My bestie invited me over to swim in her pool on my birthday last week. It really made my day since swimming is my second favorite activity. I took a few photos while I was there.
One of my favorite things about swimming is that my titties float and look super perky in the water.
TMI Tuesday wants to know–How do you boost sexual arousal?
Ash:
1. If your chest is hairless would you have a chest hair transplant?
I don't think I need hair on my chest, so no.
2. Are you the center of attention at parties?
I like to be the center of attention at parties. I rarely am though.
3. What libido-boosting foods do you believe in and use?
I don't believe in libido-boosting foods. What I should say is that I don't believe the food itself causes an increase in libido. Though, if eating a certain food makes you feel sexy or watching someone eat a certain food excites you, that works. I don't think there is really any food that does it for me but honestly, my libido is out of control as is. I don't need any help making it worse. Haha!
4. Do you ever get tired of talking about sex?
NEVER. I love talking about sex and I rarely get to do it anymore. I don't think Husband enjoys talking about sex and I don't really have any friends that enjoy talking about it. I don't even have a lot of people who interact with me on Twitter anymore. So, mostly, it just all lives in my head slowly driving me crazy.
5. How do you think your attitude toward sex differs from your partner’s attitude?
I'm very open about sex and Husband is more shy about it. I was raised in an environment where I could talk openly and excitedly about sex and he was raised to be ashamed of it, so I think that often influences our attitudes about it. I want to have sex with lots of different partners and he is content to only have sex with me. I've opened him up a lot over the years but he's still way more reserved than I am.
Bonus: Do you take your partner for granted?
Probably more than I realize. I am not great at making it known that I appreciate the things that he does because I'm so overwhelmed by all the things that I have to do and keep up with.
Husband:
1. If your chest is hairless would you have a chest hair transplant?
I'd be okay if I had a hairless chest. I don't believe I would feel the need to replace chest hair if it were suddenly gone.
2. Are you the center of attention at parties?
Fuck. I hope not. I do not care to be the center of attention in groups outside of family and really close friends. Even then sometimes it can be too much.
3. What libido-boosting foods do you believe in and use?
I don't believe that any foods boost libido. It could just be me.
4. Do you ever get tired of talking about sex?
Not really, no. I just don't tend to be the person to bring it up in a conversation.
5. How do you think your attitude toward sex differs from your partner’s attitude?
I think a great way to sum up our attitudes towards sex would be that mine is very unfocused, whereas Wife's is very focused. I think ultimately we do not have a differing attitude, just a different drive.
Bonus: Do you take your partner for granted?
I am sure that I do, however, I try very very hard to make it known just how much I appreciate Wife and all the things she does.
I had to take a break from sucking cock for a few months when I got my lip pierced in March. It's mostly healed now, so I've started to do it again.
Husband knows how much I love it when he chokes me with his cock. When he did that, I realized that taking a break from cock sucking had an unexpected consequence. It seems my gag reflex has returned. I'm definitely going to need a lot of practice in the near future.
While I'm disappointed that my deep-throating abilities have taken a hit, I have no doubts that they will once again be amazing. It's going to be rough getting there though. But oh how fun all the practice will be for Husband.
The Sinful Sunday prompt for September is "no humans."
My two favorite toys are featured here. You'll have to use your imagination to figure out what happened right before this photo was taken.
It's time for a TMI Tuesday blog confessional!
List 10 things you screwed up.
1) I spent too much time in my life worrying about keeping the number of sex partners I had in a low range instead of just enjoying myself and having sex with whomever I wanted to at the time.
2) I've given out way too many blow jobs to men who had no intention of ever pleasing me in return.
3) Allowing people to take advantage of me and/or fuck with my head. I am too nice to people who treat me horribly in return. I need to stop doing that.
4) I should have reported the teacher who tried to have sex with me in high school. I fear that he preyed on someone else after he was unsuccessful with me.
5) I wish I didn't convince Trystan to fuck me. He is very gay and I fear that I may have made him feel obligated at the time. I still feel guilty about that.
6) I should have partied more in college instead of wasting all that time studying for a degree that I don't even use.
7) Sex with the Doctor was a mistake. When I think about it now, there were so many red flags that I ignored.
8) Sex with G was also a mistake but the BDSM scene we had was so good that I think about it often. I wish we could have kept the kink without the sex.
9) I spent a ton of money on calling cards in high school so that I could have phone sex with random men from the internet. That was probably a poor choice.
10) When a band offered me money to record my moan to put on their album, I should have said yes. I'll forever regret that I didn't go for it.
Bonus: What do you need advice on?
How do I find someone who actually wants to have a relationship instead of people who ghost me after talking for 2 weeks?
A few weeks ago, Husband and I took a short trip to Kansas City. We stayed in a hotel while we were there. We shot a few videos for the OF but before that, he took some photos of me in one of my favorite lingerie outfits. I loved this shot.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from a past post from before I started participating.
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Pain and Pleasure
1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
Definitely pleasure. Sometimes I enjoy pain during sex, but I really have to be in the right mind space for it. I mostly enjoy pain during kink scenes when sex is not taking place.
2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?
