Sinful Sunday: Good Girl

On Friday night, Jacob came over to play.
According to him, "Nothing is better than a blow job from Sexilicous Ash."

This is a photo of me on my knees, being a good girl, and proving him right.
I love the way I'm looking up at him here.





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Kink of the Week: Love Bites

Edit: Husband gave me this hickey a week after writing this.

Love bites, or hickeys, are little bruises that happen when the capillaries beneath the skin rupture when someone sucks or bites the skin. The first time I was ever exposed to hickeys was when I was in fifth grade. One of the fifth-grade teachers came to school wearing a scarf. It was odd because we had never seen her wear one before. My friend, who was in this teacher's class, came running up to me at lunch. She told me that the teacher's scarf had fallen down and the class had seen a bunch of hickeys on her neck. We, of course, thought this was hilarious. Until we really started to think about it. Wait, teachers have sex?!

Just two years later, I would be the proud owner of my own hickey. I was 13 at the time and enjoying a big party thrown by a friend of mine. We were finally done with seventh grade and it was summertime, so we were celebrating. After it got dark, we started playing truth or dare in the back yard. Someone had dared R to give me a hickey on my neck. It was awkward because everyone was watching but I really enjoyed it at the same time. That night, R became my boyfriend and all I wanted to do that summer was make-out with him and feel his lips on my neck.

Throughout my teenage years, I had countless hickeys. I never hid them because I loved showing them off. I couldn't figure out why exactly, but I loved having marks left on my body. I'm sure this was hinting at the kink that was hidden inside me but I didn't realize it at the time.

Now, as an adult, I still enjoy hickeys. They are a guilty pleasure of mine. I rarely get them anymore because my partners just aren't into it like I am. Not only do I love to have my neck and shoulder sucked and bitten (not too hard though), I adore the marks that are left behind. I enjoy hickeys on other parts of my body as well but not as much as a place that can be seen or shown off. I also love the feeling of a hickey. That light soreness that sticks with you for a few days. Yes, that is so nice. It brings up the pleasant memory of receiving said hickey and then I get aroused.

I feel like hickeys are frowned upon more when they are on an adult than when they are on a teenager. I mean, teenagers are expected to have hickeys, right? They are carefree, exploring each other's bodies, doing whatever feels good. We are supposed to outgrow that and be more mature as adults. Well, I say, "Screw that!" In my twenties, I had hickeys pretty often and people would feel the need to comment on it or roll their eyes at me. I never let it bother me. I may not be a teenager anymore but I still enjoy having hickeys and I'm not embarrassed to admit it. I also like dry humping and being fingered. Deal with it.

I used to really enjoy leaving hickeys on my lovers' necks, usually from biting. I'm not super into biting anymore, but I do get the urge to do it occasionally. I mostly enjoy biting my lover's lip when we are making out, especially if it gets pretty heated and intense. Mmmm, that really turns me on.

For the past couple of weeks, while thinking about what I was going to write for this, I've been trying to get up the nerve to ask Husband to give me a hickey. Thinking about that gets me so wet. The thought of him licking, sucking, biting my neck as he fucks me. Unf, I need that so much. Thinking about looking in the mirror and seeing that little mark on my neck gets me so excited. Imagining the looks I get from people as I go out in public with that mark showing for all to see makes me smile. I definitely miss being young and carefree.

The point I would love to make here is that I think hickeys are underrated. They aren't trashy or disgusting. They are like little badges of honor. They are love bites. That is nothing to be embarrassed about.

TMI Tuesday: March 26, 2019

Do your thang! Play TMI Tuesday!




Ash:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I tend to have a difficult time orgasming during oral sex. It takes me a long time to get there, so I usually just tell my partner to stop after a while. Sometimes they insist on continuing, which is nice if I end up orgasming. I don't expect someone to go down on me for the 15-20ish minutes that it will probably take though. Sometimes that makes me feel guilty but I usually just brush it off because I know it isn't my fault and it's okay.

2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
Pillow talk is my favorite. Especially if they play with my hair while we talk. Meaningful conversation and physical touch. Those are my two favorite things.

3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
Whichever way you're doing me, I need hands on my body because of my hand fetish. I also very much enjoy my neck being kissed, licked, and touched. I most like to be fucked hard at a fast pace. Though, occasionally, I also like to be fucked very slowly. A very slow stroke all the way in and then very slowly back out, almost pulling out but not quite and then repeat. Fuck, now I've gone and aroused myself.

4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
Sure, I think I was ready to be married. I was 24 when Husband and I got married. It's been 11 years and I don't regret it at all.

5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
Well, this one doesn't apply.

Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
I'm an extrovert. When I have free time in my schedule, I like to fill it up with something (usually a ton of volunteer work). He is an introvert and enjoys free time to just relax. I don't know how to relax.


Husband:
1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
I don't orgasm from oral, and for the longest time, I thought that there was something wrong with me. After many years of struggling with this, Wife and I just moved past it and eventually just incorporated other things to do instead.

2. How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
I like to take Wife out and spend time with her in conversation somewhere, preferably somewhere quiet. I also touch a lot. Physical touch is my biggest way of communicating connection and love to and from me.

3. “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
I like to be touched a lot; hands touching my body, lips and tongue and teeth on my neck and chest. I like lips and tongue and hand on my cock. I like to have ass and pussy put in my face. I like to feel the gush of a hot squirt warming and wetting my skin. I like to be done, very much so.

4. If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
The first time I was married, I thought I was. I was sorely mistaken, I was too young and with the wrong person. It was definitely a learning experience that I have drawn from and been molded by. When I married Wife, I was definitely ready, but still learning, as I still am. No regrets about it ever since.

5. If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
This is not applicable.

Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
She's more lawful, I am more chaotic.

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Sinful Sunday: Take It All In

This Sinful Sunday, I am being forced to take it all in.



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TMI Tuesday: March 12, 2019

Fill random curiosities, play TMI Tuesday.

1. What curse word do you use the most?
Fuck. I fucking use the word fuck all the fucking time. I curse like a sailor.

2. Would you rather take a picture or be in a picture?
I would rather take a picture. Though, I do get sad that none of my friends ever want to take selfies with me.

3. Has anyone ever called you lazy? Why did they say that?
Not as an adult. I was called lazy as a teenager because I liked to sleep a lot. I was pretty depressed.

4. Have you ever dated or slept with a neighbor? How did things turn out?
I haven't, though I wish I could find a neighbor to be my FWB. That would be quite convenient.

5. Have you ever broken up with a significant other then “cheated” with that same person while they were in a relationship with someone else?
No. I did have sex with someone who was in a relationship once though. That was in high school. We were shopping for a present for his girlfriend. Afterward, we went to his girlfriend's house to give her said present. Not one of my finer moments. Talk about awkward.

Bonus: Tell us something good.
I'm about to go to bed and masturbate.

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