tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8951592763171198224.post6566824204722097974..comments2024-03-04T08:46:09.546-06:00Comments on Live vicariously through a nympho: Incoherent RamblingsSexilicious Ashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02249173644041609582noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8951592763171198224.post-27770179121508070432018-02-28T11:59:19.008-06:002018-02-28T11:59:19.008-06:00I feel this. All of it.
There is this...expectati...I feel this. All of it.<br /><br />There is this...expectation(?)...around polyamory, I think - a myth, really - that if you're "really" poly, you're somehow having ALL THE SEX (with All The People!) ALL THE TIME!<br /><br />I purposely don't identify as poly and this is part of the reason why. Connection is imperative for me. 'Available' does not equate to 'good fit'. And really... It's a LOT of work, both in keeping the primary relationship strong/healthy/communicative, and in developing new relationship(s), all without exhausting yourself.<br /><br />I've written a couple blog posts about my experiences with non-monogamy, mostly because I feel like the "It's awesome!" (until it's NOT because everything is falling apart) is the only narrative I ever see, and that's not my experience at all. I'll put a link below to one of them if you're interested.<br /><br />This journey is never the same for any two people, not even if those two people are married to each other. xoxo<br /><br />http://mrsfever.com/2015/09/25/adventures-in-non-monogamy/<br />Mrs Feverhttp://mrsfever.comnoreply@blogger.com