TMI Tuesday: February 28, 2023

It's time for TMI Tuesday: Music Edition! I am very passionate about music. I like to be listening to music at all times if possible. I don't enjoy the quiet unless I'm in nature. So, this TMI Tuesday really spoke to me.

Ash:

1. What’s the most annoying song in the world?

Dancing Queen by Abba

2. What’s the saddest song in the world?

Never Let Me Go by Florence + the Machine

3. What’s the sexiest song in the world?

Desire by Meg Myers

4. Name a new, to you, band or music artist that you can’t get enough of? Post a link to one of their songs.

Over the past year, I've been listening to Current Joys a lot. They are a "new to me" band that my kid introduced me to.

It's really hard to pick one. Ugh. Okay, this is one of my favorites. Here's Fear by Current Joys.

5. Have you met any famous musicians?

I've met a lot of famous musicians. My first one was Billy Ray Cyrus when I was 10 years old. I've also met Modern Day Zero, Rascal Flatts, Phil Anselmo, Justin Furstenfeld, Tom Odell, ALDN, and Glaive. I feel like there are more in there but I can't think of them right now.

6. What song best describes your life?

During good mental health days, I Get Off by Halestorm. 

During bad mental health days, The Answer by Blue October.

7. How important is your partner’s taste in music to you?

I usually hope that my partner's taste in music somewhat matches mine so that we can listen to music and go to concerts together. Honestly, though, it's not super important. As long as they don't mind that I listen to music that I enjoy in my car when I'm driving.

8. Do you sing in the shower?

Oh, yes. Always. What I sing greatly depends on my mood though.

9. What was the last live music show you attended? Did you buy a t-shirt?

The last concert I went to was Glaive in October. I bought a shirt for my kid but not for myself.

10. What’s the sweetest song in the world?

Definitely Work Song by Hozier. "When my time comes around, lay me gently in the cold dark earth. No grave can hold my body down. I'll crawl home to her." Fuck, that's so romantic. Makes my little goth heart so happy.

11. Can you play a musical instrument? Which one?

I used to be very good at playing the clarinet. I haven't played since high school though. I have taught myself how to play the piano by ear. And I took lessons in 2020 but I stopped due to a mental health decline. I took a few guitar lessons when I was a teenager but I don't remember much. I'd love to learn to play for real though.

12. Have you ever dated a musician?

I've been on dates with musicians but they never got serious, unfortunately. I really want to date someone who can play the guitar and sing songs to me. Mmmm. Total swoon.

13. Are you a groupie?

I am no longer a groupie but I once was.

– If yes, for what artist/band?

I was a groupie for ModernDayZero when I was in my teens and early twenties.

– If no, do you wish you were and for what music performing artist or band?

I don't think the groupie life is for me anymore. It was fun back in the day though.

Bonus: Describe your worst, best, strangest, funniest or saddest concert moment.

My worst concert moment happened to me when I was about 20 years old. I was at a Marilyn Manson concert. The crowd was HUGE and I was right in the middle of it. The crowd surged toward the stage and I went down. People were trampling me and I couldn't get up. I was screaming and desperately trying to grab people to help me up but people just kept stepping on top of me. Finally, I grabbed onto someone's clothes and pulled myself up slowly. They were yelling at me and trying to get me off of them but it was my only chance to get out of there alive. It was difficult for me to get up. Not only because the person was fighting me off but also because my body was being stood on by multiple people. I think there were 4 different people standing on my legs alone. I seriously thought I was going to die there and I probably would have if that hadn't worked. Ever since that night, I have had a fear of being in a large crowd at a concert.

Bonus, Bonus: If you listen to the radio, what station and type of music are you tuned to the most?

I don't listen to the radio anymore. When I did, I usually either listened to rock or classic rock. When I had Sirius XM, I listened to the 90s on 9 station a lot.

Husband:

1. What’s the most annoying song in the world?

Let's go with Baby Shark, just because I cannot think of anything else.

2. What’s the saddest song in the world?

Black Orchid by Blue October hits a special soft sad spot for me.

3. What’s the sexiest song in the world?

I love Pony covered by Far.

4. Name a new, to you, band or music artist that you can’t get enough of? Post a link to one of their songs.

Not new but I can't think of anything new that I can't get enough of; Vast

5. Have you met any famous musicians?

Tom Odell and Justin Furstenfeld.

6. What song best describes your life?

Right now I'd have to say Carry On by The Score and AWOLNATION just because I refuse to give up.

