KOTW: Painted Nails

The discussion topic for Kink of the Week is painted nails. 

I used to love painting my nails when I was younger. When I was a teenager and I started to get into goth fashion, I painted my nails all the time. Of course, they were always black. It became part of my routine. I hated the look of chipped polish. So, every weekend, I would take off the polish and put on a fresh coat. It made me feel extra spooky, which I loved.

When I was 15, I switched high schools and met Dante. He was also goth and kept his fingernails painted black but his looked much prettier than mine. He told me the secret was to put a shiny topcoat on it. That is what really made them pop. He was right! So, I have been doing that ever since. 

Soon, Dante and I got really close. We started having phone sex regularly. One night, after a very intense phone sex session, we were both trying to catch our breath when he asked, "Hey, what color are your nails?" I answered, "Black..." He let out a little laugh and said, "Mine too." It was such a silly little thing but after that "What color are your nails?" became our little code for phone sex.

I don't paint my nails as much these days. Honestly, I only do it maybe twice a year. I'm not sure why I stopped. I guess I just hate having to deal with it once it starts chipping. I feel like people are judging me when I have chipped polish on my nails. I'm sure it's just all in my head but it still causes anxiety. 

When I do paint my nails, it's still just black 90% of the time but occasionally, I'll find some spooky polish strips that I love. Recently, I found a bunch of polish strips that I bought a couple years ago from a friend. Maybe I should start using them. I do really love how my painted fingernails look when I'm sucking cock. That's all the more reason to do it!

As far as kink is concerned, I don't necessarily consider painted nails a kink for me, though it is very closely related to my hand fetish. I love hands. Small hands, big hands, veiny hands, smooth hands, strong hands, delicate hands, all kinds of hands. I do have some preferences but really, all hands are good. As long as they are clean. Dirty hands and nails gross me out, so they definitely need to be taken care of.

Maybe painted nails aren't really a kink for me but seeing painted nails on a man really turns me on. Maybe it's because it's so taboo or maybe it's because it reminds me of those steamy phone sex sessions with Dante all those years ago. Whatever the reason, I'm very much into it. I'm pretty much indifferent about painted nails on a woman. I can appreciate how pretty they are but they don't do anything for me sexually.

Painted nails can be a lot of fun but they can also include a lot of upkeep. I do think I'll start making an effort to get back into it though. At least for a little bit so I can try it out. You know, see how it feels. Maybe it will help me feel sexier. That's always much appreciated.

TMI Tuesday: October 12, 2021

 TMI Tuesday redux. Enjoy!

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Hey, hey, hey, hey…Time to get random again on TMI Tuesday. Why? Because it is fun to know random stuff about you; it can reveal a lot about your personality.

Ash:

1. Tell us about your sluttiest act ever.

I once went to a concert with a guy I met online. I gave him a blow job in the parking lot before we went in. When we got inside, I ran into a group of guy friends from high school, one of them being Dante. So, we decided that we would all hang out together, me and five guys. This was an outdoor concert where we were all sitting on the lawn. Somehow, everyone decided that I needed to remove my shirt and they took turns putting money in my bra with their mouths. There was lots of touching, caressing, licking, and giggling (from me). They joked about "running a train" on me but it was obvious that they were too timid to actually go through with it. Otherwise, I totally would have. There were people all around us on that lawn watching but it didn't bother me one bit. Once it got dark out, I offered hand jobs to all the guys in the group. Dante and one other guy agreed to it. So, while Black Sabbath was playing on stage, I had my hand down the pants of two guys. After the concert, the guy I was on a date with took me home and I gave him another blow job before he left. I felt pretty slutty that day and I loved it. 

2. Have you ever played air-guitar. . .naked?

I highly doubt it. Air guitar is not something I play regularly. I have, however, played Guitar Hero in the nude. I used to do that quite often, actually.

3. To what song do you most like to play air-guitar either clothed or naked?

I'm much more likely to play air-piano than air-guitar, to be honest. The end of the song Epic by Faith No More is fucking beautiful and I always do air-piano to that song.

4. Are you good in bed? Why?

Hmm. I think I am because I've been told I am. Sometimes I can be selfish because I know what I want but I always make sure my partner is being pleased as well. There are definitely things I'm not good at that I wish I was though.

5. What FEELS Sexy to you–tactile sensation? (Leave sight and taste out of this)

Vinyl or PVC clothing. Soooo smooth. Velvet is lovely as well. Also, satin or silky panties. Especially when they get wet.

Bonus: Write a six-word autobiography.

Nerdy, goth, bisexual, polyamorous, sex-positive, nymphomaniac.

Husband:

1. Tell us about your sluttiest act ever. 

I don't really think this question works for me. I don't think I've partaken of the luscious fruit of slutty acts. I'm wholeheartedly not opposed to them, I just don't think any have really fallen into my lap or I've not had the experience...yet (fingers crossed).

2. Have you ever played air-guitar. . .naked? 

No...and no. I've never played air guitar, or really any "air" instrument clothed or naked.

3. To what song do you most like to play air-guitar either clothed or naked? 

See previous response. It really hasn't crossed my mind. I'm kind of boring that way.

4. Are you good in bed? Why? 

I feel like I am, like, not always though. I do my best, I always try to be pleasing to my partner. I think in general the physical and audio feedback I get from my partners has helped me feel like I am good in bed.