I don't like being tickled...ever. Alright, that could be considered a lie. I am in love with the feeling of fingertips grazing my skin so softly that it feels like tiny tickles. I don't think that's actual tickling though. I get pretty violent when I get tickled. I thrash around and throw punches/kicks. It's not a good time for anyone.
3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
I have not used feathers during sex but I have used them during a sensation play scene. Mmmm. That feels so good.
4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
I'm indifferent about it. I know some people really get off on that. Either being blindfolded or blindfolding their partner. But it doesn't do anything for me. If my partner thinks it's hot, I'll go with it for their benefit.
5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
I am cold intollerant. I can't stand anything cold touching my skin. It's so painful. Heat though? I love it! I like when Husband warms up the glass toys in a cup of hot water before he uses them on me. I like when they touch my skin and when they are put inside me. Give me all the heat play. Yum!
6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
I love being spanked! Just not during sex. If I'm getting fucked and my partner smacks my ass, I find it very jarring and distracting. I'm fine with it before sex though. I very much love spankings during a kink scene and that really goes back to question 1. I don't enjoy giving spankings because I'm a hardcore sub, but I'll do it if my partner really wants it. I do playfully smack Husband's ass randomly though.
7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
I have never come up with a good safeword that I really liked. I will use the stoplight method though. Green for good, yellow for caution (it's getting close to being too intense), and red for stop.
Dendrophilia is the love of trees. Husband loves trees more than anyone I know. He is very passionate about them. This is what he had to say about it:
For as long as I can remember, I have felt a connection to Mother Nature. I have felt welcomed and at home in the woods and the forests I've visited. To me, the strongest icon of nature has always been a tree. There is something so comforting to me about being close to trees. I'm visually drawn in each and every time. I've always loved to climb trees, play in their branches, make swords from their fallen limbs, and jump into great piles of raked leaves. I've dreamed of having a tree house. I'm obsessed with art involving trees in a way I'm not sure I can explain. I love to touch trees when I pass by them. I love to feel the leaves as they hang off the branches. I love to hear the wind sigh in contentment as it blows through the boughs up in the sky. It's difficult for me to accurately put into words all the feelings that trees pull from me, I just truly love trees.
I'm not as passionate about trees as Husband. I am much more attracted to water, however, I do still have a lot of love for trees. As a kid, I would see a cool tree and just have to give it a big hug and touch its bark. I love being in the middle of the woods surrounded by trees and nature. I love how fresh the air smells and how shaded it is from the bright sun. I adore the sound of the wind blowing through the leaves on a warm summer night. I get excited to hear the sound of a storm blowing violently through those same leaves. One of the best things is camping in the middle of the woods surrounded by trees. It is a great way to relax and let go of all the stresses of life.
My favorite trees are ones that are shaped in unnatural ways. Trees that grow sideways, trees that grow around or engulf things, or trees that just look different than you're used to seeing. There is a tree near where I live that appears to grow sideways. It's a very crooked catalpa tree and I am obsessed with it. It's just magnificent!
It's safe to say that Husband and I share a love of trees, but do we have a tree fetish or kink? Probably not. Though, I have always had a fantasy about being tied to a tree and beaten. I also very much love being pushed up against a tree while getting fucked. I think it's more about being sexual in nature than about the actual trees though. Regardless of the reason for liking it, it is very sinful and incredibly sexy.
The Sinful Sunday prompt for the month of August is Drink. I came up with this crazy idea to soak myself in wine and then spent two weeks trying to talk myself out of it. I finally decided to just go for it. Thankfully, Husband was totally on board with it and did everything he could to help.
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It's that time again! Time for TMI Tuesday.
I've been away for a while, so here I am slipping back into it.
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| I mean, I wouldn't fault you for being attracted to me for my body |
1. Would you rather be attracted to for your body or your mind?
Hmm, that's a really tough question. If I'm looking to be in a relationship with someone, I would rather them be more attracted to my mind, or at least equally so. For everyone else, I don't mind if they are attracted to me for my body. I do hope that they enjoy my mind as well though.
2. What would be more embarrassing for you out in public–to be seen tripping or adjusting your “package”?
Well, I adjust my boobs all the time in public. I don't really care who sees me. Should I? It's my body and I can touch it whenever I want. I do hate tripping in front of people though. I have done it often because my body is too flexible, which makes my ankles roll easily. I'm always super embarrassed about it. I'm not sure why we are embarrassed about stuff like that though.
3. If you are going to be famous what is it for?
I've always wanted to write books and be famous for them. I doubt that is in my future though.
4. Would you rather urinate in a port-a-potty or the nearest bush?
Well, that depends on a lot of things. Am I far away from the nearest port-a-potty? How badly do I have to pee? Am I wearing a dress or skirt? That would make squatting in a bush a lot easier. Do I have something to wipe with after I pee in the bush? You know, it's probably just easier to go to the port-a-potty. Though, in a pinch, I'm not opposed to squatting in a bush.
5. What new beginning are you excited about?
I'm pretty excited about this new thing with DJ. I can't wait to see where that goes. There's not much else new or exciting in my life.
Bonus: Burrito or Tamale
I'm probably the odd one here but I don't like tamales. I'll take the burrito.
