Tuesday, January 15, 2019

TMI Tuesday: January 15, 2019

Do your thang! TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. Who has the tendency to hold a grudge – you or your significant other?
Though we will both hold a grudge if someone really fucks us over, I think I'm more likely to hold on to it longer and feel more strongly about it.

2. The last time you had sex, was it meaningful (making love) or trivial (getting a much needed fuck)?
It was something in the middle of those two. It was sex with my husband, so there was love behind it. I don't know if I'd describe it as making love though. I was definitely getting fucked but it still meant something.

3. Do you have sex with your eyes open or closed?
Honestly, I usually have my eyes closed. Occasionally I will make eye contact but it never lasts long. I tend to like to get lost in what's happening to my body, so I close my eyes.

4. When arguing with a loved one, who is most likely to “hit below the belt*” first?
*attacking your partner’s character or something personal about them.

We don't argue like that. Sometimes our voices raise more loudly than they should but it's never hateful or demeaning. We just explain our feelings to each other and work it out.

5. Is sex with your best friend a dream come true or the worst nightmare?
I've had a few best friends in the past. I had sex with most of them and the ones I didn't, I wanted to. Sometimes it was a good idea and sometimes it wasn't. I'd never say that it was a nightmare though.

Bonus: Share with us your best tip for making your online dating profile standout.
I like to read about what makes you unique. Don't try to be like everyone else.



Husband:
1. Who has the tendency to hold a grudge – you or your significant other?
I feel like I tend to hold onto things long after they should be let go, regardless of the slight or who was the one who slighted me. I have been working through this and trying hard to not let things continue to bother me after the issue has been resolved.

2. The last time you had sex, was it meaningful (making love) or trivial (getting a much needed fuck)?
I don't think I ever really have sex without it being a combination of the two, leaning usually more heavily towards meaningful sex. The last time was really wanting to please Wife enough in the hopes of getting squirted. I wasn't disappointed.

3. Do you have sex with your eyes open or closed?
Almost always with my eyes open. I love to see what I doing.

4. When arguing with a loved one, who is most likely to “hit below the belt*” first?
*attacking your partner’s character or something personal about them.

I feel like when we argue neither one of us is most likely to do this. We have heard many times from many people and family members that we don't argue like everyone else. Our arguments weird people out, because they aren't what people are used to.

5. Is sex with your best friend a dream come true or the worst nightmare?
Seeing as how Wife is my best friend, it is a fucking dream come true!

Bonus: Share with us your best tip for making your online dating profile standout.
Strange things stand out to me so something like that. Not long dialogues explaining strange things, but closer to one liners that identify a strange or weird thing.

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Sunday, January 6, 2019

Sinful Sunday: Fingers

It's Sinful Sunday and the prompt for the month of January is "Letter F."

I think most of you are aware of my hand fetish. I spend a lot of time staring at the fingers of random people. I imagine those fingers touching my soft skin. I imagine them inside me. I imagine what they would taste like. I often get very caught up in those thoughts. Sometimes I find it extremely difficult to focus on conversations with people who talk with their hands. It's incredibly distracting and I just can't help it.

This is why I just had to go with FINGERS for this month's prompt.




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Sunday, October 14, 2018

Sinful Sunday: I Am Bisexual

Last week was prompt weekend for Sinful Sunday. I didn't get to post last weekend, so I'm posting it now.

The first thing that came to mind when I saw the prompt "I am..." was that I am bisexual. I love sex with men AND women very much. Definitely women a little moreso than men.

I tried to capture all of that here.





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Tuesday, September 18, 2018

TMI Tuesday: September 18, 2018

Welcome to sexy fun and playfulness at TMI Tuesday.




Ash:
1. Which animal listed below represents your true sexual self?
a. Chipmunk – cute and cuddly
b. Monkey – all about being mischievousness
c. Tiger – I’ve earned my stripes

I would have to say mostly monkey with a little bit of chipmunk. I'm definitely mischievous during sex. During foreplay, I can be pretty cute sometimes.

2. Your partner is in the mood for sexy fun and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!

I don't do very well with lack of sleep. So, if I have to be up really early, I may say, "Not tonight" or that we can have a quickie. If sleep isn't an issue, then it doesn't matter if I'm tired. I'll still have sex.