7. How important is your partner’s taste in music to you?

I don't think it is all that important to me, I tend to listen to a lot of random things. 

8. Do you sing in the shower?

Nope, can't say that I ever have.

9. What was the last live music show you attended? Did you buy a t-shirt?

I can't remember the last show I've been to, but I do know that I didn't buy a shirt.

10. What’s the sweetest song in the world?

Warmth by Bastille, but this version is best.

11. Can you play a musical instrument? Which one?

Skin flute and mouth whistle, both of which I am not terribly skilled at.

12. Have you ever dated a musician?

No.

13. Are you a groupie?

– If yes, for what artist/band?

– If no, do you wish you were and for what music performing artist or band?

No and no.

Bonus: Describe your worst, best, strangest, funniest or saddest concert moment.

Best concert moment was with my brothers while we were getting downpoured on at a Godsmack concert.

Bonus, Bonus: If you listen to the radio, what station and type of music are you tuned to the most? 89.1 the Wood, it's the local college radio that plays all kinds of music and it is my go-to station.

Fun in the Bath

I love bubble baths. I always make the water way too hot though and end up overheating myself. Much fun was still had.

Sinful Sunday: Keep Them On

I dressed up for date night with Husband. When we got home, I asked if he wanted me to take the fishnets off so he could fuck me. His reply was, “No! Keep them on!” He likes to run his hands over them as he fucks me. I’m definitely not complaining. 

          

Thick Thighs and Spooky Vibes

Pleasure Dom

Bite mark that Graham left on my thigh

I recently started seeing someone new. I met Graham at a polyamorous meetup about a month ago. As soon as I saw him, I was instantly drawn to him. The first thing I noticed was his amazing eyes. After talking to him for a bit, I realized he's quite nerdy as well. He's basically everything that I'm attracted to wrapped up in a very sexy package. We started talking a couple days after we met and two weeks ago, he came over for sex. It has been a while, so things aren't very fresh in my memory, but I'm going to do my best to recall them. 

I was nervous but also very excited. I kept trying to decide what to wear when it hit me. Why put regular clothes on that are just going to be taken off right away? So, I decided to wear lingerie instead.

When Graham got to my house, I answered the door wearing the lingerie dress I had picked out. It turned out to be a perfect idea because he was basically speechless when he saw me. He growled, pulled me close, and kissed me. Then, he asked me to lead the way to the bedroom.

We went to the bedroom and started making out, slowly taking off our clothes. He grabbed one of my breasts and started to suck on my nipple. Then, he pushed me down on the bed. I started to scoot back and then realized he was diving in between my thighs. He licked my clit as I caressed his very soft hand. It felt incredible. I just laid there and got lost in the feeling.

After a while, he climbed on top of me and started to kiss me. Then, he asked if I'd like to taste him. I said, "Absolutely." He laid down and I kissed my way down to his cock, then licked it from the base of the shaft to the head, swirling my tongue around it. I got it nice and wet and then slowly started to suck it. It was delicious, just as I had imagined. I sucked very slowly, making sure to savor every bit of it. Then, I shoved it deep into my throat. He said, “You must be into cock worship.” And until that moment, I didn't realize that I definitely am. So, that's a new thing.

I came up for air and started to make out with him again. Then, I laid down and he climbed on top of me. He slid his cock inside my pussy and I couldn't help but moan as he was entering me. It felt like I had waited so long for that moment and it was definitely not disappointing. 

I was on the edge of the bed, so he told me to wrap my arms around him. I wrapped my arms and legs around him tightly and he held me close as he continued to fuck me. His cock filled me up so well. I got completely lost in that moment.

He asked if I would like him to be gentle or rough. I told him he could be rough. He sat up on his knees and fucked me harder while rubbing my clit with his fingers. Then, he flipped me over and fucked me from behind for a while.

He asked if I wanted to play with some toys, so I grabbed my favorite dildo. He said he wanted to DP me with it. So, he put it inside my pussy and then put his cock in as well. I can't even tell you how many orgasms I had while he fucked me like that.

He said he wanted to watch me ride him, so he laid down and I climbed on top of him. I started off slowly at first, then as soon as I began to move faster, I started cumming all over him. The orgasm was so intense that I fell on top of him and basically started convulsing.

We took a break so I could recover and I was completely drunk on ecstasy. I got lost in his eyes and probably said some embarrassing things during this time. My brain was mush at this point. I remember kissing a lot and just being in what felt like subspace.

