Another TMI Tuesday presented today to jump-start your writing, jog your memory, and spur deep thought. It’s tricky…
Ash:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
Yes, I would say it is. I haven't been in love very many times but every time it has happened, it was effortless. Meaning, I fell before I even realized it was happening and there was nothing I could do to stop it.
2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I think he is more like my mom than my dad but really not much like either of them. He has a kind heart and loves helping others like my mom.
3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My dad because he's addicted to sex as much as I am.
4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown our tiny apartment. It's too cluttered in here and I just need more space. I keep throwing things out but at this point, we don't have a lot of unnecessary things left and we just need a bigger place.
5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A balance of both is good. If you push all the time, it's going to get overwhelming, however, if you always play it safe, then it gets boring.
Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
Yes. If we are in a relationship, I need you to confide in me so that I feel connected.
Husband:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
For me, it always has been. I cannot remember a time when I fell for someone and it didn't just happen, slowly at first, but gaining momentum as time goes by. It is usually the climbing back out that is hard.
2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I would say that mom in the good ways. She is kind and caring, smart and loving, loyal and adventurous. I almost don't want to say this, but in some neutral ways, she is much like my dad. She loves to bake, is social, and is independent. I don't feel like she leans really heavily towards being too much like either of my parents though.
3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My mom. I think we are anxious, a little off in the head, we think outside the box, we are easily distracted. The older I get the more I realize just how similar my Ma and I are.
4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown each successive living arrangement we have had, even when supplemented by a storage unit. We just need more breathing room for all of the family, but also so that we can have a dog, and a larger area for our guinea pigs to have to live in.
5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A mix is important, though if I were pushed to definitively pick I would go with playing by the rules because I have a tendency to play things safe. I like expanding and exploring, but slowly. We have done this most of our relationship and for me slowly pushing the boundaries works best.
Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
I do. Unloading and connecting in this way has definitely been a life changing experience for me.
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