It's time for TMI Tuesday: Happy Endings Edition.
Ash:
1. What is the best way you like to be brought to orgasm?
I guess that answer depends on what kind of orgasm we are talking about. If we are talking about a clitoral orgasm, then I love anything to do with hands and fingers. Rubbing my clit with your fingers is definitely a good way to make me cum very hard. I can also have an orgasm from vaginal penetration. For that, my favorite thing is to be fucked very hard. That's sure to induce a fountain of pleasure.
2. What is the best way to make you orgasm quickly?
I'm not really sure how to answer that. I'm very orgasmic. If you're putting effort into what you're doing, I will cum over and over and over again pretty easily and quickly. So, I guess that's the answer. Be passionate and put effort into what you're doing. Make noises to show how much I'm turning you on or how much you are enjoying having sex with me. If you do that, it will be a very good time.
3. What is the typical or usual way that a lover chooses to bring you to orgasm?
I feel like my partners usually want to give me cunnilingus to make me orgasm. I'm not saying that I don't enjoy oral sex. I really do. It's just not a way that will get me off quickly. If you finger my pussy at the same time, it will go quicker but it will still take a while. And I definitely don't cum as hard from oral sex.
4. After a night of sexy play, how do you like to end the evening?
I'll be honest, after sex I'm usually the one that is passing out. All those orgasms make me tired. My favorite thing to do after a night of sex is to cuddle and sleep close together even if it's just for a little nap. My other favorite thing is that Husband always gets a warm wet washcloth to clean me up after we have sex and that makes me feel very loved and cared for. Sometimes I'm already passed out by the time he comes back and he wakes me up. Haha!
5. Have you ever been given a “happy ending” from a professional (e.g., Tantric massage) or at an erotic massage parlor?
Nope. I've never experienced any of that.
Bonus: Do you like to give erotic “happy endings”? Tell us about your technique.
I'm assuming this means that I give someone an orgasm after I massage them? Usually, this is the other way around for me. But I would not be opposed to doing that if it's someone I had an intimate relationship with. I would prefer to give a blow job but I'd also be up for other ideas.
Husband:
1. What is the best way you like to be brought to orgasm?
The way I best like to be brought to orgasm is to be ridden. There is something about having Wife on top of me grinding away all wet and slippery, me pounding up into Wife, bodies smacking together, her moaning and making wonderfully intimate noises that pull at me. Wife crying out her pleasure, her spilling warmth all over my body and me going and filling her with my hot wet mess.
2. What is the best way to make you orgasm quickly?
I believe the best way to get me to orgasm quickly is a little bit of foreplay, a lot of mental buildup and excitement about getting to dive into sex, and then just a smidge of being forced to wait a teenie bit longer before being allowed to slide into a wet pussy. From there going hard and fast, almost pulling all the way out with each stroke, and slamming home where hip hits hip.
3. What is the typical or usual way that a lover chooses to bring you to orgasm?
The typical way to bring me to orgasm is through sex, almost always one way or another actual penetrative sex is involved. Most of the time it is continuing penetration until orgasm, other times it is getting right to the point of orgasm and I finish with my hand. I have never finished by oral, no matter how much I have wished I could. I am still hopeful that one day this can happen.
4. After a night of sexy play, how do you like to end the evening?
After a night of sexy play, I will typically do a little cleanup, and grab a small sweet snack and a drink before rushing back to the bed to bathe in the warmth and scents of pleasure achieved. When I get the opportunity to lay down and fall asleep in a wet spot that I helped to make that is the absolute best and my favorite.
5. Have you ever been given a “happy ending” from a professional (e.g., Tantric massage) or at an erotic massage parlor?
I have only had one, maybe two, professional massages. None of which resulted in a happy ending. With the difficulty I have orgasming a "happy ending" for me would involve straight-up sex, and that is not something I am comfortable with. If this was with a partner I would definitely be all for a happy ending after a massage!
Bonus: Do you like to give erotic “happy endings”? Tell us about your technique.
I like to transition massages into potential happy endings when it is okay. Using my strength to tease out the little pleasure noises by working through the muscles and tension is highly intoxicating to me and I do my best to hold all of that in. I enjoy the switch of unlocking the physical tightness and going into a wet tightness.
