It's just me today because Husband is passed out already. I'll see if he wants to add to it later.
1. In a D/s relationship (dominance and submission), what do you enjoy most?
Feeling like I don't have to be in control. Someone else is controlling everything and I just have to do what I'm told. It's a nice break from usually being the person who takes care of all the things.
2. What do you want people to know most about D/s relationships?
Real Doms care about and take care of their subs. It's not supposed to be an abusive relationship.
3. For you, does D/s need to have a sadist and masochist component?
No, I prefer it not to actually.
4. For you, does BDSM have to involve sex?
No, it's separate for me but it does for Husband and I'm okay with that. He just accepts that I'm going to be hanging out in subspace while he fucks me after a scene.
5. If you are in a D/s relationship, why do you need it?
I'm not really in one.
6. If you are not in a D/s relationship, would you like to be? Why?
Maybe. I'd consider it. I couldn't do it 24/7 though.
Bonus: What is the relationship between trust and vulnerability?
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable in front of someone means that you trust them not to hurt you.
Lovely responses. Your #2 is so true. So much of D/s has been misconstrued by porn, which is a real shame. I'd imagine more people would freak out it if they new the reality of a healthy dynamic.
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