TMI Tuesday: January 30, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

The Comfort and Thrill of Sex

Ash:

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t really enjoy it.

e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.

g. I have never given anal sex but would like to start.

d. I don't really enjoy it. I'm a germaphobe and butt stuff causes me to have so much anxiety. I have pushed past that in the past and explored anal play/pegging with Husband because I wanted to give him pleasure but it's something I haven't done in a long time and I honestly don't miss it. I do, however, enjoy watching Husband have anal sex with other people. I miss that.

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t enjoy it at all.

e. I have never received anal sex.

f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

b. I enjoy it. Husband and I usually have anal sex a few times a year and it's something I have grown to enjoy. I just don't want it often. My partner has to be really careful about cross contamination though because of my germ phobia. If your finger was in my butt, please don't touch me until you've washed your hands. And never go from ass to vagina or mouth.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?

a. It’s a turn on for me.

b. It turns me on a little bit.

c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.

d. It does nothing for me.

e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.

f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

e. I don't like doing it because I am shy. Okay, I'm actually not shy. I'm just self-conscious. I don't feel comfortable getting naked until I know they love my body. Otherwise, I just worry that they won't be attracted to me.

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).

b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).

c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).

d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).

e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).

f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). If it feels good, I will let you know with lots of little sounds. It's actually pretty easy to know when you're doing something that feels really good for me because I am very vocal. 

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?

a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.

c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.

d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.

e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.

f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.

g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

This is a difficult one to answer. I will say b, occasionally. I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease...just not often during sex. I find it incredibly difficult to talk during sex. It's like that part of my brain shuts down and I have a very hard time forming words. But when I'm not having sex? I love to talk about all the dirty things.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?

a. quiet little mouse

b. low moaning wolf

c. screeching beluga whale

I'm much louder than a quiet little mouse and I definitely don't scream. So, I will go with a moaning wolf. I've gotten a lot of compliments on my moan. So, apparently, it sounds good, whatever animal it sounds like.

Bonus: Which do you prefer: comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement, and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them, sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*

Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure, and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

I am most definitely a thrill seeker. I love to experience new things and have my boundaries pushed. Adventure and wild energy is exciting and I am here for it.

Husband:

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t really enjoy it.

e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.

g. I have never given anal sex but would like to start.

a. I love it. I think that anal play was the first deviant thing I encountered and it sank deep inside of me. I love giving anal sex, but sometimes the idea of it gets me revved up yet the act of it (with my cock) doesn't live up to the hype. Wife has a spectacularly magical pussy and it is my absolute favorite place to put my cock. I do treasure any opportunity that I am gifted with Wife's ass, I am not going to turn away any of her holes!

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger, or sex toys)?

a. I love it.

b. I enjoy it.

c. I’m ok with it.

d. I don’t enjoy it at all.

e. I have never received anal sex.

f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

a. I love it. / b. I enjoy it. I am unsure about whether I love it or enjoy it. It's been a long time since I've felt the desire to receive anal. Between my overall mental comfort level / health and sexual priorities it hasn't really floated to the top of what I want to do.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?

a. It’s a turn on for me.

b. It turns me on a little bit.

c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.

d. It does nothing for me.

e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.

f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

b. It turns me on a little bit. / e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy. Mostly e. because I AM shy and nervous a lot. I am not self-conscious about my body, I am very much a comfortable nudist. Something about the idea of undressing for the first time while being watched evokes a feeling that I am performing, which I am very uncomfortable with. If I could get that part out of my head I would probably enjoy it quite a lot; knowing someone is interested in me makes me feel sexy.

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).

b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).

c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).

d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).

e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).

f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time). I remember a time when I was conditioned by previous partners that I wasn't to make any noise because it ruined things for them. So it used to be an e. {Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time)} because even with that horrible conditioning I couldn't always help myself and would have been punished for it. Along comes GirlFriend, who is now Wife, who values hearing my pleasure and helped me start the journey of vocalizing my pleasure. Now, after many years it is ALL the time! 

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?

a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.

c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.

d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.

e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.

f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.

g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease. / c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward. I sometimes feel very awkward about dirty talk, but I very much like it. I think if it came a little more naturally to me it would happen a lot more often. When I am feeling very sure of myself and have excess confidence from somewhere it flows and comes out much more easily.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?

a. quiet little mouse

b. low moaning wolf

c. screeching beluga whale

b. low moaning wolf; and now with even more growls!