5. What FEELS Sexy to you–tactile sensation? (Leave sight and taste out of this) 

I love the feeling of satin and lace and warm smooth skin. All these things have a very specific mental "feeling" when my fingers feel them or when I feel them brush against my body. They are all very exciting and my body definitely stirs and perks up for them.

Bonus: Write a six word autobiography.

Weird. Compassionate. Loyal. Curious. Coffee. Nature.

TMI Tuesday: February 13, 2018

Sexy TMI Tuesday is up. ♥




Ash:
1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship.
I've been in this situation before. I was in a relationship with a very emotionally abusive man from the ages of 18-20. I stayed for two reasons. The first one being that I didn't want to break his heart. I felt guilty for wanting to leave him even though I know now that I shouldn't have cared. He really fucked with my head though, so I was not in a good place mental health wise. The second reason was that I didn't want to give up guaranteed cock. I knew I could get fucked whenever I wanted and I didn't want to give that up. I finally broke up with him when I found someone else to replace him. I'm older and wiser now.

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?
I think my private life is fairly kinky. I do wish that we had more time and opportunities to scene together but I'm pretty happy overall. I will always welcome more rope, impact, and sensation play in my life. Sometimes there just isn't enough time and I'd much rather get fucked.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.
When I was a teenager, I had a FWB that I would hang out with all the time. Let's call him Dante. He ended up getting a girlfriend, so we stopped messing around. One day, he asked me if I would go shopping with him to find a birthday present for his girlfriend. I agreed, so he picked me up and we went shopping. After we found a gift for her, we decided to go get some lunch. This is where it gets a little weird. For some reason, every time he drinks Dr. Pepper, he gets a raging boner. Of course he ordered Dr. Pepper to go with his lunch that day. As we were leaving the restaurant, he had a noticable bulge in his pants. I couldn't help but notice it and it turned me on so much. When we got back to the car, he started talking about how much he missed my mouth on his cock. That turned me on even more. We started to drive to his girlfriend's house and I kept telling myself to be good. It didn't work. When we stopped at a stoplight, he reached down, opened his jeans, and out popped his rock hard cock. I lost it at that point. I immediately started giving him road head. It was like my mouth was magnetized to his cock. I couldn't help myself. He said that we were going to make a quick stop somewhere and drove to an abandoned house. This abandoned house happened to be halfway burned down and condemned. He said he always wanted to fuck in there. So, he put his cock away and we walked to the back door of the house. It was unlocked...or broken. So, we just walked in. There were huge holes in the floor and you could see down to the basement. I was terrified that the whole place was going to collapse on us. I pushed down the fear and went with it anyway. We went into a room that was mostly intact and took our pants off. He bent me over, I grabbed a support beam, and he started to fuck me. He fucked me for quite a while and then I said I couldn't cum in that position. So, he laid me down on the floor and fucked me some more. I rubbed my clit until I came around his cock. Then, he pulled out and finished in my mouth. After we were done, we went outside and smoked a cigarette. At that moment, the reality of what we just did hit me like a ton of bricks. I felt so bad that my stomach felt sick. I yelled at him for setting me up. I knew he had planned the whole thing and he knew that I wouldn't have the willpower to say no. But it wasn't all his fault. We got back in the car and drove to his girlfriend's house where we gave her the gift and hung out at her house for a while. Talk about awkward. That was awkward as fuck. I felt so guilty and I hated myself in that moment. I learned my lesson that day. Never again. I'm so very against cheating.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?
I have done this twice. I just imagined things being done to me and I got myself to orgasm without touching my clit at all. I haven't done it since I was 19. I'm curious if I can still do it.

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?
I usually use my mouth. Kissing, sucking, biting, exploring with my tongue.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not???
You should never feel obligated to celebrate Valentine's Day. If you do, then what's the point? Then it is no longer expressing your love. It's just doing it because you have to. I like expressing my love to my partners. It makes me feel good to make them happy.



Husband:
1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship.
When I was with my ex-wife the two reasons I stayed were that I committed myself to that relationship with marriage vows and that I was scared of being ostracized. My word is something important to me, I honor my promises and do my utmost to keep them, so it was extremely difficult to have to shut that down to leave. Being ostracized ended up happening to me anyway because my ex-wife was very good at being duplicitous and had everyone thinking she was the greatest thing ever, when in reality she was horrible to everyone behind their backs. It took almost an entire year to finally get my family to see how it was for me when I was with her.

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?
I do wish it could be kinkier, and I believe that when we get a chance to own a house to have a play space it will be. Right now a lot of play has to be done when we are childless for an evening or we have a play party we have been invited to. For me still, play parties are sometimes overwhelming and I don't get a chance to uncoil myself completely.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.
When I first started looking for men to date I found a guy who lived within a few miles of us and he worked at the local supermarket. One time I went to his house and we had a make out session, but he was so forceful about it that his stubble totally gave my chin road rash.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?
Yes, but conditionally; hands free sex. Hands up in the air not touching myself or anyone. 😁😂🤣

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?
I don't have any tips for this honestly, but I'm certainly open for any tips or hints that show up.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not???
I am not always the best at celebrating holidays but I try to make it something special. Cards, romantic things on that day, but when it comes to planning things out I tend to fail miserably. I think an effort should be made, but I also don't save that day to be romantic or sweet and spread that out throughout the year.

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