After I was somewhat recovered, I started to suck his cock again. I did it faster this time and he asked if I was trying to make him cum. I honestly was just really getting into it. I wasn't trying to end things.

I laid down and he got on top of me and started to fuck me again. Then, I asked him if I could flip over again and grab my vibrator. I came really hard as he fucked me, then he told me that he wanted me on the edge of the bed so he could fuck me really hard. I was totally down for that, so I got up and bent over the end of the bed. 

He fucked me really hard while I rubbed my clit with my fingers. Then, he stopped and asked, "Do you want a drink?" I smiled and said, "Yes." Then, I got down on my knees and opened my mouth as he stroked his cock. When he started to cum, I wrapped my lips around the head of his cock and drank every drop of his cum. 

The sex we had was very hot and so amazing. I know I didn't do it justice because I haven't had the time to write about it until now. We fucked for 2 hours and afterward, he asked if I had kept count of my orgasms. I didn't even think about it! Not that my brain would have been able to keep track while it was so mushy. The thing is, Graham is a pleasure dom. That means he makes it his mission to give his lovers as many orgasms as possible. So, he did his best to keep count of my orgasms. I think the orgasm count was 35, according to him. That feels very accurate to me. Like I said, amazing.

One of my favorite things about having sex with Graham was that he kept saying sweet things to me the whole time. Calling me a good girl, saying I'm beautiful, and things like that. It turned me on and made me smile. How is he the perfect mix of cute & sweet and hot & sexy? Fuuuuck. 

I'm so excited to experience more with Graham. We actually have another date night tonight. I'll try to update about it sooner than last time.

Squeezable

Let's throwback once again to last summer in the pool. I'm so ready for summer. How about you? 

You want to come squeeze these titties for me?

Creepy Lighting

I've always been attracted to the dark side of life. Creepy things make me very happy. So, it should come as no surprise that I covered myself in a bunch of glowing spiders. 

TMI Tuesday: February 21, 2023

It's time for TMI Tuesday.

Ash:

1. What are the three (3) ”nevers” of your life? (Things you would never do or have never done)

There aren't many things that I wouldn't try. I like to say, "I'll try anything twice, just to make sure I don't enjoy it." There are a few things that I would never try though. Three of those being, sounding, scat play, and bestiality. No thanks.

2. When you are performing oral sex on a lover is it generally:

a. Because you are trying to warm them up and have it lead to intercourse

b. You love to give oral pleasure

c. They want it, so you oblige but don’t really like it

d. You like to worship cock or pussy

Hmm, a combination of A, B, and D.

3. What part of lovemaking does your partner speed through?

a. seduction

b. foreplay

c. the deed itself

If I had to pick one, it would be seduction.

4. What is the one thing you have not done with your partner that you really want to do and how will you go about making it happen?

Knife play. I really want to do this with him. It's probably my biggest fantasy involving him specifically. He loves knives and weapons, so I feel like he could get into it. I bring it up every once in a while to see if I can talk him into it. I think we need to find someone to talk to that is experienced with it to help him feel comfortable.

5. Who is the last person to grab your ass? When?

Husband grabbed my ass when I was getting up off the bed today.

Bonus: Describe your partner’s/lover’s/plaything’s/significant other’s penis or pussy in 10 words or less.

Beautiful, curved, perfect, delicious, pleasing.

Husband:

1. What are the three (3) ”nevers” of your life? (Things you would never do or have never done)

Never have I ever had a MMF double penetration threesome. (This isn't entirely true. We've never had a successful vaginal/anal DP threesome, which is what he's referring to.)

Never have I ever had sex with someone older than me.

Never would I ever participate in scat play.

2. When you are performing oral sex on a lover is it generally:

a. Because you are trying to warm them up and have it lead to intercourse

b. You love to give oral pleasure

c. They want it, so you oblige but don’t really like it

d. You like to worship cock or pussy

This is 100% a combination of B and D without a doubt.

3. What part of lovemaking does your partner speed through?

a. seduction

b. foreplay

c. the deed itself

Foreplay.

4. What is the one thing you have not done with your partner that you really want to do and how will you go about making it happen?

Skinny dipping. I'm not sure where we could go and be able to do this though. Maybe through some house rental or something.

5. Who is the last person to grab your ass? When?

Wife earlier today while I was working on dishes, I think. I'm pretty sure I was in the kitchen. Definitely today though.