Bonus: Which do you prefer: comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement, and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them, sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*

Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure, and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

I have spent more time in my life seeking comfort sex over thrill-seeking because of difficulty knowing what I want and asking for it. I'm trying to learn to go for the things that excite me and seek thrills more. It is still a new and slightly daunting endeavor for me, but I do feel very safe working through all of this now that I am working on myself. 

Sinful Sunday: Slippery Ride

Riding on top has always been a bit difficult for me. I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which makes my joints very flexible and causes a lot of pain. It’s painful for my hip joints when straddling on top. But it can be very fun and extra hot for my partner. So, while I don’t do it often, it’s always worth it when it does happen. 

Last night, I was on top of Husband. I was slowly teasing his cock with my pussy. Then, he started fucking me hard from below. When I started to cum, I closed my eyes and got lost in the feeling. Then, Husband said, “Look at me while I fuck you.” I was surprised but turned on by him being so dominant. We stared into each other’s eyes as I squirted all over him. Then, he came inside me. It was really powerful and very hot. It was definitely a sinful experience.

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Aidan's Chicago Birthday Trip

The lingerie I wore for Aidan's birthday

I started dating Aidan in November. I originally met him four years ago at a kinky house party. I had a very big crush on him but the timing just wasn't right. Then, a few months ago, I saw him pop up in a polyamorous group I'm a member of. I commented on his post and things progressed from there. 

Last weekend, it was Aidan's birthday. His nesting partner, Callie, messaged me and asked if I would be willing to go on a trip to Chicago with them to celebrate his birthday. I said, "Absolutely!" She asked me to bring along some lingerie, so I knew it would be getting sexy in that hotel room. 

The drive there seemed to last forever. I kept fantasizing about getting Aidan naked and giving him double the pleasure with Callie. When we finally got there, we were pretty exhausted. We all collapsed on the bed and had a little cuddle pile. After we rested a bit, I was so fucking ready to get the sexy times going. But Callie was not budging on that. She wanted to wait until after we had dinner...which was a whole three hours away. If it were up to me, I would have had a before-dinner snack and then an after-dinner dessert. But I was a good girl and I kept my hands to myself and waited even though it was difficult. When you're very turned on and really want someone, waiting times seem to last so much longer. 

When we got back from dinner, we cuddled a bit more. Then, Callie asked Aidan if he'd like to see us in our sexy outfits. So, we went to change. Callie was wearing a beautiful blue lace teddy with a snap crotch for easy access. I was wearing a tight purple velvet dress with lacey cutouts on the sides and a see-through mesh back. I also wore a black and purple thong underneath. Aidan was a big fan of both of our outfits, of course. We were looking hot!

After we got settled in the bed together, Callie told me to take the top half while she got Aidan's bottom half warmed up. She started sucking his cock and I went up to kiss him. I really wanted to share his cock with her but I didn't want to overstep. So, I did as I was told. I could tell she was definitely in charge that night. After a bit of kissing, Aidan started biting my neck and shoulders, which instantly made my panties wet. All I could think about was how much I wanted that cock.

Callie told me to take a turn sucking Aidan's cock, so I wasted no time getting down there. I put it in my mouth like I was starving, shoving it deep into my throat. Callie played with his balls while I sucked. Hearing him moan as we were doing that made me even more wet. Fuck. I needed him inside me.

Callie said that it was time for Aidan to fuck me. I looked up at him, tears in my eyes from choking on his cock, and smiled so he knew that's what I wanted too. He then removed my lingerie quickly and climbed on top of me. I moaned as his big cock slipped inside my dripping wet cunt. How long had I been waiting for that? It sure felt like days. He fucked me softly at first. He moaned and said, "Fuck, you're so wet." And then he fucked me harder. It didn't take long before I was cumming all over his cock. I came over and over again as he continued to fuck me. I completely forgot that Callie was watching us until she said that she wished she had brought some toys to play with. 

Aidan told me to flip over on my side. He then lifted my leg and fucked me while sitting up on his knees. His cock kept hitting my cervix. So, I tried to find a good angle to prevent that. I ended up on my tummy. He fucked me for a little bit in that position and made me cum once more. Then, it was Callie's turn.

