TMI Tuesday: December 19, 2017

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How Random




Ash:
1. What was the name of the first person you ever had a crush on? Why did you like them?
I've had crushes since kindergarten, but my first BIG crush was in 6th grade. His name is Tim. He was really sweet, super cute, very funny, and he had long hair. I professed my love to him and told him that I wanted to lose my virginity to him. It freaked him out, of course. So, he broke up with me. I tried to win him back up until 9th grade, then I gave up. I recently saw him at my 15-year high school reunion. Time hasn't been kind to him. I'll just say that I no longer have a crush on him.

2. Which parent do you identify with the most?
I could identify with my mom a lot. She was bisexual and experimented with open relationships, which was really cool to talk about with her. She was very easy going but struggled with depression just like me. My mom was the only person in my family who I could talk to because she was the only one who understood me. I miss her so much. She's been gone for three and a half years now.

3. What food will you absolutely not, under any circumstances, eat?
I could never knowingly eat veal. I would probably feel so guilty that I'd vomit.

4. Would you ever adopt a child?
Yes, I do hope to adopt when my daughter is grown and I am more financially stable.

5. When was the last time you played a board game? What game?
I played Imaginiff with my family on Thanksgiving.

Bonus: What makes you laugh more – dry humor or weird, goofy humor?
I would say that I probably laugh more at dry humor. I'm not easily amused. It takes something really good to make me bust up laughing.



Husband:
1. What was the name of the first person you ever had a crush on? Why did you like them? My first crush was Amanda in 5th grade. I liked her because, after a really crappy week at camp where I was picked on, she consoled me and was nice to me.

2. Which parent do you identify with the most? I honestly have a hard time identifying with either of my parents, but I guess if I had to choose it would be my mom. She feels much more intellectual and in touch with her emotions.

3. What food will you absolutely not, under any circumstances, eat? I am not entirely certain that there is a food that I would not eat. I'm not saying that I could be proven wrong, just that I cannot think of anything off the top of my head.

4. Would you ever adopt a child? It is something that Wife and I discussed and talked about before we were even married or had our daughter. We both hope to one day adopt, I think it would be an amazing thing to give love to a child in need like that.

5. When was the last time you played a board game? What game? I also played Imaginiff with Wife's family on Thanksgiving.

Bonus: What makes you laugh more – dry humor or weird, goofy humor? While I definitely enjoy both kinds of humor, weird and goofy definitely tickles me and makes me laugh the most. I can't help it, I can be very easily amused.
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TMI Tuesday: December 12, 2017

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Roll With It!




Ash:
1. With whom would you like to take a bath?
I'd love to take a bath with a woman. I want to feel her soft hands on my body and have her wash my hair, running her fingers through it. I want to lay back on her chest while she holds me from behind. I'd love to wash her body, feeling all of her curves. This is a fantasy I've had for quite a while. I did take a bath with my ex when we stayed in a hotel together but there wasn't much room for the both of us and her wife was in the room as well, so she was distracted. It was mostly just soaking together and not much romantical touching.

2. You are, on a motorcycle, riding hard down a country road, wind in your hair. Who is the hottie on the bike with you? Are you riding or driving?
That sounds hot as fuck. I love motorcycles and I also really love driving around with no purpose. I imagine the driver would be a very sexy person with whom I have a strong sexual chemistry with. As the passenger, I would be sure to hold onto them tightly and press my breasts up against their back. Mmmm.

3. Baking naked–who is kneading your dough? 😉
Oh, please make it be Rachael Ray. I've had a huge crush on her for years. I've had a lot of dreams about us in the kitchen together.

4. Come sail away, come sail away, come and sail away with me! Who is joining you for a sexy sea adventure?
Someone who can make me feel safe and secure because I have a fear of being out in the middle of the ocean where I can't see land. I would probably have a ton of anxiety, so they would really have to work hard to keep me calm.

5. “I got your back.” Hands down who do you fully support, stick by no matter what, Who are you willing to help at all costs?
I will always be here for my husband and daughter no matter what. I'll add my niece and nephew into that as well. At least until they grow up. Then, I'll have to see what kind of people they end up being.

Bonus: Belly button–inny or outty? Are you going to show us? 😀
I have an inny. Sure, I'll show you.




Husband:
1. With whom would you like to take a bath?
I would very much love to take a bath with Wife. We have such a small tub at home and don't often stay anywhere that has a tub for two, it is definitely a luxury that we don't get to indulge often at all. We have plans to return to the hotel we stayed at on our wedding night for our anniversary this year, so there is light at the end of the tunnel!

