TMI Tuesday: January 28, 2020

Welcome to another TMI Tuesday.



It's just me today because Husband is passed out already. I'll see if he wants to add to it later.

1. In a D/s relationship (dominance and submission), what do you enjoy most?
Feeling like I don't have to be in control. Someone else is controlling everything and I just have to do what I'm told. It's a nice break from usually being the person who takes care of all the things.

2. What do you want people to know most about D/s relationships?
Real Doms care about and take care of their subs. It's not supposed to be an abusive relationship.

3. For you, does D/s need to have a sadist and masochist component?
No, I prefer it not to actually.

4. For you, does BDSM have to involve sex?
No, it's separate for me but it does for Husband and I'm okay with that. He just accepts that I'm going to be hanging out in subspace while he fucks me after a scene.

5. If you are in a D/s relationship, why do you need it?
I'm not really in one.

6. If you are not in a D/s relationship, would you like to be? Why?
Maybe. I'd consider it. I couldn't do it 24/7 though.

Bonus: What is the relationship between trust and vulnerability?
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable in front of someone means that you trust them not to hurt you.

TMI Tuesday: January 14, 2020

Time for TMI Tuesday questions – Would You Rather?




Ash:
1.Would you rather have one nipple or two belly buttons?
Hmmm, having two belly buttons to clean would be quite annoying. Though, having to breastfeed a baby with only one nipple available would be even more annoying. So, I'll take the extra belly button.

2. Would you rather always feel like someone is following you, but no one is, or always feel like someone is watching you, even though no one is?
I guess feeling like someone was watching me would cause less anxiety than feeling like someone was following me. I would think that someone following me would make me think they mean me harm. Someone watching me may just mean they are admiring me from afar.

3. Would you rather have sex in a cave frequented by tourists or sex in a treehouse in your parents’ backyard?
I think sex in a treehouse would be pretty hot. Sex in a cave sounds less hot because you would get a lot messier (dirt and such). Also, I really liked having sex in my in-laws' backyard.

4. Would you rather be unable to use search engines or unable to use social media?
I'd rather be without social media. I use search engines quite a bit. I don't want to have to go back to using dictionaries and encyclopedias.

5. Would you rather get one free round trip international plane ticket every year or be able to fly domestic anytime for free?
I'll take the free round trip international plane ticket every year. I would rather drive to domestic places.



Husband:
1.Would you rather have one nipple or two belly buttons?
I think I would rather have two belly buttons. I believe it would be because I am a special genetically engineered human that had cool powers like Kyle XY. At least that is the story I am going with and sticking to.

2. Would you rather always feel like someone is following you, but no one is, or always feel like someone is watching you, even though no one is?
As someone who has issues with paranoia both of these already really resonate with me. I don't think a day has gone by in years where either one of these has not felt like a reality. If I was forced to choose though, I would much rather feel like someone was watching me even if there was no one there; the level of tension and anxiety I get from that is much less than feeling like I am being followed.


3. Would you rather have sex in a cave frequented by tourists or sex in a treehouse in your parents’ backyard?
I have always wanted a treehouse, not for this reason, but just in general. I think the idea of having a treehouse in my parents' back yard and having sex in that treehouse would just be an incredible amount of fun.

4. Would you rather be unable to use search engines or unable to use social media?
I would rather be unable to use social media. I already have anxiety issues that only seem to have become worse as the last few years have rolled along, and I feel like I could almost easily sidestep the whole social thing without much of an issue. Not being able to search for any random thing I want to fall down a rabbit hole about though would drive me crazy. I love being able to search for things to my heart's content.

5. Would you rather get one free round trip international plane ticket every year or be able to fly domestic anytime for free?
I would much rather take an international trip. It is still relatively easy for me to pick up and go somewhere domestically, but leaving the country and going anywhere definitely takes the cake for me.

TMI Tuesday: January 7, 2020

Welcome to 2020 and to TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. What is the most useless thing you know how to do?
I can memorize the lyrics to a song after only hearing it once or twice and I remember it forever. I heard a song the other day that I hadn't heard since about 1995 and I still knew every word. This gets annoying when it's a song I can't stand. Then, I tend to sing it anyway and it gets stuck in my head.

2. Do you use sex to relieve stress? How?
I do. Actually, I am more likely to become stressed out if I haven't been having sex regularly. I need the stress fucked out of me for sure.

3. What sex act or position did not thrill you until you tried it?
Fisting. It was a hard limit for me for a long time. Then, Husband just did it one night and I realized that it was enjoyable. It makes me very sore for a few days though, so I don't have much sex for a few days after.

4. What is the most unusual but fun sexual encounter you have had?
I'm not sure that I've had an unusual sexual encounter that was fun. Either I'm boring or I just can't think of something right now. Either way, I've got nothing.

5. What is something that can happen in the middle of sex that will make you put on your clothes and walk out?
If someone said something disrespectful or degrading to me, I would walk out. That doesn't include my partner calling me a slut, which I actually enjoy.

Bonus: What was a random compliment that someone gave you that really stuck in your memory?
"Your voice is so soothing that listening to you read out loud makes me fall asleep."



Husband:
1. What is the most useless thing you know how to do?
I have higher than average balance when off the ground; climbing trees, on a roof, rafters of a building, etc.

2. Do you use sex to relieve stress? How?
Sex is always a stress relief for me, the connection and touch involved helps wash all the crap away, even if only temporarily.

3. What sex act or position did not thrill you until you tried it?
Fisting. The night I tried it for the first time with Wife, I had no actual plans to try it, I was just playing and fingering her. Then things just expanded and I got really into it and kept going until I was buzzing and shaking with excitement.

4. What is the most unusual but fun sexual encounter you have had?
I guess I am having a hard time thinking of an unusual sexual encounter. Maybe I don't feel like any of the sexual encounters I have had were unusual? This question has me seriously stumped.

5. What is something that can happen in the middle of sex that will make you put on your clothes and walk out?
Being humiliated or put down. It is an instant turn off for me, and it shuts all thoughts of sex down and I want to hide.

Bonus: What was a random compliment that someone gave you that really stuck in your memory?
Wife called me graceful when I jumped onto a stage from the ground, for some reason that has always stuck with me.

Sinful Sunday: Casting Shadows

It's the first Sunday of the month and the Sinful Sunday prompt is Shadows. So, here's some doggy-style from a different perspective.




Don't forget to give the lips a kiss and check out who else is sinning.