Callie unsnapped the buttons at her crotch and Aidan climbed on top of her. He started to fuck her and I watched as her tits bounced around. It made my clit tingle. She asked if I had brought any toys and I remembered that I had brought a vibrator. So, I went to grab it. I laid on the bed next to them and put the vibrator on my clit. It felt so good but I was trying to hold back. I didn't want to squirt all over the bed and make a mess. So, I took my time. 

Callie flipped over and Aidan fucked her in the doggy-style position. I watched his face as he fucked her. It was so hot watching him be pleasured by her cunt. As he got closer and closer to orgasm, so did I. My breathing became heavy and erratic. He looked at me, making deep eye contact. My breath caught in my throat. I couldn't breathe. Those piercing eyes had a hold on me. I started to moan and then my clit exploded in pleasure. I had one of the most powerful orgasms I've ever had in my life. It was fucking amazing. 

Callie asked Aidan where he would like to cum. He thought for a moment and then said, "On both of your breasts." So, Callie and I put our titties next to each other. But then she laid her head on my left breast and said it was very comfy. So, she decided that he would cum on my tits and her face. He crawled up to us, sat up on his knees, and started jerking his cock. I loved that sight. It turned me on so much. So, I started playing with my right nipple. I licked my lips, waiting for that sweet juice to shoot out of his cock. And then it came. All over my tits and on Callie's face. I closed my eyes and moaned as I felt the warm liquid cover my tits.

Callie wanted us all to take a shower after, so we piled in together. I was still riding an amazing high though. As Aidan and Callie began washing their bodies, I stood in the corner of the shower and rubbed the cum into my breasts. I was not ready to wash it off yet. They saw what I was doing and laughed. I didn't care. I was very content. 

I was hoping we would be able to have more sex in that hotel room before we had to check out but it just didn't end up working out that way. Hopefully, there will be more opportunities for fun like that in the future though. And maybe Callie will feel more comfortable with both of us joining in together when Aidan is fucking us. Because I'd much rather do that than play off to the side by myself. 

TMI Tuesday: January 23, 2024

I hope you're having an amazing Titty Tuesday

It’s time for TMI Tuesday!

Think kink

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically?

Hmm, the kinkiest thing about me is probably that I really enjoy being used. Hold me down and fuck me until you fill me with cum, fuck my face and make me choke on your cock until tears run down my cheeks, just do whatever you want to me and I’ll be a good girl and take it just to please you.

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they?

I have a hand fetish. I’m very sexually aroused by hands. It’s a bit of an obsession. 

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more…

I’ve been spanked many times. I don’t enjoy being spanked while I’m being fucked. But any other time? Yes, please. 

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or restraints?

Yes, I’ve been tied up many times. I’ve been tied up with rope, neckties, clothing, ribbon, and probably other things as well. I’ve also been restrained with handcuffs and zip ties. 

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch, or entirely vanilla?

I’m the subbiest sub that ever did sub. 

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

Probably needle play. That one usually makes people squeamish. 

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one?

Yes, a few of them. It was exciting, sexy, and sometimes intimidating but also very fun. I plan to go to more. 

8. Favorite kinky clothing material?

I’m very much into PVC clothing. I love the look and the feel of it. It turns me on like crazy. 

9. Thigh boots – love ’em or hate ’em?

On myself? I hate them. They are incredibly uncomfortable. They always pinch the backs of my knees. On someone else? I guess it can be hot. I much prefer mid-calf boots. Those are very sexy. 

10. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?

I’m open about it if it comes up in conversation but I don’t just openly share with people for no reason. It’s not a secret though. 

11. What are your personal limits?

Are we talking about hard limits? Scat, spitting, ass-to-mouth, electric play, sounding, breast or clitoris torture, humiliation/degradation related to body shaming or personal flaws. Those are all I can think of right now but there are probably more. 

12. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?

I don’t have a safe word. We use the stoplight method. Green is good, keep going. Yellow means proceed with caution, I am reaching my limit. Red means stop immediately. 

13. Which fetishes do you just really not get?

I don’t kink shame. What one person enjoys does not have to be understood by anyone else for it to be okay. Just let people enjoy things. As long as it is consensual and doesn’t involve kids or animals, I don’t really care what you do. 

TMI Tuesday: January 2, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday, lovelies!

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are on a subject near and dear to our hearts (and some other body parts, too). It’s all about SEX!

