TMI Tuesday: September 24, 2024

Happy Titty Tuesday

It's time for TMI Tuesday!

1. Answer Yes or No:

I Regret My First Kiss: Yes, because it was a dare. I would have rather had my first kiss with someone who actually wanted to kiss me.

I Miss My First Love: Yes, even though he doesn't deserve me because he's an abusive asshole.

I Married My First Love: No, he was the second person I have loved.

I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me: I loved someone who technically loved me but he is gay so, I guess not in the same way.

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?

I am polyamorous.

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?

a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.

b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…

c. That would never happen!

C. I would probably say, "I'm really tired so you have to do most of the work."

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?

I have never asked my partners this but the only partner I have done this next to is Husband. He has never expressed that he doesn't like it though.

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:

a. You are playful and tame

b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys

c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

Something between B and C.

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.

When Husband and I had phone sex while he was out of town for work. You can read about that here.

Sinful Sunday: Winding Down

It's my birthday weekend. I turned 41 on Friday. It seems so unreal to me that I'm basically middle aged now. I don't think I'll be slowing down anytime soon though. I still want all the sex I can get, please. 

I had a very good weekend full of lots of exciting activities. My whole polycule helped make it a special time for me. Come Sunday night though, I definitely needed a hot bath to wind down. My body is feeling 41. That's for sure. 

So, here I sit in this hot bath thinking about what a lucky girl I am to have so many people in my life who care about me. 

TMI Tuesday: September 10, 2024

As usual, we will start this off with a Titty Tuesday photo.

And now it's time for TMI Tuesday: College Stereotypes Edition

1) Have you ever been sexiled? (To be sexiled is to be denied the use of your room, usually dorm room, because someone is having sex there.)

I have never been sexiled but I have been known to sexile others a few times.

2) Were you ever hit on (propositioned) by someone in your circle of friends who knew you were in a relationship with someone else?

Yes, many times. My friends used to hit on me a lot. In their defense, I am polyamorous and I do really like fucking my friends.

3) Did you ever date someone for sex only, i.e. in hopes of a 1-night stand?

I have never been in search of a one-night stand, but I have dated someone just because I wanted sex. I much prefer having friends with benefits than random one-night stands.

4) Were you ever involved in a regrettable sexual incident where alcohol or drugs were involved?

I did give a lot of blow jobs when I was young because I was drunk. Alcohol makes Ash 10x more horny than normal Ash, if you can imagine that. Drunk Ash is a lot.

5) Did you ever see a porn movie in an actual movie theater? Did you ever see porn on home movie (8mm) before the age of videotape?

I have not done either of these.

6) Did you ever discuss the prowess of a sex partner with a friend? Did the friend also have a history with the same person?

I mean, I have a sex blog. I tell everyone about the prowess of my sex partners. Haha! But yes, before the blog times, I often told stories to my friends about my sex partners. I don't think the friends ever had a history with the same person though.

Bonus: Many heterosexuals ‘experiment’ in college by having their first same-sex encounter? If you are heterosexual did you have your first same-sex sexual experience in college? Did you like it? What did you do? Are you hetero-flexible or did you become bisexual?

I've been openly bisexual since I was 14 years old. I had my first kiss with a girl in college and I absolutely loved it. I was actually a bit obsessed for a while and masturbated often to thoughts of that girl. It never went further than that in college though. Not for lack of trying. I frequently hung out in gay bars and hit on women constantly. The plight of the bisexual though, is that lesbians rarely want to play with you because you also have sex with men. I dated a few women back then but the homosexual sexy times didn't happen until I was an adult.