2. You are, on a motorcycle, riding hard down a country road, wind in your hair. Who is the hottie on the bike with you? Are you riding or driving?
Wife is definitely the hottie with me. I'd love to be the one driving with her arms wrapped tightly around me, but I still have yet to ride on a motorcycle ever and have been ridiculously nervous about trying it out.

3. Baking naked–who is kneading your dough? 😉
The only person who kneads my dough is Wife, it would definitely be a treat to be kneaded soon.

4. Come sail away, come sail away, come and sail away with me! Who is joining you for a sexy sea adventure?
A sexy sea adventure?! Of course, I would be bringing Wife, the mermaid, who loves all the beaches and the ocean, she helps me to relax and enjoy it also. We shall have to bring blankets to spread out so the sand does not venture into all of our crevices!

5. “I got your back.” Hands down who do you fully support, stick by no matter what, Who are you willing to help at all costs?
Wife is someone that I will always support, always stick to, always help. Even before she had earned all of these things through our years together, she had my support because I was willing to give of myself for her. Sometimes I even literally have her back when I am 'kneading her dough.' The other person I support fully would be my daughter. I am not always the best at showing that I have her back, but the intent is there.

Bonus: Belly button–inny or outty? Are you going to show us? 😀
Inny and I just manscaped today so you can actually see it!




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TMI Tuesday: December 5, 2017

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Sexy Specifics


Ash:
1. What do you find sexiest in a woman?
Physically, I am most attracted to curvy women with long hair. Goth girls are my biggest weakness. I also really love androgynous women. Mmmmm. Personality wise, I am very much into intelligent women who tend to be motherly in a caring way. Confidence is very sexy, as long as they aren't arrogant. Humbleness is also sexy. Also, boobs. I like boobs. Boobs of all sizes.

2. What do you find least sexy in a man?
Physically, I really hate testicles. *shudder* Personality wise, arrogance, bigotry, and stupidity are the worst.

3. Have you ever been the other woman or man? Would you do it again?
For a very short time at the end of my husband's first marriage. We dated when we were teenagers, then broke up for 3 years. When we saw each other again after all that time, the sexual chemistry was just too much to resist. She was awful and had already cheated on him multiple times. He was already in the process of leaving her, so I don't feel bad about it. I would never do it again. I am very against cheating.

4. Who puts more into a romantic relationship you or your significant other?
At this point in time, I would say it's probably me. Husband used to be very romantic and did a lot of amazing things for me. That hasn't happened much in the last few years. I'm especially romantic with the women I date.

5. Do you have a “work wife” or “office husband”?
I don't actually have a job other than being a mom. So, that would be a no.

Bonus: Are you in a healthy relationship? What makes you think so?
I know that I am in a very healthy relationship. So much so, that friends always ask me for relationship advice. We've been told many times that we have the "perfect relationship." I don't know that we are perfect, but I do know that we have a healthy relationship.

Bonus, bonus: Is the “work spouse” strictly a U.S. American anomaly (they do spend an insane amount of hours at work)? One study found 32% of Americans admitted to having a work spouse.
I've never had a "work spouse" so I really don't know anything about this.



Husband:
1. What do you find sexiest in a woman?
Physically I love curves. It is so easy for me to get lost in running my hands over every one pleasantly finding my way back to the starting point, only to get lost again. Mentally I love intelligence and humor and kindness. These qualities make a beautiful mix that is hard to resist.

2. What do you find least sexy in a man?
Um. Overconfidence and arrogance. Two turn offs regardless of gender.

3. Have you ever been the other woman or man? Would you do it again?
I have never been the other person.

4. Who puts more into a romantic relationship you or your significant other?
I think that over the course of our relationship romancing has been this either/or thing where one of us did most of the romantic lifting while the other was being lifted. I do feel like I am a hopeless romantic though, so I am always hungry to be swept off my feet.

5. Do you have a “work wife” or “office husband”?
No, though sometimes it feels like the people I have worked with more hand in hand are strangely close because of how much I don't filter and how much I am willing to overshare.

Bonus: Are you in a healthy relationship? What makes you think so?
I do think that I am in a healthy relationship because not only do I love my Wife, but I know that we are always working together on each other. We are willing and able to put time and effort into continually making our lives and relationship together work even/especially when things are difficult.

Bonus, bonus: Is the “work spouse” strictly a U.S. American anomaly (they do spend an insane amount of hours at work)? One study found 32% of Americans admitted to having a work spouse.
I don't have a clue about this.

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