Ash:

1. What is your sexual personality?

a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play-by-play

b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.

c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.

d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

I think I'm a lot of B and a little of D. I'm a good girl. I'm not good at making the moves but I like to do as I'm told. While I don't like to be actually used, I do like to feel like I'm being used to get off. It turns me on so much. Sex is definitely a necessary part of relationships for me. My sex drive is very high and honestly, I lose interest if there is no sex involved. I don't have to have it every time we are together, but definitely often enough to feel connected.

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? 

Not enough, that's for sure. I've done it outdoors and in bathrooms. I'd love to do it in someone's bedroom. I've never been caught.

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:

a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands and legs tied while having sex

b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks

c. Record the two of you having sex

d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

Well, considering that I've done all of these things with Husband, I think I would be up for any and all of these things. If I were to choose my favorite, it would be a spanking. I am a big fan of spankings and impact play.

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?

a. I act out all of my fantasies.

b. I act out many of my fantasies.

c. I act out some of my fantasies.

d. I act out very few of my fantasies.

e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.

f. I don’t have any fantasies.

I act out some of my fantasies. I don't act out more either because I feel embarrassed about wanting it so I don't say anything, I don't have a partner who would be into it, or it isn't easy to make happen. I think I have weird fantasies. But I'm kind of a weird girl.

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?

a. I could hardly survive without it.

b. It is very important.

c. It is somewhat important.

d. I could live without it.

e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

Over the last couple of years, my sex life had slowly dwindled down to almost non-existent. During that time, I was incredibly depressed. That is the reason I stopped writing and I haven't been posting new material on the Only Fans page. I didn't feel like myself anymore. I didn't act like myself anymore. I had completely lost myself and I honestly didn't even see the point of life anymore. Was I just being dramatic? Maybe. But sex has been such a huge part of my life for so long. It's my favorite thing in the whole world. It's what makes me feel alive. It's what makes me feel happy. Without it, who even am I? Not someone I care to be. So, I can say for sure that my answer is A. Could I survive without sex? Maybe, at least for a while. But I would say just barely. Thankfully, my sex life has picked up a lot in the last couple of months. Husband has been more attentive and his sex drive has been getting better. And I now have two partners in addition to Husband. So, lots of sex is being had.

Bonus: Finish the following phrase.  Sex is ______________ .

Sex is my most favorite way to spend my time.

Husband:

1. What is your sexual personality?

a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play-by-play

b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.

c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.

d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

At this moment, I feel most strongly with being a Daredevil. I love the idea of sex as an adventure, even if sometimes it also scares me. I want to be free from my head to have fun and explore all the passionate things I dream up.

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? 

I think Wife and I have snuck away a few times at parties, both with friends and with family. The one I remember the most was sneaking away at a friend’s party. We snuck away into the bathroom and had an intense quickie. Sneaking out of the bathroom, hoping no one noticed we were both gone at the same time, was extremely exciting. I don’t think we were ever caught, that I can remember.

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:

a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands and legs tied while having sex

b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks

c. Record the two of you having sex

d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

Having sex in a mirrored room would be hot as fuck! The idea of being able to watch every bit of what we are doing from any angle would be thrilling and very exciting. I like to be watching what I am doing, but being able to see it any way I look would be amazing. I think Wife and I talked about something like this years ago; having been in a few hotels that had amazing mirror setups was an awesome taste of what we could do with a play room of our own.

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?

a. I act out all of my fantasies.

b. I act out many of my fantasies.

c. I act out some of my fantasies.

d. I act out very few of my fantasies.

e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.

f. I don’t have any fantasies.

I act out some of my fantasies. My brain tends to get in the way of me acting out fantasies. I get caught up in doubts and fears and all the things that dampen my sexual drive. I am learning to try to let go of these things and to just be in the moment. I want to be freer and experience the joy of that freedom. I want to communicate my fantasies more often instead of keeping them tucked away inside of me.

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?

a. I could hardly survive without it.

b. It is very important.

c. It is somewhat important.

d. I could live without it.

e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

Sex is very important in my life. I have not been any good at all about expressing that or making that actually known for quite some time now. I am very ashamed at how horribly I have handled the shared sex life between Wife and I. There is so much joy and love and connection that I have not been part of because I chose to not be present. It hurts not sharing how much true desire for sex and intimacy and connection I have for my incredibly sexy Wife. I am trying very hard to connect again and correct my course so that we can again grow together and sleep in all the wet spots.

Bonus: Finish the following phrase.  Sex is ______________ .

Sex is the incredible power of plugging in and feeling alive.