Ash:
1. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (less than 40% of the time).
e. No. Never, not even when I am really turned on.
A. Yes, each time I have sex, as long as the person who I'm having sex with is pleasing me. I don't fake anything. And if my partner does not at least try to make me cum, then I probably won't have sex with that person again. I've had to cut things off with people in the past who were selfish in bed. Also, if my partner doesn't make any noises at all during sex, I will probably not continue to have sex with that person either. Noises are the best and they help me get off.
2. How comfortable are you with sex in bright light or daylight? Pick one.
a. Completely comfortable
b. Fairly comfortable
c. Somewhat comfortable/uncomfortable, depends on the partner.
d. Completely uncomfortable. I like to do it in the dark.
C. Somewhat uncomfortable, depends on the partner. I don't like my body and I don't like the image of my fat bouncing around when I get fucked. If I'm really close to the person I'm having sex with, I will have sex with the lights on. In situations like this, I prefer to be fucked from behind. It makes me less self-conscious. I also have migraine disease and bright lights are a trigger for me. So, if I am lying down staring up into a light, it will cause me to have a migraine. I have to be careful of that.
3. Is this statement True or False for you? Explain.
I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
False. I enjoy dirty talk, I just don't do it well. I don't fear being judged at all.
4. Have you ever done a striptease for a lover (impromptu or planned)? Did you enjoy it?
Yes, I have. It's always been impromptu. The first couple times I did it, my partners made fun of me (they were awful people). I've done it for Husband and a couple other previous partners since then. I don't really enjoy it because I'm not good at dancing and that seems like something you have to do to make it sexy. I definitely don't do it often. Like I said before, I don't like my body.
5. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)? Pick one.
a. I enjoy it.
b. I’m okay with it.
c. I don’t really enjoy it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never given anal sex.
f. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.
This one would probably be either B or C, depending on the day. I would enjoy it a lot more if I weren't a germaphobe. I get a lot of anxiety about cleanliness.
Husband:
1. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (less than 40% of the time).
e. No. Never, not even when I am really turned on.
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). Most of the time I make noises, occasionally expressing myself with words about how incredible something feels. I like not having to worry about being too loud.
2. How comfortable are you with sex in bright light or daylight? Pick one.
a. Completely comfortable
b. Fairly comfortable
c. Somewhat comfortable/uncomfortable, depends on the partner.
d. Completely uncomfortable. I like to do it in the dark.
a. Completely comfortable. I remember a time when I thought sex was something done in the dark, not something to be exposed to the light of day or a room light. That was a very long time ago now, and I enjoy both lights on or lights out.
3. Is this statement True or False for you? Explain.
I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
False. I don't always think to talk dirty, but I am comfortable taking dirty when the inspiration hits me.
4. Have you ever done a striptease for a lover (impromptu or planned)? Did you enjoy it?
I have, and I did not enjoy it. It isn't an issue about feeling uncomfortable with Wife, but rather feeling weird or silly. When I am feeling silly, it's easier to do a striptease, but still enjoyable. It usually isn't something I do for my benefit though.
5. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)? Pick one.
a. I enjoy it.
b. I’m okay with it.
c. I don’t really enjoy it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never given anal sex.
f. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.
a. I enjoy it. I really, really do. Using any of the penetrating things, it doesn't matter. I am happy to use any or all of the penetrating things.
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I like that you both answer the questions! I read another person's blog who has his wife answer the questions for TMI T and it is always interesting to see the similarities and differences of the two. I imagine it makes for interesting conversation.
ReplyDeleteThanks! It definitely does make interesting conversations sometimes. I like being able to talk about the answers we had after I post it. It's interesting when our answers are exactly the same.
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