Sinful Sunday: I Am Bisexual

Last week was prompt weekend for Sinful Sunday. I didn't get to post last weekend, so I'm posting it now.

The first thing that came to mind when I saw the prompt "I am..." was that I am bisexual. I love sex with men AND women very much. Definitely women a little moreso than men.

I tried to capture all of that here.





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TMI Tuesday: September 18, 2018

Welcome to sexy fun and playfulness at TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. Which animal listed below represents your true sexual self?
a. Chipmunk – cute and cuddly
b. Monkey – all about being mischievousness
c. Tiger – I’ve earned my stripes
I would have to say mostly monkey with a little bit of chipmunk. I'm definitely mischievous during sex. During foreplay, I can be pretty cute sometimes.

2. Your partner is in the mood for sexy fun and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
I don't do very well with lack of sleep. So, if I have to be up really early, I may say, "Not tonight" or that we can have a quickie. If sleep isn't an issue, then it doesn't matter if I'm tired. I'll still have sex.

3. Which of these sexual descriptive labels closely matches you?
a. Dominant
b. Submissive
c. Top
d. Bottom
e. Switch
f. Kinkster
Submissive. I have tried to be a switch but dominance just isn't in me.

4. Would you rather have your enemy eaten by a shark or die in an earthquake getting swallowed up by earth?
They both sound like pretty quick deaths. What's the point? I guess if I had to pick one, it would be the shark. At least the shark gets a meal.

5. For the next year, would you rather be dressed like a mime every day OR look normal but not be allowed to talk?
I'd dress like a mime. I don't talk much normally but I'd definitely like to be able to talk.

Bonus: What’s the most beautiful word in the world?
Melancholy



Husband:
1. Which animal listed below represents your true sexual self?
a. Chipmunk – cute and cuddly
b. Monkey – all about being mischievousness
c. Tiger – I’ve earned my stripes
Monkey; I definitely have a strong mischievous side, it tends to be exciting.

2. Your partner is in the mood for sexy fun and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
B; trading favors for sexy fun is always great. Sometimes I am tired and may be extra sleepy, but I never have the mindset of "there is no way I'm giving it up tonight."

3. Which of these sexual descriptive labels closely matches you?
a. Dominant
b. Submissive
c. Top
d. Bottom
e. Switch
f. Kinkster
I think sometimes I feel like a switch, but I spend the majority of the time as a top.

4. Would you rather have your enemy eaten by a shark or die in an earthquake getting swallowed up by earth?
I am going to get dark here because I feel like I need more information. How big is the shark? Do they die from multiple bites or just one large one? How long are they aware and alive while being eaten by the shark? Do they die immediately from the earthquake, or do they slowly suffer buried alive? Do they have other injuries that would make their suffering last longer? To both, do I get to watch?

5. For the next year, would you rather be dressed like a mime every day OR look normal but not be allowed to talk?
I could dress like a mime for a year. Talking, even though it is not my strong suit, is preferable to not talking.

Bonus: What’s the most beautiful word in the world?
Bonus: Willow, Oblivion, Velvet

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Sinful Sunday: Trickle

I took this picture a couple months ago for Jack. I came across it again today and decided to share it with you.





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TMI Tuesday: September 11, 2018

Deja vu TMI Tuesday as these questions were originally posted November 18, 2014. Except this is my first time doing this one, so it doesn't matter.




Fill in the blank

Ash:
1. When I can’t sleep I _____ .
Catch up on Twitter and/or masturbate

2. My dream bedroom would be full of _____ .
Kinky toys, mirrors, and lots of goth furnishings

3. If I could wake up anywhere tomorrow it would be _____ .
California

4. I need to _____ at night.
Be held
I have a lot of anxiety at night because of my C-PTSD. Having someone there to hold me helps to calm my anxiety.

5. _____ would truly be a nightmare.
Living alone
I would never make if I had to live alone. I have way too much anxiety when I'm alone.

6. Night time is the right time to _____ .
Have outdoor sex
I imagine you're less likely to be seen and caught. That's one thing that I really fantasize about a lot but I'm terrified of getting caught and having to register as a sex offender.

Bonus: Briefly tell us about your last dream–erotic or not.
I had a dream last night that my ex-bestfriend was my friend again. We were hanging out like old times and we had an intense make out session. It was such a realistic dream that when I woke up from it, I was crushed to realize it wasn't reality.



