great. Sure, some people could get addicted to them or have negative experiences but I think for the most part, a lot of people could benefit from having one. I would love to have one.

2. A humanoid (a life-like robot) that looks like your biggest crush, and acts exactly the way you hoped your crush would act has been created. This humanoid initiates sex, with you. Would you have sex with the humanoid?
Oh, most definitely. I am imagining a Tom Odell sex robot and I would so be into it. If I can't actually have sex with him, then I would settle for the robot.

3. What’s your typical sleep attire?
My birthday suit. I don't wear anything to bed. I feel like I'm choking when I wear a top to bed. The only time I wear bottoms is when I've got my period.

4. What is the most cringe-worthy thing you have experienced in the bedroom?
I was having sex with G and after he finished, he said, "I have a vibrator you can use if you want to finish yourself off." I cringed super hard at that and said, "No, thanks." I couldn't bring myself to have sex with him again after that. I was quite disappointed.

5. Are you satisfied with the amount of after-sex affection (e.g., spooning, cuddling, intimate conversation) you receive? yes or no . If no, how could it be better?
I'm not usually one to need a lot of after-sex affection. Usually, I end up passing out right after. I enjoy cuddling after sex as long as I can sleep while doing it. I like having an intimate conversation before sex, not after.

Bonus: What is your most useless skill?
I know the lyrics to almost every song I've ever heard. I think I have a memory bank just for song lyrics.

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Sinful Sunday: Illecebrous

It's the first Sunday of the month and
the Sinful Sunday prompt for June is "Letter I."

Illecebrous

Illecebrous is a word that isn't used much anymore
but I think it is beautiful.

Illecebrous means alluring and enticing.

I think illecebrous describes this photo very well
but you should be the judge of that.

Check out some other sinful I words by
kissing the lips below.

Sinful Sunday: This Pandemic Blows

After getting all made up last weekend, I was sad that I had nowhere to go due to the pandemic. Instead of going out to have fun, I decided to have some fun in the bedroom. So, here is another photo from last weekend's photo shoot.

Don't forget to check out who what is sinning. Click the lips below.

Sinful Sunday: World Goth Day

I haven't put on make-up in quite a while. Some of that is due to depression and some of it is just because I haven't gone out in a very long time. Anyway, I decided to celebrate World Goth Day on Friday by dressing up and putting on makeup. I'm pretty happy with the results.





Kiss the lips below to see who else is sinning.

Sinful Sunday: Waterfall

Would you put this in your mouth, please?

I washed it just for you.

I love the way the water looks as it's 

cascading over my nipple and hand.

Give the lips a kiss and see who else is sinning.

TMI Tuesday: May 12, 2020

It's time for TMI Tuesday!




Ash:
1. How replaceable are you?
Honestly? I don't think I'm very special. I have always felt expendable my entire life. I'm sure there will always be someone better that could replace me.

2. Does jealously have value in driving humans to improve themselves or is it a purely negative emotion?
Jealousy is only a negative emotion if you don't own it and communicate about why you are feeling that way. Sometimes jealousy should drive someone to improve themselves. Though, jealousy is often just a product of our brains lying to us.

3. A section of your life’s memories needs to be erased, which era will you elect to have erased?
a. childhood memories – age 3 to 12
b. teen and young adult years – age 13 to 23
c. adult – age 24 to 35
A. I would love to have my childhood memories erased. I had a horribly abusive childhood. My step-dad abused me physically, sexually, and emotionally. I'd love to forget all of that. There really weren't many good memories from the age of 3-12 in my life.

4. With no laws or rules to influence your behavior, how do you think you would behave?
I am way too innocent for my own good. I break small laws that I find to be completely ridiculous (I'm the u-turn queen) but I doubt I would ever do anything that people would consider bad.

5. Does anonymity encourage people to misbehave or does it reveal how people would choose to act all the time if they could?
I fully believe this to be the case.

Bonus: In the time of coronavirus pandemic, what are you rocking–homemade face covering or manufactured mask?
I have a homemade face mask that a friend made for me. I also bought some from an online company that has switched from making clothing to making masks during the pandemic.




Husband:
1. How replaceable are you?
There are days where I feel like there is no one that can replace me, where I feel so assured of my place in the world, at work, and at home and those are the days when I am having little to no mental health issues. Bad days will strip me of all of my confidence and I feel like I am one or two steps from replacement.

2. Does jealously have value in driving humans to improve themselves or is it a purely negative emotion?
I think jealousy can have value, but only if it is addressed and brought to light. By this, I mean searching for the reasons for the jealousy so that those parts can be worked upon to better oneself. I have come a long way in the ability to recognize the jealousy I harbor and to analyze it so that I may better understand myself.

3. A section of your life’s memories needs to be erased, which era will you elect to have erased?
a. childhood memories – age 3 to 12
b. teen and young adult years – age 13 to 23
c. adult – age 24 to 35
I feel like the most formative years for me as I can remember them was everything from my teenage years and beyond. I hardly recall much from my youngest years other than the fact they were difficult. I also have some difficulty recalling years during and after my initial skirmishes with depression around 17/18 years old. In that respect I feel like I've already stretched this and have memories erased. If I were to choose, I think I would remove my childhood memories.

4. With no laws or rules to influence your behavior, how do you think you would behave?
Uh, if the rules only no longer applied to myself, I would probably mostly carry on as I have, but would perhaps indulge myself in some of the darker recesses of my brain. If it applied to everyone I would do whatever I felt was needed to defend my family from all the other people who would love to have no tether to rules.

5. Does anonymity encourage people to misbehave or does it reveal how people would choose to act all the time if they could?
I think anonymity does both. I feel like the tail end would feed the mouth of the next in an unending loop that will just get bigger and bigger. Kind of like how America has become in the last few years under the current president.

Bonus: In the time of coronavirus pandemic, what are you rocking–homemade face covering or manufactured mask?
I have both available to me, through work, as well as through friends who made some masks.