3. Which of these sexual descriptive labels closely matches you?
a. Dominant
b. Submissive
c. Top
d. Bottom
e. Switch
f. Kinkster

Submissive. I have tried to be a switch but dominance just isn't in me.

4. Would you rather have your enemy eaten by a shark or die in an earthquake getting swallowed up by earth?
They both sound like pretty quick deaths. What's the point? I guess if I had to pick one, it would be the shark. At least the shark gets a meal.

5. For the next year, would you rather be dressed like a mime every day OR look normal but not be allowed to talk?
I'd dress like a mime. I don't talk much normally but I'd definitely like to be able to talk.

Bonus: What’s the most beautiful word in the world?
Melancholy



Husband:
1. Which animal listed below represents your true sexual self?
a. Chipmunk – cute and cuddly
b. Monkey – all about being mischievousness
c. Tiger – I’ve earned my stripes

Monkey; I definitely have a strong mischievous side, it tends to be exciting.

2. Your partner is in the mood for sexy fun and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!

B; trading favors for sexy fun is always great. Sometimes I am tired and may be extra sleepy, but I never have the mindset of "there is no way I'm giving it up tonight."

3. Which of these sexual descriptive labels closely matches you?
a. Dominant
b. Submissive
c. Top
d. Bottom
e. Switch
f. Kinkster

I think sometimes I feel like a switch, but I spend the majority of the time as a top.

4. Would you rather have your enemy eaten by a shark or die in an earthquake getting swallowed up by earth?
I am going to get dark here because I feel like I need more information. How big is the shark? Do they die from multiple bites or just one large one? How long are they aware and alive while being eaten by the shark? Do they die immediately from the earthquake, or do they slowly suffer buried alive? Do they have other injuries that would make their suffering last longer? To both, do I get to watch?

5. For the next year, would you rather be dressed like a mime every day OR look normal but not be allowed to talk?
I could dress like a mime for a year. Talking, even though it is not my strong suit, is preferable to not talking.

Bonus: What’s the most beautiful word in the world?
Bonus: Willow, Oblivion, Velvet

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Sunday, September 16, 2018

Sinful Sunday: Trickle

I took this picture a couple months ago for Jack. I came across it again today and decided to share it with you.





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Tuesday, September 11, 2018

TMI Tuesday: September 11, 2018

Deja vu TMI Tuesday as these questions were originally posted November 18, 2014. Except this is my first time doing this one, so it doesn't matter.




Fill in the blank

Ash:
1. When I can’t sleep I _____ .
Catch up on Twitter and/or masturbate

2. My dream bedroom would be full of _____ .
Kinky toys, mirrors, and lots of goth furnishings

3. If I could wake up anywhere tomorrow it would be _____ .
California

4. I need to _____ at night.
Be held
I have a lot of anxiety at night because of my C-PTSD. Having someone there to hold me helps to calm my anxiety.

5. _____ would truly be a nightmare.
Living alone
I would never make if I had to live alone. I have way too much anxiety when I'm alone.

6. Night time is the right time to _____ .
Have outdoor sex
I imagine you're less likely to be seen and caught. That's one thing that I really fantasize about a lot but I'm terrified of getting caught and having to register as a sex offender.

Bonus: Briefly tell us about your last dream–erotic or not.
I had a dream last night that my ex-bestfriend was my friend again. We were hanging out like old times and we had an intense make out session. It was such a realistic dream that when I woke up from it, I was crushed to realize it wasn't reality.



Husband:
1. When I can’t sleep I _____ .
Lay down and usually overthink

2. My dream bedroom would be full of _____ .
Four poster bed, chest for toys, mirrors

3. If I could wake up anywhere tomorrow it would be _____ .
Ireland. Or somewhere wild in Europe.

4. I need to _____ at night.
Cuddle and be touched

5. _____ would truly be a nightmare.
Losing my family

6. Night time is the right time to _____ .
Stare at the sky over a bonfire

Bonus: Briefly tell us about your last dream–erotic or not.
I can't remember the last dream I had.

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Sunday, September 2, 2018

Sinful Sunday: Macro Lips

It's the first Sunday of the month, so that means it's prompt time for Sinful Sunday. This month's prompt is macro photography.

I played around with a few ideas for this. After taking quite a few pictures of my clitoris, I wasn't brave enough to post any of them. So, Husband said he wanted to take a picture of my mouth, which he claims is very sexy. I hope you think so too.




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