Husband:
1. When I can’t sleep I _____ .
Lay down and usually overthink

2. My dream bedroom would be full of _____ .
Four poster bed, chest for toys, mirrors

3. If I could wake up anywhere tomorrow it would be _____ .
Ireland. Or somewhere wild in Europe.

4. I need to _____ at night.
Cuddle and be touched

5. _____ would truly be a nightmare.
Losing my family

6. Night time is the right time to _____ .
Stare at the sky over a bonfire

Bonus: Briefly tell us about your last dream–erotic or not.
I can't remember the last dream I had.

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Sinful Sunday: Macro Lips

It's the first Sunday of the month, so that means it's prompt time for Sinful Sunday. This month's prompt is macro photography.

I played around with a few ideas for this. After taking quite a few pictures of my clitoris, I wasn't brave enough to post any of them. So, Husband said he wanted to take a picture of my mouth, which he claims is very sexy. I hope you think so too.




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TMI Tuesday: August 28, 2018

Hello sexies! Welcome to TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. What type of clothes make you feel sexy?
a. a specially selected casual outfit
b. lingerie or silky pajamas
c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
d. anything that leaves me almost naked

I hardly ever feel sexy in my casual clothes. I sometimes feel sexy in lingerie but mostly, I just feel self conscious. I love dressing up in fancy clothes. Dresses and skirts make me feel sexy a lot of the time. So, C is my answer.

2. Which do you prefer?
a. pillow talk
b. sexy texting
c. love notes

I prefer pillow talk. It's my favorite way to connect to my partner. It doesn't even matter what we are talking about. I just love being close and confiding in one another.

3. Which do you do best?
a. pillow talk
b. sexting
c. writing love notes

Pillow talk. I suck at sexting even though I try really hard at it. I'm not great at writing love notes either, though I do like to do it every once in a while.

4. You've been granted just ONE of the following in your favorite city/place in the world. Which would you choose and why?
a. 24 hours of romance
b. 24 hours of lust (intense, overwhelming sexual desire but not acted upon mixed with enthusiasm for life)
c. 24 hours of sex

Well, fuck. Why can't we have all of this? That sounds like the best vacation ever. Right now, I could really use the romance. I'm feeling very disconnected and unimportant, so the romance would really help. The 24 hours of sex definitely needs to happen as well though.

5. How do you tap into your sexiness?

I flirt with people who will flirt back. That makes me feel sexy and I just build off of it from there.

Bonus: Which is better–your digital sex life or your in-the-flesh sex life?

Definitely my in-the-flesh sex life. There is a lot that happens that I don't write about. I should definitely get back in the habit of writing more.



Husband:
1. What type of clothes make you feel sexy?
a. a specially selected casual outfit
b. lingerie or silky pajamas
c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
d. anything that leaves me almost naked

c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
I love going out wearing my nice kilt with a dressed up top and a tie, sleeves rolled up slightly. I feel in tune with how I look when I am dressed nice.

2. Which do you prefer?
a. pillow talk
b. sexy texting
c. love notes

All three are incredible. Love notes hit my emotional heart, sexting gets me all stirred up sexually, and pillow talk is a fantastic way to connect.

3. Which do you do best?
a. pillow talk
b. sexting
c. writing love notes

c. writing love notes; I have a talent for writing at times when my heart and soul flows out of my fingers and onto paper (or the keyboard). It is a knack for occasionally pinning down exactly what I am feeling to express my love.
I practice at sexting, sometimes I feel like I do a really good job of it, other times like I miss the mark completely. I do my best to not let it get me down.
I fail at pillow talk a lot of the time because I can quickly go from being awake and having a conversation to being asleep and being talked at without realizing the change.

4. You've been granted just ONE of the following in your favorite city/place in the world. Which would you choose and why?
a. 24 hours of romance
b. 24 hours of lust (intense, overwhelming sexual desire but not acted upon mixed with enthusiasm for life)
c. 24 hours of sex

a. 24 hours of romance; Even though I want to say 24 hours of sex. Romance jumps out at me the most, with sex being right behind it. I crave the romantic and physical intimacy and I think that romance might have a better shot at doing that for me.

5. How do you tap into your sexiness?

I have to think about it. I have to mentally go through possibilities and ideas and scenarios to get a good tap into my sexiness on my own. So basically I have to prepare for it ahead of time. That being said, if someone else taps into my sexiness for me it can bring it up to the surface rather quickly.

Bonus: Which is better–your digital sex life or your in-the-flesh sex life?

