TMI Tuesday: August 28, 2018

Hello sexies! Welcome to TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. What type of clothes make you feel sexy?
a. a specially selected casual outfit
b. lingerie or silky pajamas
c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
d. anything that leaves me almost naked

I hardly ever feel sexy in my casual clothes. I sometimes feel sexy in lingerie but mostly, I just feel self conscious. I love dressing up in fancy clothes. Dresses and skirts make me feel sexy a lot of the time. So, C is my answer.

2. Which do you prefer?
a. pillow talk
b. sexy texting
c. love notes

I prefer pillow talk. It's my favorite way to connect to my partner. It doesn't even matter what we are talking about. I just love being close and confiding in one another.

3. Which do you do best?
a. pillow talk
b. sexting
c. writing love notes

Pillow talk. I suck at sexting even though I try really hard at it. I'm not great at writing love notes either, though I do like to do it every once in a while.

4. You've been granted just ONE of the following in your favorite city/place in the world. Which would you choose and why?
a. 24 hours of romance
b. 24 hours of lust (intense, overwhelming sexual desire but not acted upon mixed with enthusiasm for life)
c. 24 hours of sex

Well, fuck. Why can't we have all of this? That sounds like the best vacation ever. Right now, I could really use the romance. I'm feeling very disconnected and unimportant, so the romance would really help. The 24 hours of sex definitely needs to happen as well though.

5. How do you tap into your sexiness?

I flirt with people who will flirt back. That makes me feel sexy and I just build off of it from there.

Bonus: Which is better–your digital sex life or your in-the-flesh sex life?

Definitely my in-the-flesh sex life. There is a lot that happens that I don't write about. I should definitely get back in the habit of writing more.



Husband:
1. What type of clothes make you feel sexy?
a. a specially selected casual outfit
b. lingerie or silky pajamas
c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
d. anything that leaves me almost naked

c. elegant, dressy evening clothes
I love going out wearing my nice kilt with a dressed up top and a tie, sleeves rolled up slightly. I feel in tune with how I look when I am dressed nice.

2. Which do you prefer?
a. pillow talk
b. sexy texting
c. love notes

All three are incredible. Love notes hit my emotional heart, sexting gets me all stirred up sexually, and pillow talk is a fantastic way to connect.

3. Which do you do best?
a. pillow talk
b. sexting
c. writing love notes

c. writing love notes; I have a talent for writing at times when my heart and soul flows out of my fingers and onto paper (or the keyboard). It is a knack for occasionally pinning down exactly what I am feeling to express my love.
I practice at sexting, sometimes I feel like I do a really good job of it, other times like I miss the mark completely. I do my best to not let it get me down.
I fail at pillow talk a lot of the time because I can quickly go from being awake and having a conversation to being asleep and being talked at without realizing the change.

4. You've been granted just ONE of the following in your favorite city/place in the world. Which would you choose and why?
a. 24 hours of romance
b. 24 hours of lust (intense, overwhelming sexual desire but not acted upon mixed with enthusiasm for life)
c. 24 hours of sex

a. 24 hours of romance; Even though I want to say 24 hours of sex. Romance jumps out at me the most, with sex being right behind it. I crave the romantic and physical intimacy and I think that romance might have a better shot at doing that for me.

5. How do you tap into your sexiness?

I have to think about it. I have to mentally go through possibilities and ideas and scenarios to get a good tap into my sexiness on my own. So basically I have to prepare for it ahead of time. That being said, if someone else taps into my sexiness for me it can bring it up to the surface rather quickly.

Bonus: Which is better–your digital sex life or your in-the-flesh sex life?

Real life in-the-flesh sex life is better. I love my in-the-flesh sex life. There are peaks and valleys due to all the things that come with life, but I thoroughly deeply enjoy my actual sex life. Wife is truly fantastic as a partner and lover.

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Sinful Sunday: Birthday Spankings

Today is Husband's birthday! Happy birthday to him!

Last night, we went to a party full of kinky people. I told Husband to take off his pants and kneel on the spanking bench. Then, at midnight, I gave permission to 8 people to take turns giving him birthday spankings. Many impact toys were used on him and I really enjoyed watching. This was the result.




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TMI Tuesday: Aug. 21, 2018

Guess what time it is? Time to get TMI Tuesday sexy that’s what time.