Bonus: Describe your partner’s/lover’s/plaything’s/significant other’s penis or pussy in 10 words or less.

Delicious, tender, velvety, hungry, wet, tight, pulsating.

Arachnid

Bank holiday bum day? Arachnid edition. 

Sinful Sunday: Boots

I have a thing for boots. I love wearing boots. I love seeing other people wearing boots. I even love wearing boots during sex. They make me feel sexy and powerful. 

It's not always ideal to wear boots during sex but sometimes, it just works. Like Friday night, when Husband used a knife to cut a hole in my fishnets and then fucked me while I was still wearing my favorite boots.

          

Exhausted

I may be feeling exhausted but I’m still very sexy. 

Naughty School Girl

This is one of my favorite pieces of lingerie. DJ got it for me. Every time I wear it, I think of him. Damn, I miss his cock.

Passionate Sucking

Thinking back to that time last summer when Husband and I had a hotel room for the night. Mmmm. I’m always very passionate when I suck cock. 

Soaped Up

The only thing that would make these soapy titties better would be if you were the one soaping them up. I can think of a few things I'd like to do afterward too.

TMI Tuesday: February 14, 2023

It's time for TMI Tuesday! 

1.  How many states have you had sex in? How many countries? Yes, Oral counts! All sex acts– penetrative or not– are sex.

Hmm, let me count. I think I've had sex in 12 states of the US. I've only had sex in one country.

2. What do you think is the sexiest piece of clothing a man/women wears on a daily basis? e.g., bra, jeans, sundress, dress shirt, etc.

A kilt or a sundress.

3. Would you date yourself? Why or why not?

For sure. I think I'm a fantastic girlfriend. I am honest, caring, and drama free. I can be fun sometimes too. Haha.

4. Which muscle do you work the hardest: brain, heart, mouth?

Oof, probably my heart. I feel things very strongly and I think with my heart a lot. It can be good in some instances but it often causes pain.

5. Fill-in the blank: I am totally prissy (overly finicky) when it comes to _____ .

Germs. I'm a germaphobe.

Bonus: Describe your darkest fantasy.

Well, it involves a bathtub full of blood. I think that's all I'll give away though.

Waiting

Waiting patiently for this bathtub to fill up with hot water. Thought it was an excellent time to snap a photo.

Sinful Sunday: Sexy Sweet

With Valentine's Day coming up in a couple days, I thought I'd post something sexy and sweet on this lovely Sinful Sunday. Want to come and be sinful with me?

Kiss the lips below to see who else is sinning.

          

Sexy Warrior in the Snow

Here’s a little appreciation post for my very sexy husband. This is a winter photoshoot we did last year. We haven’t had enough snow yet this year to do another one. 

Purple Lingerie

Purple lingerie is my favorite. 

I mean, you have to admit, my ass looks great in it.

Boobs Float Too

Here’s a throwback to this past summer. I love the way my boobs float in the pool. 

Just Imagine

Just imagine that you could see the view from the right side of the bed. 

What would you do?

TMI Tuesday: February 7, 2023

It's time for another TMI Tuesday in which I go back and answer questions I've missed in the past. 

1. Under what circumstances would you kiss a stranger?

Well, I went to a kinky game night party on Saturday. During one of the games, I kissed a guy that I had just met. I think that qualifies?

2. Who was the last person you sent a sexy or romantic text message to? What did the text say?

I sent it to Graham, the guy I’m seeing right now. I said, "Sexy hand you got there." I was responding to a very non-sexual photo that he sent me that his hand was in. I know, my hand fetish is ridiculous.

3. What was the last sexy or romantic text message that you received and what did it say?

Graham responded with, "And it'd look great around your neck, dear one."

4. What was the longest romantic relationship you’ve had (months, years)? And what was the shortest romantic relationship?

I’ve been in a relationship with Husband for 18 years. Shortest relationship was only a couple months. 

5. If there was a cunnilingus contest, would you enter? Would you “eat” or be eaten?

I would probably enter as either one, eater or eaten. Though, it’s not always super easy for me to cum from oral sex. I haven’t eaten a lot of pussy but I am definitely a fan.

6. If we asked your partner/lover to describe you sexually in one word, what do you think that word would be?

I guessed delicious. I asked Husband and he said luscious. I mean, it’s basically the same thing, right?

All Over Me

Sometimes, when I masturbate in the shower, I imagine that the water is actually your cum spraying all over me. That always makes me cum hard.