Real life in-the-flesh sex life is better. I love my in-the-flesh sex life. There are peaks and valleys due to all the things that come with life, but I thoroughly deeply enjoy my actual sex life. Wife is truly fantastic as a partner and lover.

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Sinful Sunday: Birthday Spankings

Today is Husband's birthday! Happy birthday to him!

Last night, we went to a party full of kinky people. I told Husband to take off his pants and kneel on the spanking bench. Then, at midnight, I gave permission to 8 people to take turns giving him birthday spankings. Many impact toys were used on him and I really enjoyed watching. This was the result.




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TMI Tuesday: Aug. 21, 2018

Guess what time it is? Time to get TMI Tuesday sexy that’s what time.



1. What is sexy time to you?
When things turn sexual and sex acts happen.

2. Who’s sexier–women or men?
Women are far sexier than men. Men turn me on a lot but women turn me on so much more. Women are more attractive, softer, and taste better. Sorry, guys.

3. How did you learn to masturbate, and how old were you when you first succeeded?
I started masturbating when I was a very young child. The earliest I remember was when I was 4 years old. Honestly, I probably came out of the womb with my hand on my vulva. I was 14 when I had my first orgasm. Here is an excerpt from a post titled "Born a Nympho" in which I describe the first time I had an orgasm.

"One day I was sitting on the toilet masturbating, as I often did, and I felt this intense build-up and then a very powerful release. Pleasure shot through my body and I felt like I couldn't breathe. I whispered to myself, 'What the fuck was that?'"

4. Do you like taking naked photos of yourself?
Hmm, that's a tough one. I don't like taking naked photos of myself because I have self image issues. Sometimes when Husband is helping me take photos of myself, we get into arguments because I hate how I look in every picture. However, when I get a good picture, I am happy to share it. It helps my self esteem to hear/read positive feedback.

5. What is your biggest sexual fear?
I have a big fear of getting an STI. It's the thing that has stopped me from being more promiscuous than I am. I'm always as safe as possible but I still get nervous.

Bonus: To you, what does the ideal penis look like? (feel free to include artwork or photos).
I am a huge fan of average sized cock. A cock between 5-7 inches long is my favorite. If it has a slight upward curve to it, that's even better. An average girth is perfect. Nothing too slim that won't get the job done but also nothing too fat that will just hurt. I don't mind if it's cut or uncut as long as it's clean.

Something like this:


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Sinful Sunday: Strappy Mini Skirt

Remember that outfit that I wore during our last failed dp attempt? I posted the top of that outfit back in July.

Now, I've decided that I should post the bottom part of that outfit as well.





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TMI Tuesday: August 7, 2018

Greetings & Salutations.
Another TMI Tuesday presented today to jump-start your writing, jog your memory, and spur deep thought. It’s tricky…




Ash:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
Yes, I would say it is. I haven't been in love very many times but every time it has happened, it was effortless. Meaning, I fell before I even realized it was happening and there was nothing I could do to stop it.

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I think he is more like my mom than my dad but really not much like either of them. He has a kind heart and loves helping others like my mom.

3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My dad because he's addicted to sex as much as I am.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown our tiny apartment. It's too cluttered in here and I just need more space. I keep throwing things out but at this point, we don't have a lot of unnecessary things left and we just need a bigger place.

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A balance of both is good. If you push all the time, it's going to get overwhelming, however, if you always play it safe, then it gets boring.

Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
Yes. If we are in a relationship, I need you to confide in me so that I feel connected.



Husband:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
For me, it always has been. I cannot remember a time when I fell for someone and it didn't just happen, slowly at first, but gaining momentum as time goes by. It is usually the climbing back out that is hard.

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I would say that mom in the good ways. She is kind and caring, smart and loving, loyal and adventurous. I almost don't want to say this, but in some neutral ways, she is much like my dad. She loves to bake, is social, and is independent. I don't feel like she leans really heavily towards being too much like either of my parents though.

3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My mom. I think we are anxious, a little off in the head, we think outside the box, we are easily distracted. The older I get the more I realize just how similar my Ma and I are.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown each successive living arrangement we have had, even when supplemented by a storage unit. We just need more breathing room for all of the family, but also so that we can have a dog, and a larger area for our guinea pigs to have to live in.

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A mix is important, though if I were pushed to definitively pick I would go with playing by the rules because I have a tendency to play things safe. I like expanding and exploring, but slowly. We have done this most of our relationship and for me slowly pushing the boundaries works best.

Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
I do. Unloading and connecting in this way has definitely been a life changing experience for me.

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