1. What is sexy time to you?
When things turn sexual and sex acts happen.

2. Who’s sexier–women or men?
Women are far sexier than men. Men turn me on a lot but women turn me on so much more. Women are more attractive, softer, and taste better. Sorry, guys.

3. How did you learn to masturbate, and how old were you when you first succeeded?
I started masturbating when I was a very young child. The earliest I remember was when I was 4 years old. Honestly, I probably came out of the womb with my hand on my vulva. I was 14 when I had my first orgasm. Here is an excerpt from a post titled "Born a Nympho" in which I describe the first time I had an orgasm.

"One day I was sitting on the toilet masturbating, as I often did, and I felt this intense build-up and then a very powerful release. Pleasure shot through my body and I felt like I couldn't breathe. I whispered to myself, 'What the fuck was that?'"

4. Do you like taking naked photos of yourself?
Hmm, that's a tough one. I don't like taking naked photos of myself because I have self image issues. Sometimes when Husband is helping me take photos of myself, we get into arguments because I hate how I look in every picture. However, when I get a good picture, I am happy to share it. It helps my self esteem to hear/read positive feedback.

5. What is your biggest sexual fear?
I have a big fear of getting an STI. It's the thing that has stopped me from being more promiscuous than I am. I'm always as safe as possible but I still get nervous.

Bonus: To you, what does the ideal penis look like? (feel free to include artwork or photos).
I am a huge fan of average sized cock. A cock between 5-7 inches long is my favorite. If it has a slight upward curve to it, that's even better. An average girth is perfect. Nothing too slim that won't get the job done but also nothing too fat that will just hurt. I don't mind if it's cut or uncut as long as it's clean.

Something like this:


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Sinful Sunday: Strappy Mini Skirt

Remember that outfit that I wore during our last failed dp attempt? I posted the top of that outfit back in July.

Now, I've decided that I should post the bottom part of that outfit as well.





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TMI Tuesday: August 7, 2018

Greetings & Salutations.
Another TMI Tuesday presented today to jump-start your writing, jog your memory, and spur deep thought. It’s tricky…




Ash:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
Yes, I would say it is. I haven't been in love very many times but every time it has happened, it was effortless. Meaning, I fell before I even realized it was happening and there was nothing I could do to stop it.

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I think he is more like my mom than my dad but really not much like either of them. He has a kind heart and loves helping others like my mom.

3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My dad because he's addicted to sex as much as I am.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown our tiny apartment. It's too cluttered in here and I just need more space. I keep throwing things out but at this point, we don't have a lot of unnecessary things left and we just need a bigger place.

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A balance of both is good. If you push all the time, it's going to get overwhelming, however, if you always play it safe, then it gets boring.

Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
Yes. If we are in a relationship, I need you to confide in me so that I feel connected.



Husband:
1. Is falling in love effortless?
For me, it always has been. I cannot remember a time when I fell for someone and it didn't just happen, slowly at first, but gaining momentum as time goes by. It is usually the climbing back out that is hard.

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?
I would say that mom in the good ways. She is kind and caring, smart and loving, loyal and adventurous. I almost don't want to say this, but in some neutral ways, she is much like my dad. She loves to bake, is social, and is independent. I don't feel like she leans really heavily towards being too much like either of my parents though.

3. Which parent do you identify with most?
My mom. I think we are anxious, a little off in the head, we think outside the box, we are easily distracted. The older I get the more I realize just how similar my Ma and I are.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?
A house. We have outgrown each successive living arrangement we have had, even when supplemented by a storage unit. We just need more breathing room for all of the family, but also so that we can have a dog, and a larger area for our guinea pigs to have to live in.

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
A mix is important, though if I were pushed to definitively pick I would go with playing by the rules because I have a tendency to play things safe. I like expanding and exploring, but slowly. We have done this most of our relationship and for me slowly pushing the boundaries works best.

Bonus: Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?
I do. Unloading and connecting in this way has definitely been a life changing experience for me.

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Sinful Sunday: Delicious Reflection

It is Sinful Sunday and it just happens to be the first Sunday of the month. The prompt for August is "Include a camera in the shot." Husband had this wonderful picture on his phone already and I thought you might enjoy it.




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